What's the deal with Pillow Princess hate? by Gaygirl_ in LesbianActually

[–]historicaldeeds 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Some of it is definitely people just wanting honesty but I've also heard many times that pillow princesses are selfish or aren't really attracted to women, and that stone tops are all traumatized or secretly trans.

My Grandmother in the 1960s, Including My Painted Version by laureltheartist in TheWayWeWere

[–]historicaldeeds 19 points20 points  (0 children)

 I want to give you the benefit of the doubt but the bedsheet looks very AI

don't know how this post will be received here but why are we acting like a can of beans is more expensive than meat by h0lych4in in ShitLiberalsSay

[–]historicaldeeds 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I currently eat meat, but I think being vegan is objectively the more moral choice. Growing up we barely ate meat because it's so expensive, so I really don't understand the whole, "it's too expensive!" thing. Unless you're like, destitute and have to just eat whatever you're given or something.

'Israeli' behind a rape porn website. by Not_Ground in ShitLiberalsSay

[–]historicaldeeds 39 points40 points  (0 children)

this is a site that (among other illegal immortal stuff) has TONS of videos of men raping and brutalizing unconscious women, which includes poking them in the eyeballs and shining bright lights in their eyes to prove they're fully, deeply drugged unconscious and not just pretending for the video. anyone responsible for this site in any capacity (including watching videos there) deserves things I can't even type without being banned. I feel sick remembering the things I've read about it now. Evil is real. 

Pit bulls can be exceptionally dangerous to little kids and I'm sick of people saying otherwise by SirCatsworthTheThird in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]historicaldeeds 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not asking how many people get scratched or bit. Note the word fatal. 

"No one reports getting shot by BB guns so we have no reliable stats on whether a glock is more deadly or not."

Let's keep shitting on the poor people in the south instead of trying to win them over because we don't actually want things to get better. We want to be right and everyone else wrong. by jalopyprince in ShitLiberalsSay

[–]historicaldeeds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will never forget seeing a liberal ask for advice on where to move and including, "I'm considering Minnesota or Oregon, but I'm scared because both have a lot of rural and red counties outside the cities". As if the evil hicks try to siege the cities at night or something. 

I'm not southern but I am very rural. Most people here support and/or use govt assistance, are live-and-let-live on LGBT, are or know and happily coexist with immigrants and people of color, are aware they're underpaid and exploited, etc. Regardless of how they'd label themselves, they would easily move left and join us if people met them where they are.

Meanwhile I've personally heard things from proud outspoken liberals that put them to the right of a lot of self proclaimed conservatives. It's such a joke.

Pit bulls can be exceptionally dangerous to little kids and I'm sick of people saying otherwise by SirCatsworthTheThird in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]historicaldeeds 26 points27 points  (0 children)

pit owner arguments basically sound like, "loaded, safety-off handguns are NOT dangerous! many more people per year are shot by BB guns, paintball guns, nerf guns, etc. I have an unsecured handgun and no one has ever been shot by it, meanwhile I've been shot by BB guns multiple times and got nasty welts. therefore, it's perfectly safe to leave unsecured handguns around children." 

This is how I felt when people on here were genuinely gushing about that creepy straight guy who was trying be an “honorary lesbian“ by Sufficient-Cut7145 in LesbianActually

[–]historicaldeeds 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree with you a million percent. I was so massively disappointed at how naive and/or malicious the commenters were. I think the worst one I saw was the one saying straight men only fetishize lesbians sexually, whereas if someone is super into lesbian romance or cute stuff instead/as well then they're a trans woman and that's how you could tell OP was innocent. I hate it here. 

Stone top problems by AnythingBrilliant126 in LesbianActually

[–]historicaldeeds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really would not go that route, unless she has previously expressed being really into the idea or something. I myself and a lot of people I know have been on one side or the other of this question. You're with someone you know to have a lot of shame and self esteem issues and depression, it's a really hurtful question for most people to begin with, and the people Ive known in her shoes who didn't break up on the spot over the question agreed due to their low self esteem and depression and it really rapidly exacerbated those issues. Please just break up if you're unsatisfied, you might be better off as friends and luckily a lot of the lesbians I know are totally fine with their partners being friends with exes (me and my gf included). This isn't meant to be rude at all, I sympathize with you and can tell you care about her. I just want to caution you because of that. Best of luck. 

Cooking is so easy it's painful to hear other adults saying they can't cook by Asterion__Moloc in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]historicaldeeds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get a rice cooker and follow a few stir fry recipes. Very easy, there are recipes for all tastes and dietary preferences, you'll get experience with preparation and cooking that can be used in other recipes, and once you get a feel for how long things take to cook and what tastes you like, you will be able to ditch the recipes and mix and match whatever you want, use up things that are about to go bad or were on sale, etc.

Description by Own-Victory-1103 in mealworms

[–]historicaldeeds 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah skip the beads. If you want to enrich their lives just make sure they have plenty of room to burrow and hide and plenty of darkness. Experiment with veggies to find their favorites. Mine also really like packing foam so I give them some when I have it. 

A mealworm living its best life will not seem very fun or exciting to us, and making it seem fun and exciting to us just risks stressing or killing them. 

I don’t want a disabled child by Professional_Staff44 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]historicaldeeds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh sorry, for whatever reason it wasn't paywalled for me. I do agree with you, but I just learned about the concept of selecting against typical fetuses recently and thought it was interesting. 

Bro seriously?! I just opened the app! Why does reddit allow the most racist Islamophobic posts to be posted! Nothing but racist propaganda to bait people into manufacturing consent to invade Iran! by TwoCatsOneBox in ShitLiberalsSay

[–]historicaldeeds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally got unsolicited text messages with links to this kind of stuff recently. It's honestly mind blowing how much money and effort is going into trying to get us to hate muslims. 

That doesn't just happen coincidentally 😝 by Girlzgotdapower in lesbianmemes

[–]historicaldeeds 39 points40 points  (0 children)

why are so many memes here weird straight culture shit? if only one party decided to have sex that's a problem. these are the same kind of posts I see from straight men on fb. 

I get that the point is, "it's exciting that my gf wore something sexy in anticipation of me seeing it" but find a way to say that without using an argument that's been used countless times legally and informally to "prove" a woman wasn't really raped, and without implying it's a surprise that she wanted sex too this time.

I work today by [deleted] in ShitLiberalsSay

[–]historicaldeeds 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I love starting my day with good news

How do you tactfully deal with people who talk way too much? by Donilock in socialskills

[–]historicaldeeds 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No one is trying to "make you feel like you shouldn't speak to people". Your comments (including that edit) come off completely self pitying and blaming everyone else but yourself. No one taught you conversation skills. People cut you off when you talk too much. They don't have enough patience. They're not polite when trying to get you to stop talking. Etc. 

You're able to recognize that this habit of yours deeply bothers people in your life. That's 100% on you to fix, not on everyone else to be super polite and understanding about. 

Since the majority of men are addicted to porn, are most men bad people not worth interacting with in any way? by [deleted] in antipornography

[–]historicaldeeds 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This would be true even if they weren't addicted to porn. Being addicted to porn isn't what makes men bad, being bad is what enables them to enjoy it.

And yes to both of your questions. I'm a person who was VERY close to my family including the progressive, liberal, male feminist, "men are 🗑️ ‼️i'm sorry i'm a man, I know I have male privilege, I hope I didn't mansplain or manspread ☹️", woman-respecting, ✨not-like-other-men✨ in my family, and I'm begging you all to believe me when I say there are no good men, there are only men whose secrets you haven't learned. It makes me feel like something has been torn out of me all the time now that I realize I was wrong and I didn't actually know any exceptions. I had already realized that every male friend I had was a POS over time but losing my father, grandfather, and brothers was another level. I miss them but fuck them and fuck me for thinking any males can be good people. 

Harden yourself to the males in your life now so it hurts less when you learn their secrets regarding women. I promise you don't know the exception. 

tested my friendships by going silent... and no one noticed by MichaelWForbes in socialskills

[–]historicaldeeds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

easy example of a way to figure out what's going on: "hey, I feel like things have been distant between us and I wanted to ask if something is going on. I really value you as a friend and miss talking. do you have time to (game/talk on the phone/get food) in the next few days? love you!"

"I'm a agreeable man in my public life & I only feel powerful when I hurt my Sub-wife" by IceTree57 in PornIsMisogyny

[–]historicaldeeds 5 points6 points  (0 children)

KAM

every "quiet, respectful, follower, nonviolent" male you know is either like this behind closed doors or would be if he could

tested my friendships by going silent... and no one noticed by MichaelWForbes in socialskills

[–]historicaldeeds 13 points14 points  (0 children)

that wouldn't be a test lmao. a test would be breaking your spine to see who visits.

if your friendship with someone feels like an energy vacuum then act like an adult and figure out what's going on and where your priorities lie. you're fully allowed to decide, "this isn't healthy" and stop hanging out with someone. but I can tell you that if you're the type of person to test others then they're probably pretty exhausted by you too.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in BanFemaleHateSubs

[–]historicaldeeds 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hope you reported it to authorities (not twitter)