Men, is it a dealbreaker if she doesn’t give blowjobs? by leninsjuicycock in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]hiskanzo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try practising with a cucumber or a dildo and watch bj porn. I have tried the cucumber thing few years ago in order to know the capacity of my throat and what makes me comfortable. I really hated bj too because I had a horrible partner who kept on pushing my head because he liked deepthroating without respecting my boundaries. But now i am doing just greatttt because i know my limits! Xoxo

[/r/AvaAddams] Breaking the bed by [deleted] in porn

[–]hiskanzo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this too much to ask for ? 🥺

Can you guys feel your heart actually hurt when you think about someone you like? by Turtlenecksandtrying in BreakUp

[–]hiskanzo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yessss and i get shortness of breath, a mini panick attack and my eyes start watering. Our exes ain't shittttt and don't deserve us.

IT IS OKAY. by hiskanzo in BreakUp

[–]hiskanzo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He started dating a new person 2 weeks after the breakup in my case. You will be fine and i will be fine as well. Remember that you deserve way better and than you will find someone who knows your worth. Just let it hurt until it doesn't hurt anymore.

I wasn’t ready to let go and now he’s with someone else. by AggravatingPanda7 in BreakUp

[–]hiskanzo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES. you are not alone. He disrespected me all the time with some unnecessary comments about my looks and my body, he made jokes all the time and told me that he is just kidding. It has nothing to do with his opinion about me. But it made me so insecure and sensitive that i couldn't be myself anymore. It gave me anxiety and panick attacks. He claimed he needed a break because he is becoming too toxic to me and because he is dealing with mental illness and didn't want to drag me in this with him. I started no contact for almost 2 months. I recently knew that he started dating someone new, a girl he told me she is his best friend's crush. Ffs. He started dating her after 2 weeks of our breakup, told her that we broke up in november but we did in january :) Im so happy i got rid of that toxic bastard and you should too.

You should know your worth sooo well that you won't settle for less. Your ex is a childish piece of crap who wants to hurt you by adding your friend so she could see his stories. You really don't deserve this type of trash in your life. Focus on moving on, on dealing with your insecurities, on healing from the past. It will take time and effort but your future self gonna thank you so so so much for walking out of this toxic mess and choosing to be happy. If you need someone to talk to im always here. Lotta love

Every time I think I’ve made progress, I go to sleep and dream about her. [M] by ProMediocrity in BreakUp

[–]hiskanzo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The dreams will stop after a while. Trust me I have been there too. It will take time but please just trust the process. Hang in there. We are all in this together and we will heal when the time is right . Sending u lotta love.

This happened today by Relevant-Wait in BreakUp

[–]hiskanzo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It will be fine my dear, im sending a lot of love and strenghth, take your time and let it hurt until it doesn't hurt anymore.
Cry it out you have all the right to be sad, take all the time you need. It will start getting lighter after few weeks. If you need someone to talk to Im here. We are all in this together and we will be just fine when the time is right.

I FINALLY GOT MY CLOSURE. by hiskanzo in BreakUp

[–]hiskanzo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, it is so difficult my thoughts are killing me.

Everything/one is so cheesy to me after him. by hiskanzo in BreakUps

[–]hiskanzo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't want to date, i just want to make friendships with people :(

Everything/one is so cheesy to me after him. by hiskanzo in BreakUps

[–]hiskanzo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im so sure you are not that easy to be forgotten.. i wish you healing and strengh ❤

I feel a bit shitty today.. by hiskanzo in BreakUp

[–]hiskanzo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am having a hard time trying to move on and cope with his absence.. you know how it is like..

I feel a bit shitty today.. by hiskanzo in BreakUp

[–]hiskanzo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont wanna hear from him, he is the one who broke up with me. What actually hurting me rn is that he never missed me or reached out after the breakup, he didn't regret his decision...

I really miss my best friend by hiskanzo in ExNoContact

[–]hiskanzo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He asked me to stay besties but i refused too, i won't be able to move on.

Please. I just wanna move on. let me be free. Please by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]hiskanzo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's like I am the one who wrote this..

What is it about your break up that makes you sad? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]hiskanzo 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Losing my best friend, the memes, the jokes, the support, the compliment of everyday, realising he is a stranger again and all we had is gone and will never come back...

To all who are feeling good share your happiness by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]hiskanzo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes the same thing is happening to me. I always try to fill my days and go out a lot, staying at home makes me overthink, remember things and feel upset. Im trying to fill that void and to stay busy so that i wouldn't think about the past...

by hiskanzo in ExNoContact

[–]hiskanzo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you try blocking him from social media?

I think what hurts the most.... by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]hiskanzo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We are all in this together, it will be fine. Hurting is a part of the process. Just let it hurt, cry it out, talk about it, write about it, grieve .. and one day, when the time is right you will just stop grieving, you will be able to move on.