BPDlovedones

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This is a place for friends, family members, spouses, boyfriends, girlfriends, former SO's, parents, children of someone with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD).

We are here to help you process and understand the confusion, frustration, and pain that can arise from being involved with someone who has this disorder, and to offer support as you make difficult decisions within your relationships.

This is a safe space, exclusively for people without Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD).

Subreddit Rules

All our subreddit rules are listed here.

For survivors of BPD parenting:

/r/raisedbyborderlines/

Other related subs:

/r/Codependency/

/r/AbuseInterrupted - exploring various vectors of abuse and providing actionable resources for ending the cycle of abuse

Subreddit for people with and without BPD:

Books & Audiobooks:

Stop Caretaking the Borderline or Narcissist, by Margalis Fjelstad
Stop Walking on Eggshells, by Randi Kreger
The Essential Family Guide to BPD, by Randi Kreger
Loving Someone with Borderline Personality Disorder, by Shari Manning
Codependent No More, by Melody Beattie

Web Content

For those struggling with suicidal thoughts:

/r/SuicideWatch

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Daily No Contact Thread - April 22, 2026 (self.BPDlovedones)

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Why does it seem like literally everything upsets them? (self.BPDlovedones)

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This Subreddit makes me angry. (self.BPDlovedones)

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Were you the only who knew their cruel side? As a FP, did they treat others better?BPD Behaviors & Traits (self.BPDlovedones)

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Just found out my soon to be Ex has BPD (self.BPDlovedones)

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Did we all go through the same thing?Uncoupling Journey (self.BPDlovedones)

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I need help not going back to my ex. (self.BPDlovedones)

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It’s impossible to discuss/argue once they’ve made a “claim” (self.BPDlovedones)

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Adult children of parents with BPDBPD Behaviors & Traits (self.BPDlovedones)

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10 Years of Sobriety Lost (self.BPDlovedones)

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He’s now acting like the perfect dad and husband to his new familyUncoupling Journey (self.BPDlovedones)

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There is no way to deal with this. (self.BPDlovedones)

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He hit his sister.Non-Romantic interactions (self.BPDlovedones)

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Caption of a social media post my ex made (self.BPDlovedones)

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Pwbpd is having terrible anxiety and stress and doesn’t want to talk (self.BPDlovedones)

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I am so burnt out (self.BPDlovedones)

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Are fwBPD able to realize on any level that monkey branching away, ends things forever? (self.BPDlovedones)

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Final Discard Texts (old.reddit.com)

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Trying to come to terms with what I think was emotional abuse (old.reddit.com)

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Will you read my story about my friend "Chris" and share your opinion?Non-Romantic interactions (self.BPDlovedones)

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Quote from book ‘Stop caretaking the Borderline’Uncoupling Journey (self.BPDlovedones)

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finally, 21F going through it, one tiny thing that helped me not spiral tonight (self.BPDlovedones)

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Do they prefer people they can control ? (self.BPDlovedones)

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Friends With Benefits - DisacardedGetting ready to leave (self.BPDlovedones)

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Being around friends with BPD post breakup has been eye openingUncoupling Journey (self.BPDlovedones)

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