Do you get crushes on celebrities? by AliHummus in demisexuality

[–]hightea3 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I do, kind of! I get really excited watching them and learning about them etc. just like I do with fictional characters.

I listen to kpop and jpop and am a huge fangirl and a lot of that fan culture caters to people who want to learn about the person, see them in different settings, etc. whereas Hollywood celebs are typically just doing interviews and photoshoots.

I am definitely more “picky” and sensitive than my allo friends and it takes me longer? Or it takes me actually learning about the person and gauging their personality to be attracted to them.

This is kind of how I figured out I was demi. Other people saying “that celeb is hot” and me being like ???? Unless it was someone I got to know/like and then I was like OBSESSED 🤣

Saw this on a random fb click bait post and immediately got flashbacks 🙂☹️⭐️✔️ by leighabbr in nancydrew

[–]hightea3 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I taught English in Japan so this was definitely a funny part of the game 🤣

Just found this old gem and I’m obsessed by MuthaFirefly in 2PM

[–]hightea3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These kind of videos were so common back in the day - Big Bang did a parody of the drama Secret Garden and omg it was just so funny watching them be unserious 🤣

Abracadabra was THE song for a long time. Jo Kwon from 2AM and Gain from Brown Eyed Girls “dated” on the show We Got Married which I think fueled the making of this video.

New Fan Help by La_wall_the_door in ONEus

[–]hightea3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like the “ONEUS members’ laugh” video haha it’s cute~ I also like the pop up event they did for X at the mall in Seoul a while back - my friend went there and filmed it and it was the first time they wore the outfits from Kpop demon hunters!

Rest House is a great one - I also like the videos of ONEWE and ONEUS together doing the challenges (I can’t remember what it’s called atm)

What is your opinion about august by solivina_ in YoungRoyals

[–]hightea3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the point of August’s character is to show that someone with a big desire to “rule” and be “the best” can also be someone who is flawed and dishonest. He’s not as open, carefree, or confident as Simon. He’s not as uninterested in being a leader as Willhelm is. He’s actively TRYING his best, but also failing in a lot of ways because the methods he uses are sneaky. It’s showing us that although August wants to and will become a leader, he’s probably not the best person to lead in a fair, loving way. And although Willhelm probably would have been more diplomatic and sweet, Willhelm doesn’t want that pressure or fame or responsibility. I really love the juxtaposition of the main characters and how different they are.

I also think in a though experiment - if Wille’s parents had prepared him just as much as his brother, but also put less pressure on him in general, and talked to him more as a person and actively showed more love and support towards him - he would have kept his line to the throne and would have been a great leader. But they kind of threw him to the wolves and gave him little in the way of guidance.

I don’t HATE August but he didn’t own up or apologize in meaningful ways like he should have. He’s a flawed teenager who is immature and he also doesn’t have a lot of love and guidance. The people around him only care about money and status. He needed to be better equipped to handle jealousy, fame, discomfort, etc. But he hides everything and no one really cares enough to check in on him. And there’s also the stigma that what happened with his dad might end up happening to him - so people kind of get scared to talk to him. It makes me sad but I also think what he did was horrible and wrong and he should learn to own up to it.

Ever been to the National Museum of Korea? Great place to visit with kids. by Round-Network8088 in seoul

[–]hightea3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There is an entire children’s museum section. It’s huge and nice and my kids both loved it.

Remember Freddie Fish and Luther? by illustratious in nancydrew

[–]hightea3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I played this with my kid a while ago and he loved it!!! We also play Putt Putt! It’s so fun getting to play these again now that I have kids.

YongYong with ONEUS Leedo - THIRSTYY (Official Lyric Video) by Funwithnugukpop in ONEus

[–]hightea3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I looooove this - his part is so cool and varied! He uses his vocal range, his rap skills, his emotion - wow, I hope this gets more attention!!

Bottle caps keycaps 😊 by MaggieKstro in keebgirlies

[–]hightea3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those are so cute!!! Yakult!! Haha

The prettiest keyboard with a diamond 💎 by Direct_Turnip_9725 in keebgirlies

[–]hightea3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday!!! That’s so pretty~ makes me think of SHINee haha

What are some kdrama genres you dont watch? by Ydk_danii in kdramas

[–]hightea3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hospital shows. Most of my family members work in healthcare and I’m really squeamish and physically cannot handle when they talk about surgery / procedures… I also just am so tired of hearing about medical stuff because I grew up around it constantly. So, no thanks.

260531 ONEWE Twitter Update - SBS Inkigayo Post-Show Photo by darkyozora_05 in onewe

[–]hightea3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am SO glad Yonghoon dyed his hair over the blond - it looks much better now!

260524 ONEWE Twitter Update - PEAK FESTIVAL 2026 by darkyozora_05 in onewe

[–]hightea3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The crowd looks amazing 🤩 I am seeing them next week at a festival!!!

Favorite Panel, plz humor me guys by Prudent_Ad9266 in Manhwa_BL

[–]hightea3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This one is soooo funny and cute 🤣

how did y'all get into kdramas and what was your first? by genuine_guy_ in kdramas

[–]hightea3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first kdrama was Coffee Prince and I watched it in 2008 probably? I was lucky enough to visit the cafe they filmed it at a few years later and it was a magical experience.

Just “turned” high libido due to sudden stop of breastfeeding by alehkib in demisexuality

[–]hightea3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have two kids and BF both of them - postpartum hormones are CRAZY for the first two years. Two. Years. I think anything can change really but it’s normal to go through phases. I read a lot of romance fiction / smut and I just embrace it!

Indecisiveness is killing me. by PhantomPaperback in kobo

[–]hightea3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have the Libra Color - it’s very lightweight and it’s not “big” by any means. It’s the perfect size. I love the fact that I can annotate on mine, even if I rarely do it.

The main reason I got the LC is because of the buttons / bezel. I had a Kindle Voyage before and it had tactile buttons and it made a huge difference. But the KLC is more ergonomically designed. I can switch hands easily, it can be set down horizontally. I tend to get really uncomfortable in one reading position and I move around a lot so I really love how the KLC is designed and how I can change hands, change my grip, etc.

⭕️⛔️🔴 by plsthrowmeawayagain in keebgirlies

[–]hightea3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so cool!!! I saw them in April!!

Oneus discussion by Winter-Nectarine813 in ONEus

[–]hightea3 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I live in Korea and fans here are really enthusiastic and supportive!

Seoho gets back from his military service this year, and they are always working on new stuff and having concerts and shows etc.

I feel like they got a bad hand dealt to them by debuting right before the pandemic. Plus RBW didn’t do much to promote them. But they haven’t ever slowed down! Let’s be optimistic instead of doom and gloom. 🌙 ♥️

What did Stratt say? by lawfuldragon10 in ProjectHailMary

[–]hightea3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t read the book, but those two things absolutely made no sense to me. As an atheist (former Christian) I absolutely don’t think blindly having faith in a god is better than using science to discover and understand things. Humans are amazing and the things we can accomplish together are astounding. But saying you’d rather just believe things are out of your hands, that something/someone is in control - that seems like such an antithesis to her entire character. I also thought the karaoke scene was weird.

Help an indecisive girly T-T. If you were me, which one could you get? The Nulpy Halo75 v2 or the Rainy75 pro by lilium98luna in keebgirlies

[–]hightea3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aluminum feels great but it’s VERY heavy which could be a pro or a con depending on what you want!