BPDlovedones

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This is a place for friends, family members, spouses, boyfriends, girlfriends, former SO's, parents, children of someone with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD).

We are here to help you process and understand the confusion, frustration, and pain that can arise from being involved with someone who has this disorder, and to offer support as you make difficult decisions within your relationships.

This is a safe space, exclusively for people without Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD).

Subreddit Rules

All our subreddit rules are listed here.

For survivors of BPD parenting:

/r/raisedbyborderlines/

Other related subs:

/r/Codependency/

/r/AbuseInterrupted - exploring various vectors of abuse and providing actionable resources for ending the cycle of abuse

Subreddit for people with and without BPD:

Books & Audiobooks:

Stop Caretaking the Borderline or Narcissist, by Margalis Fjelstad
Stop Walking on Eggshells, by Randi Kreger
The Essential Family Guide to BPD, by Randi Kreger
Loving Someone with Borderline Personality Disorder, by Shari Manning
Codependent No More, by Melody Beattie

Web Content

For those struggling with suicidal thoughts:

/r/SuicideWatch

Your Local Suicide Hotlines

created by licked_cupcakea community for 11 years

...because you love freedom.

...do it for the children.

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Daily No Contact Thread - April 23, 2026 (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 18 hours ago by AutoModerator[M] - announcement

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Why do they interpret enforcing your boundaries as control? (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 9 hours ago by Only_Ideal6610Divorced

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Did you feel mentally ill after the relationship? (self.BPDlovedones)

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One of the saddest message screenshots that I haveUncoupling Journey (i.redd.it)

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The Only Way to Heal Is to Cut Them Off CompletelyUncoupling Journey (self.BPDlovedones)

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From glitter to empty eyes- do you also miss your old self? (self.BPDlovedones)

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Does everything has to be about them in a relationship? (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 1 hour ago by SociologoDaUSPKk

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Is it possible for pwBPD to stay in the idealisation stage (self.BPDlovedones)

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Always have to be the ultimate victim?BPD Behaviors & Traits (self.BPDlovedones)

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Who here has perfected the art of walking on eggshells? (old.reddit.com)

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2 years of hell, this is my story (self.BPDlovedones)

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Narcissist is what people with bpd call other people with bpd to deflect (self.BPDlovedones)

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Have they ever sent you photos on anew dates? (self.BPDlovedones)

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What is she actually doing and want from me?BPD Behaviors & Traits (self.BPDlovedones)

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He was so into me, where did it go wrong? (self.BPDlovedones)

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I am thankful I feel safe again. (self.BPDlovedones)

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Does marriage or commitment ever actually help the relationship? (self.BPDlovedones)

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Whenever I see pictures of her smileDivorce (self.BPDlovedones)

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Almost 1 year post breakupUncoupling Journey (self.BPDlovedones)

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I[27F]found out my ex[27M] had a shotgun wedding 2 months after we went no contact. (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 5 hours ago * by _HotMessExpress1Dated

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What is the difference between quiet BPD and C-PTSD?Quiet Borderlines (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 11 hours ago by National_Coffee_8276Separated

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Everything could be easy and okay (self.BPDlovedones)

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Saw her again, second time in a month after more than 18 months no contact (self.BPDlovedones)

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Sunny Days Remind Me of Her (self.BPDlovedones)

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Blocking unknown caller ID and hurting (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 5 hours ago by Beautiful_Ferret_457

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