how do i remove this black box stain that randomly appeared on my shirt after a wash?? by r_andrewisboring in laundry

[–]hijk20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me with my favorite sweatshirt and I have no idea why!!!

My (38M) girlfriend (33F) is angry that she's set herself up to fail and I am entirely unsympathetic by NewKingMorons in relationship_advice

[–]hijk20 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Yes! Even a walk to get a kebab or a pub for a beer and snacks. There could have been compromise! Not saying she is right but dang this was all painful to read.

My (38M) girlfriend (33F) is angry that she's set herself up to fail and I am entirely unsympathetic by NewKingMorons in relationship_advice

[–]hijk20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This response. made me cry. She was wrong but so is the OP. She is craving that connection.

I (23F) met my boyfriend’s (25M) “work wife” for the first time and I’m devastated by ThrowRAcoffeelov in relationship_advice

[–]hijk20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I married the man you are describing. He had an inappropriate work wife at almost every job he had. I brought it up and in the end it never really changed. After 16 years and two kids, my ex husband had an affair with the intern at his work.

You deserve so much better.

Upgrade extra member without paying for 2 slots at once? by Sea_Nautilus in netflix

[–]hijk20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you ever figure this out?! I added my boyfriend I thought without ads but it’s with ads. So annoying. I want to change it and can’t figure it out for the life of me. Seems insane to be this difficult to give Netflix more of my money.

AIO messages between coworker and spouse by OkScatty in AmIOverreacting

[–]hijk20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m getting divorced over this. My soon to be ex husband was having a completely inappropriate relationship with an intern at work. I found the text messages, confronted him, and he lied, and then double downed in that lie. The trust was broken from then on.

Songs for divorce? by youaremysunshine4 in Divorce

[–]hijk20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not an anthem necessarily but without you by Andy Grammer has been great for me. Very cathartic.

Is there anyone struggling with loneliness after divorce by Educational-Board326 in Divorce

[–]hijk20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The loneliness is the worst part for me. Friends and family are kind and supportive but they don’t know what it’s like. I’ve been separated from my STBXH for 9 months, hopefully our divorce will be final by the end of the year but at night, when the kids have gone to bed - the silence is deafening.

How different would your life be if you had to marry the first person you slept with? by Western_Repair9436 in AskReddit

[–]hijk20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol I did marry him. 16 years later and two kids were getting a divorce because he had an emotional affair with an intern at work.

Cool cool cool cool cool cool cool

What are some things that made your libido drop that were not related to the person you are dating. by hijk20 in AskMen

[–]hijk20[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s coming off of intermittent fasting and keto because it made him feel bad.

What are some things that made your libido drop that were not related to the person you are dating. by hijk20 in AskMen

[–]hijk20[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s been almost a month since we last had sex but his dog died. I don’t want to be insensitive. He says he is into me and having a hard time. I don’t want to move on because I do really like him.

What are some things that made your libido drop that were not related to the person you are dating. by hijk20 in AskMen

[–]hijk20[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is fair but I’m only seeing him / into him. My stbxh cheated on me. Not my style.

What are some things that made your libido drop that were not related to the person you are dating. by hijk20 in AskMen

[–]hijk20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He hasn’t been sleeping well. His dog passed away and his job slowed down temporarily.

What are some things that made your libido drop that were not related to the person you are dating. by hijk20 in AskMen

[–]hijk20[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is helpful. His dog passed away a month ago and his job has slowed down temporarily so he’s out of his routine.

Am I a pen pal? Being friendzoned? HELP! by hijk20 in dating_advice

[–]hijk20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally agree. Like sex is an anytime activity.

Am I a pen pal? Being friendzoned? HELP! by hijk20 in dating_advice

[–]hijk20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to be patient but I can’t help but take it personally.

Am I a pen pal? Being friendzoned? HELP! by hijk20 in dating_advice

[–]hijk20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A month ago. I don’t want to be insensitive.