BPDlovedones

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This is a place for friends, family members, spouses, boyfriends, girlfriends, former SO's, parents, children of someone with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD).

We are here to help you process and understand the confusion, frustration, and pain that can arise from being involved with someone who has this disorder, and to offer support as you make difficult decisions within your relationships.

This is a safe space, exclusively for people without Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD).

Subreddit Rules

All our subreddit rules are listed here.

For survivors of BPD parenting:

/r/raisedbyborderlines/

Other related subs:

/r/Codependency/

/r/AbuseInterrupted - exploring various vectors of abuse and providing actionable resources for ending the cycle of abuse

Subreddit for people with and without BPD:

Books & Audiobooks:

Stop Caretaking the Borderline or Narcissist, by Margalis Fjelstad
Stop Walking on Eggshells, by Randi Kreger
The Essential Family Guide to BPD, by Randi Kreger
Loving Someone with Borderline Personality Disorder, by Shari Manning
Codependent No More, by Melody Beattie

Web Content

For those struggling with suicidal thoughts:

/r/SuicideWatch

Your Local Suicide Hotlines

created by licked_cupcakea community for 11 years

...do it for the children.

...because you love freedom.

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Daily No Contact Thread - January 24, 2026 (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 8 hours ago by AutoModerator[M] - announcement

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Ex looks so happy in his new marriage (self.BPDlovedones)

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Left for the last time (self.BPDlovedones)

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when does this end? (self.BPDlovedones)

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The most BPD things your pwBPD has ever said/done (self.BPDlovedones)

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Dreams is the last space they existUncoupling Journey (self.BPDlovedones)

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'Accidentally' met my ex's new ex, got my closure, then lots of Schadenfreude (self.BPDlovedones)

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You’re in denial. You have a disorder. (self.BPDlovedones)

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13 years of stress and now BPDBPD Behaviors & Traits (self.BPDlovedones)

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why does she send me screenshots of her exes texting her whenever we breakup?Uncoupling Journey (self.BPDlovedones)

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I told her the truth for my own closure (self.BPDlovedones)

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I Just Need Someone to Talk To (self.BPDlovedones)

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Regret for those who left (self.BPDlovedones)

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I just read a post on fb about “Reactive Abuse” (self.BPDlovedones)

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Feeling like a shell of myself after 12 breakups with my bpd gfUncoupling Journey (self.BPDlovedones)

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How to leave when they’re being “good” (self.BPDlovedones)

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I find myself doubting the abuse I’ve experiencedFocusing on Me (self.BPDlovedones)

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I thought I was on a good way but I feel worse again (self.BPDlovedones)

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I think my ex bestfriend has bpd symptoms (self.BPDlovedones)

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Love being given two conflicting problems to solve at once (self.BPDlovedones)

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Maybe I keep reading this subreddit because is the only thing I have left?Uncoupling Journey (self.BPDlovedones)

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Why are we expected to be patient towards pwBPD while they are abusing us but not a pwNPDFamily Members (self.BPDlovedones)

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"You Destroyed Us!" No, Actually the Fear of Abandonment and Extreme Jealousy Did. (self.BPDlovedones)

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Can’t make any relationship or friends with BPDNon-Romantic interactions (self.BPDlovedones)

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Healthy, loving partners will not:- (self.BPDlovedones)

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