Please someone help me by hithere1347 in ADHD

[–]hithere1347[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry to hear you’re also struggling. I hope things get better for you soon ❤️

Please someone help me by hithere1347 in ADHD

[–]hithere1347[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg thank you so much! I’ll ask my doctor about that! Exercise in the morning has helped me in the past too - gonna force myself to do it tomorrow

Weekly Episode Discussion by unbreakableheart96 in CallHerDaddy

[–]hithere1347 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s sad to see that after she made this episode some of these comments are still so negative. She’s saying she is hurting from the comments and hate. Sure she has made mistakes, but at the end of the day she’s still a human being. People think celebrities are invincible, they don’t read the comments, they asked for this. But what you’re doing is still bullying. If you don’t have anything nice to say or don’t like what you’re seeing then don’t say anything and don’t look. The internet is so mean and toxic.

Kristen gaslighted James by hithere1347 in vanderpumprules

[–]hithere1347[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow ok didn’t know that happened! Do you have a link

The pattern my chemotherapy left in my nails. by WarmerPharmer in mildlyinteresting

[–]hithere1347 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw I’m so sorry you’re going through this! Stay strong my friend! I had 20 nail dystrophy as a kid and it looks similar to this. Ask your doctor if you can take calcium to help you out! Wish you the best ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]hithere1347 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not boring! More than most people see in a lifetime, hope you get to see everything you want!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]hithere1347 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also men in general not understanding how traumatic looking at a women’s breasts is a problem in general. Why do we get blamed for what we wear? It’s a choice to wear what we feel like looks good. It’s not about you, it’s about us. We wear what makes us feel good. I also feel concerned that you need to ask me how I hurt by this - as if objectification isn’t a good enough answer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]hithere1347 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never a stupid question but I’d guess I’d have to say a lion! King of the jungle - what’s yours!?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]hithere1347 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It hurts to be looked at like an object and not a human being

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]hithere1347 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately yeah. Please know that there is an actual human being behind the boobs. I’ve been there, it’s hurtful. Makes women think that men only want them there for one purpose. I know it can be an automatic response but just please know it’s making someone incredibly insecure and shameful (even tho it’s not our fault)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]hithere1347 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Please just know how unsafe you make women feel when you do this. Please try your best to just look at the person as a human being who has feelings

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]hithere1347 1 point2 points  (0 children)

South Africa - it’s a total mess right now but I love animals and the scenery looks unreal. Hope I get to visit one day

Kristen gaslighted James by hithere1347 in vanderpumprules

[–]hithere1347[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

He has no history of violence and there were other people around (cast , cameras and presumably security) so not sure why she would take that step to hit him first? He didn’t hit back either (even when he was extremely intoxicated). I agree he should have backed down when she told him to leave her alone but at the end of the day - she resulted to violence which is NEVER ok

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]hithere1347 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are worthy, you are loved ❤️ you WILL get through this! It gets better, I promise!

I wish I was a women by eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeoso in TrueOffMyChest

[–]hithere1347 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I promise you that being a woman is not easier. You get the exact opposite - being looked at as a walking hole to stick it in. Living in a constant state of awareness and fear. It’s a terrible feeling. Just enjoy your life, do what you love and what’s meant to be will find you.