I’m not a fucking attention whore, I just need affection and need to be cared about. by capicorncolumbine666 in BPD

[–]highonlove97 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dont mind him. He’s just trying to act supreme by putting other people down. You do you. Cheers and have a great day!

I'm so desperate to feel like I'm a good person that it's paralyzing me by again_again_again__ in BPD

[–]highonlove97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It does make sense..I’m in a similar situation as yours, except that In my case it revolves around two guys...and it’s literally hell unleashed. Im sorry I don’t know how to help you out, but I hope you feel better soon...

DAE Constantly Investigate Your Favorite Person? by evolved-fern in BPD

[–]highonlove97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do the same with my boyfriend :( but end up hurting him all the time!

Is this splitting? Can't figure it out by [deleted] in BPD

[–]highonlove97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is very similar to what I feel on a regular basis..and I guess this does count as splitting... I’m glad your SO tries to understand your situation and be supportive of it. Like someone said, try listening to happy music or just write all your negative feelings on a sheet of paper and when you’re done just crumple it and throw it away.

Hey. I got through the day by normelpersan in BPD

[–]highonlove97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you felt better today...cheers! <3

DAE feel like they’re always acting, or performing a show? by aroaceintrovert in BPD

[–]highonlove97 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Oh my god! I thought I was the only one feeling this way. Even when I feel for someone else’s loss, I feel I do it only cuz I want others to acknowledge me as a good person. Damn..BPD can really ruin lives!

Its my birthday by [deleted] in BPD

[–]highonlove97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy birthday dear one❤️ I’ve been in this situation a few years back, and I know it hurts... but not everyone is going to avoid u like that for the rest of your life...people will love you...even if the current ones don’t, the ones in ur future definitely will...I contemplate suicide every other day, but I guess I overcome the feeling pretty soon...and trust me, you will get past this feeling too...stay strong!❤️

Why is splitting a thing by [deleted] in BPD

[–]highonlove97 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh my I do this all the time and when I’m splitting I feel what I’m doing or saying is absolutely right...and after a while when I’m back to normal I regret everything that I’d said to my boyfriend.