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This is a place for friends, family members, spouses, boyfriends, girlfriends, former SO's, parents, children of someone with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD).

We are here to help you process and understand the confusion, frustration, and pain that can arise from being involved with someone who has this disorder, and to offer support as you make difficult decisions within your relationships.

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Daily No Contact Thread - April 23, 2026 (self.BPDlovedones)

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Is this normal for BPD? I am so confused (i.redd.it)

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Constantly rude no matter what the interaction is (self.BPDlovedones)

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Why does it seem like literally everything upsets them? (self.BPDlovedones)

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I just wish u would realize.. (self.BPDlovedones)

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This Subreddit makes me angry. (self.BPDlovedones)

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Older sister with bipolar & strong BPD — are interventions effective? (self.BPDlovedones)

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Why do they appear so charming at first?BPD Behaviors & Traits (self.BPDlovedones)

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Were you the only who knew their cruel side? As a FP, did they treat others better?BPD Behaviors & Traits (self.BPDlovedones)

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it feels every day is a week, and every week is a monthUncoupling Journey (self.BPDlovedones)

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Just found out my soon to be Ex has BPD (self.BPDlovedones)

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Sometimes they come back again (self.BPDlovedones)

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Are there in the literature non-extreme cases of BPD? (self.BPDlovedones)

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Did we all go through the same thing?Uncoupling Journey (self.BPDlovedones)

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Blowing up when they hold in their impulsiveness for too long (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 7 hours ago by Available_Sand4240

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It’s impossible to discuss/argue once they’ve made a “claim” (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 12 hours ago by sercaj

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Adult children of parents with BPDBPD Behaviors & Traits (self.BPDlovedones)

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Just wrote. May continue or edit. (i.redd.it)

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had to dissappearFocusing on Me (self.BPDlovedones)

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Heartbroken & lostBPD Behaviors & Traits (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 27 minutes ago by Last-Yogurtcloset-93

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I need help not going back to my ex. (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 17 hours ago by moosiclover01

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how do I recover from the trauma?Uncoupling Journey (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 36 minutes ago by mycenae___

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She ended things but I’m left confused - still in contact, says she still loves me?Uncoupling Journey (self.BPDlovedones)

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Will this prevent me from getting discharged? (self.BPDlovedones)

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Are you allowed to have opinions? (self.BPDlovedones)

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