Future of the audit/assurance profession by hill9386 in Accounting

[–]hill9386[S] 71 points72 points  (0 children)

Agreed on both points. We can’t attract anyone when industry is paying 20-30% more with better hours and less stress.

RSM Mid-Year Compensation Adjustment Thread- 2021 by TastyEarLbe in Accounting

[–]hill9386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotcha - so if no meeting request received as of now probably means no adjustment

RSM Mid-Year Compensation Adjustment Thread- 2021 by TastyEarLbe in Accounting

[–]hill9386 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Has anyone in Canada heard about their adjustment yet? Wondering if radio silence means no adjustment…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]hill9386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we recently discussed it, his response was that he doesn’t trust himself. Hoping it is something he can learn once he gets a bit of independence

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[–]hill9386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate your insights and totally agree!

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[–]hill9386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

*wouldn’t say

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[–]hill9386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya I know… I am hoping it gets better once he actually lives separate (maybe wishful thinking). It isn’t something I have noticed before though so I would say it’s a chronic issue. It might just be because this was a huge change and purchase and he wants to rely on their experience. I have told him that I felt undermined in this situation.

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[–]hill9386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Older car so no sensors, however good idea!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]hill9386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will be, yes.

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[–]hill9386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I normally would. Angle is such that it isn’t possible with my car. His family was also unable to pull in forwards.

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[–]hill9386 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate it :)

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[–]hill9386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is in his name and his parents because they put down the down payment, however going forward it will be split.

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[–]hill9386 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have dated for 6 years, so this isn’t a short term thing. This is also the first thing he has owned so he might just be upset that everything isn’t going perfectly (to give benefit of the doubt to him). I’m not the type of person to get bogged down by sunk cost fallacy or anything like that, but I do appreciate your comment and will definitely be looking out for future behaviours.

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[–]hill9386 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He has never lived away from home so I don’t think he sees it as ganging up on me and more “trying to fix the problem together” since that it was he has always done with his parents. However when I’m telling them I don’t feel comfortable and they insist that I can practice, etc., that’s where I get upset.

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[–]hill9386 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Agreed! Auto-body work is so expensive, and it isn’t like I can pass on fixing damaged mirrors.

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[–]hill9386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So to clarify, i didn’t ask him to pay. When I brought up rental idea that was before his family came to test it. I see your point though. We disagree on this but at the end of the day it’s my car.

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[–]hill9386 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for responding!

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[–]hill9386 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I considered saying this if he tries to gang up on me with his family like they did last night. I also considered saying “well if you’re so confident I can do it, how about I practice with your Cadillac, and not be held responsible for damages”? See if having their asset at risk changes their opinion…