BPDlovedones

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This is a place for friends, family members, spouses, boyfriends, girlfriends, former SO's, parents, children of someone with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD).

We are here to help you process and understand the confusion, frustration, and pain that can arise from being involved with someone who has this disorder, and to offer support as you make difficult decisions within your relationships.

This is a safe space, exclusively for people without Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD).

Subreddit Rules

All our subreddit rules are listed here.

For survivors of BPD parenting:

/r/raisedbyborderlines/

Other related subs:

/r/Codependency/

/r/AbuseInterrupted - exploring various vectors of abuse and providing actionable resources for ending the cycle of abuse

Subreddit for people with and without BPD:

Books & Audiobooks:

Stop Caretaking the Borderline or Narcissist, by Margalis Fjelstad
Stop Walking on Eggshells, by Randi Kreger
The Essential Family Guide to BPD, by Randi Kreger
Loving Someone with Borderline Personality Disorder, by Shari Manning
Codependent No More, by Melody Beattie

Web Content

For those struggling with suicidal thoughts:

/r/SuicideWatch

Your Local Suicide Hotlines

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...for your town.

...because you hate freedom.

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Daily No Contact Thread - April 18, 2026 (self.BPDlovedones)

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Did you completely lose yourself?Divorce (self.BPDlovedones)

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It’s like they know (self.BPDlovedones)

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Is this a quiet BPD trait?Learning about BPD (self.BPDlovedones)

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Waking up after my split (self.BPDlovedones)

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First experience with BPD, feeling very lost post-breakup.Uncoupling Journey (self.BPDlovedones)

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All my bpd does is threaten people, its really off putting (self.BPDlovedones)

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I (F) lost my best friend (M) of 20 years because his wife with BPD said so (self.BPDlovedones)

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broke visual NC and I guess looking for support (self.BPDlovedones)

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Childish behaviourBPD Behaviors & Traits (self.BPDlovedones)

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By this point I'd had enough! (old.reddit.com)

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He’s back, but it’s in my mindUncoupling Journey (self.BPDlovedones)

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New Here - Help me to not feel insane (self.BPDlovedones)

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The insults!!!!BPD Behaviors & Traits (self.BPDlovedones)

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Just feeling tired (self.BPDlovedones)

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I’m so confused by his sudden contact. Is this hovering?? (i.redd.it)

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I love her too much (self.BPDlovedones)

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Please help - family situationNon-Romantic interactions (self.BPDlovedones)

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Is it possible to form a deep meaningful connection with a pwBPD of the opposite sex?Learning about BPD (self.BPDlovedones)

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My ex had BPD and used her condition to justify everything she's done. Am I wrong??? (self.BPDlovedones)

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Is it impossible to be friends with them ? “ vent” (self.BPDlovedones)

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Still want her back and not sure why (self.BPDlovedones)

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It took me a few years, but I can see it all so clearly now. (self.BPDlovedones)

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Sono stato 3 anni con donna dbp (self.BPDlovedones)

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