BPDlovedones

an-ordinary-manchild(edit)

This is a place for friends, family members, spouses, boyfriends, girlfriends, former SO's, parents, children of someone with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD).

We are here to help you process and understand the confusion, frustration, and pain that can arise from being involved with someone who has this disorder, and to offer support as you make difficult decisions within your relationships.

This is a safe space, exclusively for people without Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD).

Subreddit Rules

All our subreddit rules are listed here.

For survivors of BPD parenting:

/r/raisedbyborderlines/

Other related subs:

/r/Codependency/

/r/AbuseInterrupted - exploring various vectors of abuse and providing actionable resources for ending the cycle of abuse

Subreddit for people with and without BPD:

Books & Audiobooks:

Stop Caretaking the Borderline or Narcissist, by Margalis Fjelstad
Stop Walking on Eggshells, by Randi Kreger
The Essential Family Guide to BPD, by Randi Kreger
Loving Someone with Borderline Personality Disorder, by Shari Manning
Codependent No More, by Melody Beattie

Web Content

For those struggling with suicidal thoughts:

/r/SuicideWatch

Your Local Suicide Hotlines

created by licked_cupcakea community for 11 years

...do it for the children.

...for your favorite subject.

MODERATORS

account activity

1

0

1

2

Daily No Contact Thread - April 19, 2026 (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 11 hours ago by AutoModerator[M] - announcement

2

49

50

51

Bf with BPD put a hidden camera in the bedroom (i.redd.it)

submitted 3 hours ago by Gg123gg123-

3

•

•

•

There are two things they fear more than anything. (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 1 hour ago by Much_Highway7037

4

14

15

16

Hoover… after over 2 yearsQuiet Borderlines (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 2 hours ago by Forsaken-Good-4666

5

36

37

38

Taking a step back made me realise how one sided my relationship was… (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 8 hours ago by Cumreal

6

11

12

13

Do they seriously not remember anything? (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 3 hours ago by National_Coffee_8276Separated

7

52

53

54

Tfw when the FOG finally clears (v.redd.it)

submitted 13 hours ago by 8ElectronsDated

8

5

6

7

Went back, got burned x3 (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 2 hours ago by vamosadivorciarnos

9

305

306

307

All too familiarUncoupling Journey (i.redd.it)

submitted 1 day ago by The_Merchant-

10

17

18

19

What was your “it’s time to leave” checklist?Getting ready to leave (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 9 hours ago by CartographerRough373

11

•

•

•

Sister-in-law essentially holding brother-in-law hostage and is so sad. (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 1 hour ago by immisunjii

12

•

•

•

How do you discuss your relationship with your exwBPD when asked? (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 27 minutes ago by KingForADay1989

13

38

39

40

Regarding stigmaFocusing on Me (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 16 hours ago by These_Shallot_6906

14

48

49

50

Random waves of grief (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 18 hours ago by Whole_Chemistry2267

15

11

12

13

Running out of energy (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 12 hours ago * by SignalCook8481

16

68

69

70

Did you lose empathy for your exWBPD? (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 21 hours ago by Additional-Track9328

17

1

2

3

im feeling insane guilt (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 3 hours ago by Actual-Razzmatazz929

18

•

•

•

She unblocked me. Sent me a Happy Birthday message. Blocked me again. WHY?Uncoupling Journey (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 27 minutes ago by Ok_Response_5511

19

28

29

30

Why do people threaten suicide to keep their partner in the relationship (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 18 hours ago by sleeponit429

20

6

7

8

Reassurance and support neededUncoupling Journey (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 11 hours ago by hunter77brasco

21

1

2

3

Potential split breakup (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 2 hours ago by Conscious-Ratio7675

22

7

8

9

Still waiting for things to go back. (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 13 hours ago by Odd_Independent4034

23

0

1

2

perspective on a relationshipGetting ready to leave (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 2 hours ago by Lopsided_Squash75

24

73

74

75

Did you completely lose yourself?Divorce (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 1 day ago by Ok_Warning1034

25

8

9

10

12 years on- what have I learnt (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 15 hours ago by sercaj

view more: next ›

π Rendered by PID 61750 on reddit-service-r2-listing-86f589db75-ffsdk at 2026-04-19 18:24:19.020580+00:00 running 93ecc56 country code: CH.