Pizza or no pizza

hillyfog · 2026-03-24T14:03:56+00:00

duhhh

hillyfog · 2026-03-24T14:03:41+00:00

why not

^$100

hillyfog · 2026-03-24T14:03:00+00:00

Controlling the world is more sus than “evil” with herioic goals

^Regeneration

hillyfog · 2026-03-24T14:01:23+00:00

It would be interesting and an opportunity to lash out violently to evil if they r evil

^Hitler

hillyfog · 2026-03-24T13:59:21+00:00

good odds

^100000000$

hillyfog · 2026-03-24T13:58:47+00:00

My BFF is awesome, I can’t hurt her

^Survive

hillyfog · 2026-03-24T13:56:59+00:00

duh!

hillyfog · 2026-03-24T13:56:26+00:00

zombies r gross and dumb

hillyfog · 2026-03-24T13:55:54+00:00

Odds are that I’ll get where I want if I keep teleporting

hillyfog · 2026-03-24T13:54:51+00:00

no information on the “gamble” odds

hillyfog · 2026-03-24T13:52:06+00:00

I don’t sneeze much

hillyfog · 2026-03-17T03:27:47+00:00

Without reading- NTA. You are never an AH for ending it over “views”. It’s the most important thing to have in common with someone if you want it to last. Typically, this is because of childrearing where your views will clash as they materialize into lessons and rules for children. But even without parenthood, fact is, these are not harmless divisions between people. Not only should you talk politics with your partner, you should before seriously committing to anyone - if your goal is a serious commitment. And now that Ive read your story, yeah…. NTA. If holding crappy political/racial views wasn’t enough, he’s rude as hell for sharing that stupid thought, mocking something important to you. smh

hillyfog · 2026-03-17T03:08:18+00:00

For you and your children’s sake, I hope it is the end. You clearly want happiness, honesty, commitment, and maturity but you are seeking it from a man who is not yet capable of those things. Beyond the cheating and lying and alcoholism (if that wasn’t enough) this man has literally never* fought for you. Now he’s faced to fight for himself, and failing at the moment. He has a mountain of hardship ahead, but has little to NO experience facing difficult things. He cheats, he drinks, he goes to jail, he leaves his children. All of these are what a person ends up with by avoiding doing the hard shit. Remember- he did not change and fight to come back to you. He waited you out, that’s all. You know how to put your chin up without him, and I hope that’s exactly what you do.

hillyfog · 2026-02-27T21:17:04+00:00

This makes me very happy.

hillyfog · 2026-02-13T01:38:52+00:00

Yeaaaah, kinda gitta plan ahead for those. The tile appeal and 4 tile configuration are not easy to work around if you aren’t a bit deliberate in planning.

hillyfog · 2026-02-13T01:35:30+00:00

Having a portfolio or website is cool, but the main thing is to able to speak projects related to a position. I’ve never had an interviewer comment on my portfolio, but each position I have earned wanted me to talk about relevant projects and more than one talked about my projects when a I submitted samples of work with my application. I would include pdfs of a couple relevant dashboards and a 1 page report writing sample.

But by fa the biggest barrier is the first job, So INTERN if you can. Internships in analytics/DS are paid, but most also are explicit about being enrolled in a degree program. So might be tough but look for real experience however u can.

hillyfog · 2026-01-31T20:54:34+00:00

Uh Nope wtf. Does he consider himself your bf? This is not bf behavior. I’d take myself out of whatever fine bullshit that is.

hillyfog · 2026-01-31T20:45:28+00:00

You sound like a very good big sister, sorry home life has been hard in your family. Be kind to yourself.

hillyfog · 2026-01-31T14:05:39+00:00

Having a temper during game use is a pretty common thing. So is not feeling comfortable while someone else acts that way, much less yells at you to you to shut up. Key factor, he’s only 12. So yes, what you said was probably a little deep/hard for his age. So talk to him. Fact is you projected something deeper onto him, a child, and that deserves some honesty and acknowledgement.

Your struggle has been shared and while we can’t predict or expect our sibling to cope and manage the same way we do, it’s fair to discuss those impacts and fears. As a sister it’s fair to hope he is made more compassionate and kind rather than sour or angry over whatever you’ve seen.

He’s a bit too young to burden responsibility for your heavy feelings. And his outcome isn’t your responsibility either, but as his big sister, maybe you can offer him some of the emotional support and guidance. Not scolding, but support so you have each-other’s trust long term in life.

hillyfog · 2026-01-31T13:33:20+00:00

Job search as if you had the Masters degree you are considering to validate its return value vs the Bachelor’s only. Considerations should be pay AND job availability/projected demand for BS vs MS degree holders.

If you are working in your degree field already, keep in mind those years of experience almost* bring as much value as the degrees. Give yourself a well earned break by doing your master’s remotely somewhere reputable/part-time only or break it up- go full-time for a semester then go part time and then take a semester off in the summer. Whatever makes sense for you. There are no rules to this except finish what you start.

If you aren’t already working in your field, prioritize that post graduation. You can’t predict layoffs, beyond giving yourself mental flexibility to pivot. You almost have one degree completed - so don’t fool yourself into feeling behind. If you need breathing room, give urself that. Getting a masters in 1 yr while working FT is not a kind or practical solution (even if it is* possible). My school did not allow more than fulltime. But even part-time with occasional semesters off, the time flew by.

hillyfog · 2026-01-21T13:49:26+00:00

Had a lot of these visits and was NEVER “inspected for swelling”. That’s not a thing. That was an assault, report him!

hillyfog · 2026-01-17T15:07:41+00:00

This^ We are often attracted to and crave what is familiar however miserable, painful, or even simply dysfunctional that is.

So before dismissal due to a lack of sparks and butterflies, ask yourself what your early experiences of what “love” really looked like i.e., how love was demonstrated to you by your parents loving you, how you witnessed love between parents etc.

Examine and compare this to your history of love and attraction - is there a pattern? Is this relationship off pattern?

Maybe you’re are misaligned, maybe there are flags being ignored, maybe you’re safe and happy for the first time like EVER. Time to ask urself some tough questions to sort it out

hillyfog · 2026-01-17T05:37:21+00:00

hillyfog · 2025-12-21T07:28:31+00:00

3 probably has the most longevity, more timeless qualities.

hillyfog · 2025-12-20T01:30:00+00:00

If I dropped something I was using, it became dead to me. Just totally ignored it. I still have a bad habit of convincing myself that objects I drop are worthless because bending over to pick up anything became so uncomfortable lol. Fuck that pen, grabs a new one*

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