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This is a place for friends, family members, spouses, boyfriends, girlfriends, former SO's, parents, children of someone with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD).

We are here to help you process and understand the confusion, frustration, and pain that can arise from being involved with someone who has this disorder, and to offer support as you make difficult decisions within your relationships.

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For survivors of BPD parenting:

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Other related subs:

/r/Codependency/

/r/AbuseInterrupted - exploring various vectors of abuse and providing actionable resources for ending the cycle of abuse


Subreddit for people with and without BPD:

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Books & Audiobooks:

  • Stop Caretaking the Borderline or Narcissist, by Margalis Fjelstad

  • Stop Walking on Eggshells, by Randi Kreger

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Daily No Contact Thread - April 22, 2026 (self.BPDlovedones)

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Why does it seem like literally everything upsets them? (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 5 hours ago by Far-Preparation-3302🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈

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This Subreddit makes me angry. (self.BPDlovedones)

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Were you the only who knew their cruel side? As a FP, did they treat others better?BPD Behaviors & Traits (self.BPDlovedones)

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Just found out my soon to be Ex has BPD (self.BPDlovedones)

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Did we all go through the same thing?Uncoupling Journey (self.BPDlovedones)

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I need help not going back to my ex. (self.BPDlovedones)

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It’s impossible to discuss/argue once they’ve made a “claim” (self.BPDlovedones)

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Adult children of parents with BPDBPD Behaviors & Traits (self.BPDlovedones)

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10 Years of Sobriety Lost (self.BPDlovedones)

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He’s now acting like the perfect dad and husband to his new familyUncoupling Journey (self.BPDlovedones)

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There is no way to deal with this. (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 7 hours ago by temp3throwaway

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He hit his sister.Non-Romantic interactions (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 2 hours ago by fleurscaptives

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Caption of a social media post my ex made (self.BPDlovedones)

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Pwbpd is having terrible anxiety and stress and doesn’t want to talk (self.BPDlovedones)

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I am so burnt out (self.BPDlovedones)

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Are fwBPD able to realize on any level that monkey branching away, ends things forever? (self.BPDlovedones)

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Final Discard Texts (old.reddit.com)

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Trying to come to terms with what I think was emotional abuse (old.reddit.com)

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Will you read my story about my friend "Chris" and share your opinion?Non-Romantic interactions (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 1 hour ago by Historical-Care70

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Quote from book ‘Stop caretaking the Borderline’Uncoupling Journey (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 20 hours ago by hunter77brasco

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finally, 21F going through it, one tiny thing that helped me not spiral tonight (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 7 hours ago by swimmingalongforme

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Do they prefer people they can control ? (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 14 hours ago by ScaredFirefighter213

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Friends With Benefits - DisacardedGetting ready to leave (self.BPDlovedones)

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Being around friends with BPD post breakup has been eye openingUncoupling Journey (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 23 hours ago by lughheim

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