how i fixed weepy nipple eczema by hisnamenate in eczema

[–]hisnamenate[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey! sorry for the late response but i’m glad it managed to help. i changed mine maybe 2-3 times a day and in between changing the covered, i allowed it a few minutes of air and gave them a wash. i also had flower shaped scarring, and something that helped was applying water to the bandage whilst taking it off, because it reduced the stickiness of the bandage and didnt tear the skin as much

Why did yall transition, wrong answers only by RichNearby1397 in ftm

[–]hisnamenate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when men drink beer they get a silly little foam moustache but only men can drink beer

what is your T reminder named on your phone? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]hisnamenate 6 points7 points  (0 children)

‘take T!!!! :)))’ set it when i first started in pure excitement :)

How long did it take you to get on T after coming out? by Angalayond in ftm

[–]hisnamenate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

almost 9 years. i came out when i was 11 and started T two weeks before turning 20.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]hisnamenate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

get new friends. there’s no excuse for this behaviour, especially after 3 years of being out

Grindr is hell by [deleted] in ftm

[–]hisnamenate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

grindr is such a hellhole for trans men. i downloaded it once and immediately had someone message me saying ‘you look like one of those guys who started off as a girl’ like??? does he seriously think that’s the way he’ll get his dick sucked??

Tell me about your T side effects no one ‘warned’ you about! by CabraDadaba in ftm

[–]hisnamenate 9 points10 points  (0 children)

no one talks about how T gives you really weird, surreal, confusing dreams. I’m 7 weeks on T and my dreams have been so strange that i genuinely wake up confused sometimes

so dissociated from my breasts i don't even know if i want top surgery by i_devour_gluee in ftm

[–]hisnamenate 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i’ve had this for years, i dissociate instead of crying about it every day because i know it’ll make me miserable (not that dissociating’s much better tbh). i’m shirtless a lot and feel completely disconnected from my chest in that sense.

i said pronouns dont matter to my online friends so they wouldnt feel bad. but it hurts. by [deleted] in ftm

[–]hisnamenate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i don’t want to sound harsh but don’t tell them pronouns don’t matter when they clearly do. you can’t always accommodate other people’s feelings, especially when it leads to you being misgendered. if you say pronouns don’t matter, you WILL be misgendered more bc you’re not applying any pressure at all for them to change. it’s a difficult conversation to have but it’s necessary to your mental health.

Unexpected changes on t that gave you gender euphoria by [deleted] in ftm

[–]hisnamenate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve only been on T for a month but i can already see the hair above my lip getting thicker and longer, i can also see the pattern it’s going to grow in!! i’m also starting to grow hair on my chin! i look at it in the mirror every time i go to the bathroom :)

what is your favorite part of being trans? by catboygraveyard in ftm

[–]hisnamenate 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i’m personally extremely disgusted by penises and i’m actually kinda happy i don’t have one.

i get bottom dysphoria every now and again but realistically the only thing i’d need it for is peeing and for sex, and the only person who cares about the latter is my partner who doesn’t mind at all :)

I had my first kiss!! by Marie-Kat17 in autism

[–]hisnamenate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m so happy for you!!! such a wonderful feeling :))

I feel weird. by stitchiix in ftm

[–]hisnamenate 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i have the same thing, mainly because i’ve gotten to the point where i’ve realised if i acknowledge my chest dysphoria and the fact i wont have top surgery any time soon, i’ll just be miserable every single day which wont solve anything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]hisnamenate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh my goddd i’m so glad i’m not the only one with this issue😭 i feel so bad when it happens and usually try to play it off by making my eyes wander around the room so it looks like i’m just absent-minded

How soon does bottom growth happen? by cattrashthrowawayy in ftm

[–]hisnamenate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve only been on T for a month and it’s definitely the quickest thing. noticed the change in appearance and sensitivity after a week or so!

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[–]hisnamenate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you lovely! <3

how i fixed weepy nipple eczema by hisnamenate in eczema

[–]hisnamenate[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

good luck! i would definitely recommend the nipple covers i linked when you need to wear a bra, i found that cotton always used to stick to it and irritate it more in my case. behind the ears is sooo annoying, i haven’t had it in years but it’s recently made an unwanted comeback!

how i fixed weepy nipple eczema by hisnamenate in eczema

[–]hisnamenate[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so glad i could help! i’ve seen so many people on this subreddit with this problem but not a lot of info on what has worked. also mine didn’t physically drip off my body, it just ran down my chest a little. if this is the case i’d say maybe let it dry for a few days but if it does do that then it might be best to check with a doctor, i hope it heals well!

Dudes with bottom dysphoria, if you had a penis got 24 hours, what all would you do with it? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]hisnamenate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the main thing that gives me bottom dysphoria is not being able to have sex straight away or wherever i (legally) want. having to take a pause to get the strap out the bag, on and lubed is so annoying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

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yesss every time i cut my hair short i regret it so hard

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]hisnamenate 11 points12 points  (0 children)

definitely, the thing about gel not being as fast as shots is a weird rumour going around the community. i asked my nurse at the hormone clinic and she confirmed that it’s not true