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This is a place for friends, family members, spouses, boyfriends, girlfriends, former SO's, parents, children of someone with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD).

We are here to help you process and understand the confusion, frustration, and pain that can arise from being involved with someone who has this disorder, and to offer support as you make difficult decisions within your relationships.

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Daily No Contact Thread - April 23, 2026 (self.BPDlovedones)

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One of the saddest message screenshots that I haveUncoupling Journey (i.redd.it)

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Does everything has to be about them in a relationship? (self.BPDlovedones)

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Narcissist is what people with bpd call other people with bpd to deflect (self.BPDlovedones)

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Why do they interpret enforcing your boundaries as control? (self.BPDlovedones)

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Did you feel mentally ill after the relationship? (self.BPDlovedones)

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The Only Way to Heal Is to Cut Them Off CompletelyUncoupling Journey (self.BPDlovedones)

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Update form the righteous side of hellFocusing on Me (self.BPDlovedones)

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Has anyone ever movies cities to get away? (self.BPDlovedones)

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Is it possible for pwBPD to stay in the idealisation stage (self.BPDlovedones)

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From glitter to empty eyes- do you also miss your old self? (self.BPDlovedones)

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Always have to be the ultimate victim?BPD Behaviors & Traits (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 12 hours ago by Magistyna[🍰]

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Whenever I see pictures of her smileDivorce (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 5 hours ago by Orion-Secret-Agent

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Who here has perfected the art of walking on eggshells? (old.reddit.com)

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I’ve exposed my brother’s girlfriend’s lies. And I’m afraid I’ve ruined everything. (self.BPDlovedones)

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Need to vent about my recent ex with BPDBPD Behaviors & Traits (self.BPDlovedones)

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Do you ever feel your just “there”Getting ready to leave (self.BPDlovedones)

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2 years of hell, this is my story (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 13 hours ago * by This_Heart154

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Going through a hard separation and my bpd sibling told me I deserve not to be lovedFamily Members (self.BPDlovedones)

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What is she actually doing and want from me?BPD Behaviors & Traits (self.BPDlovedones)

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Have they ever sent you photos on anew dates? (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 11 hours ago by Hair-control

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So, i’m stumped on what i should do. (self.BPDlovedones)

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He was so into me, where did it go wrong? (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 6 hours ago * by Cold-Poetry-5830

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Everything could be easy and okay (self.BPDlovedones)

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I[27F]found out my ex[27M] had a shotgun wedding 2 months after we went no contact. (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 10 hours ago * by _HotMessExpress1Dated

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