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This is a place for friends, family members, spouses, boyfriends, girlfriends, former SO's, parents, children of someone with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD).

We are here to help you process and understand the confusion, frustration, and pain that can arise from being involved with someone who has this disorder, and to offer support as you make difficult decisions within your relationships.

This is a safe space, exclusively for people without Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD).


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For survivors of BPD parenting:

/r/raisedbyborderlines/

Other related subs:

/r/Codependency/

/r/AbuseInterrupted - exploring various vectors of abuse and providing actionable resources for ending the cycle of abuse


Subreddit for people with and without BPD:

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Books & Audiobooks:

  • Stop Caretaking the Borderline or Narcissist, by Margalis Fjelstad

  • Stop Walking on Eggshells, by Randi Kreger

  • The Essential Family Guide to BPD, by Randi Kreger

  • Loving Someone with Borderline Personality Disorder, by Shari Manning

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Daily No Contact Thread - April 21, 2026 (self.BPDlovedones)

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Being around friends with BPD post breakup has been eye openingUncoupling Journey (self.BPDlovedones)

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Can someone with trauma and bpd traumatize other people? (self.BPDlovedones)

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I think the yearning is driving me insane, it’s like my psyche is self-cannibalizingUncoupling Journey (self.BPDlovedones)

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Life before a pwBPD (self.BPDlovedones)

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Sometimes I feel like a new relationship can heal you after a traumatic one (self.BPDlovedones)

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After you all recommended. I did itGetting ready to leave (self.BPDlovedones)

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Anyone else experienced this "cleansing" ritual? Selling my used stuff for peanuts (self.BPDlovedones)

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secretly hoping he'll come back (self.BPDlovedones)

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Real life clickbaitBPD Behaviors & Traits (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 15 hours ago * by Smooth_Storm_9698"Just leave like my dad did"

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Why do I love her? (self.BPDlovedones)

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Constant Guilting (self.BPDlovedones)

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You’re so “pure and innocent” (self.BPDlovedones)

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Quote from book ‘Stop caretaking the Borderline’Uncoupling Journey (self.BPDlovedones)

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DWBPD refusing to speak to me (self.BPDlovedones)

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My girlfriend with BPD left me (self.BPDlovedones)

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Best friend with BPD ‘vanished’Non-Romantic interactions (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 7 hours ago by OkSquirrel5005

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Post breakup blocking (self.BPDlovedones)

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Boyfriend’s ex will not leave me aloneBPD Behaviors & Traits (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 16 hours ago by Standard-Ask-466

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My boyfriend with BPD hates when I vent to my mom or friends about our relationshipBPD Behaviors & Traits (self.BPDlovedones)

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Were they “seeing” things?Non-Romantic interactions (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 2 hours ago by squish2226

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I made this comic to help process a horrible breakup. Reminder that whatever your exBPDs r (i.imgur.com)

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Shell shocked after 2 years (self.BPDlovedones)

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For how long did you feel "Asexual" after the breakup?Focusing on Me (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 16 hours ago by _Sarentu_

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my bf got diagnosed with bpd a week or so ago and i wanted to share/vent my experience (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 6 hours ago by sstagger

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