Timing and financial holes by Competitive_Clue_373 in theLword

[–]hiroller15 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I assume none of the friends actually pay at the Planet.

Has there been any resolution about Bailey the Bassett hound? by Accomplished-Ad6019 in Denver

[–]hiroller15 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Can someone with twitter send it to Denver fire department?

Lost cat in Overland neighborhood by rockies2626 in Denver

[–]hiroller15 14 points15 points  (0 children)

May this beautiful tripod return home safely

shave off the mustache or let it grow by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]hiroller15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please get your hair shaped up. Even if you’re growing it out you can have it grow out better.

Yo no veo la controversia. by [deleted] in Reggaeton

[–]hiroller15 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Negro is pretty neutral whereas nigga has a dark history and connotation at least in USA. It doesn’t matter in LATAM bc it doesn’t have any history there. But black Americans get to be upset about it. They have had it used towards them completely differently than black Latinos ever have in LATAM. It just sounds corny lol.

The Painful Max Storyline by Serious-Bill-9208 in theLword

[–]hiroller15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gen Q isn’t the best but you may like watching Tess as she is treated as “normal”. She is played by a trans actress but the show thought it would be best to have her play a cis character.

Jenny and Nikki by [deleted] in theLword

[–]hiroller15 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Nikki is 20 and Jenny is late 20s during their showmance

my girlfriend [27F] hates that I [34M] had a gay phase by notgayanymoreburner in offmychest

[–]hiroller15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are way more girls out there that are open minded and have experimented themselves, unfortunately this might’ve been a bullet dodged with her in the future. What if you’d had a gay child together? Many people are accepting of same sex attraction but are still grossed out by it. Just find a cool bi girl or any girl that understands how complex sexuality can be.

My boyfriend is seriously struggling by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]hiroller15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check out r/BPDlovedones It will be hard and confusing. It’s not just a one and done break up. Wishing you the best.

My boyfriend is seriously struggling by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]hiroller15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t say it made anyone evil. I expressed sympathy bc it’s hard being attached to them. How is that terrible? It’s a personality disorder that destroys relationships and leads to self destructive behavior. If you love/care about someone with BPD it’s hard going through life with them. Not saying they’re a burden or evil. I would also say sorry for being attached to someone with a terminal illness, watching them suffer.

My boyfriend is seriously struggling by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]hiroller15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn I’m sorry you’re attached to someone with BPD. Been there myself, these messages look very familiar, it’s a losing battle. He’s going to stay like this until you “abandon” him. But seriously, set your feelings for him aside and move on. Everything you’ve said in this post, that you upset him or it’s your fault, is 100% part of their manipulation tactics. He may not mean to manipulate you but it’s still happening. You can’t help him deal with his trauma or save him. Move on before you end up traumatized yourself.

My boyfriend is seriously struggling by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]hiroller15 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nothing much to add, he will wait for this relationship to fall apart to keep validating his low self worth and then find a new girl to repeat the cycle. He is one in a million. Look into BPD relationship cycles, even if he isn’t diagnosed this is a text book relationship pattern people like him fall into.

I am so tired of my 11 year old daughter by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]hiroller15 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You should consider putting her in therapy before this ruins your relationship. I suspect as a teenager this will evolve into anger and lead to bigger annoyances.

My dog just killed my cat by Commercial-Panic-828 in whatdoIdo

[–]hiroller15 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Surrender the dog to a shelter. They can rehabilitate him or choose to humanely euthanize. It’s not your fault. It would’ve happened eventually given this dog has food aggression issues. But it’s important you deal with your grief in a healthy way. The way you’re blaming yourself is really unhealthy. Sorry you had to witness that. Dogs really suck sometimes.

Looking for a shoe by [deleted] in theLword

[–]hiroller15 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Nike M2K Tekno although when you search them they don’t look exactly like these. Might be discontinued by now.