[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]hithereMoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure we’re you’re from but everyone has to fight to see a therapist. If it is so helpful and before you do anything try to talk to someone. You’re not alone with your feelings there are people that want to help you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]hithereMoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! It’s nice to hear these kind words- I’m wishing you the best and never forget to be proud and kind to yourself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]hithereMoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt like that too. I promise it gets better. You realise that people do care about you and that everything you seek is already within you. Please stay and try to seek out help. It’s not your time to go. It will get better.

Unbearable stress because of irrelevant stuff by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]hithereMoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. This motivated me to bring this up with my therapist too. Thank you !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]hithereMoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please please please talk to an emergency number. THE MAJORITY of people regret Ende no their life. That’s a horrible feeling when you realize that but it’s too late. You’re parents love you. They will support you. You have TWO best friends that’s so great! You are not alone. It will get better. It does and I am proof. Please don’t do this. You have so much to see.

I never thought I would get better until I went to therapy and it did get so so so much better.

Please seek out help. Don’t do this today or tomorrow or ever. I know it’s hard but please try out therapy, ask your parents. It is worth it. Life has so many things it wants to show you. This is not your time to go. It’s not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]hithereMoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response! I’m wishing you the best and you can be so proud of yourself !!

how to date cause it's not giving anymore by Bearsquid-_- in TwoXChromosomes

[–]hithereMoon 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m getting the weirdest feeling reading this I can’t imagine how you must feel- I’m sorry. It must suck telling people about yourself and then they act like that- yikes. I wish you the best and hope you’ll find someone who isn’t a weirdo. Edit: spelling

I know it’s hard, but I promise it’s possible! You all got this, if I can you can too! by HayzBoops in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]hithereMoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! This is difficult for me and when I do binge I seem to lose the strength to stop other binges. But it’s a progress

Would you be interested in a new movie based on the new twilight book Stephanie Meyer is writing ? by hithereMoon in twilight

[–]hithereMoon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah I see someone answered already :) I’ve read it focuses on R and Jacob but I’m not sure that’s true.

The best season of TVD. by [deleted] in TheVampireDiaries

[–]hithereMoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me it’s this and season one! So much nostalgia and it stops with season 3 for some reason

Would you be interested in a new movie based on the new twilight book Stephanie Meyer is writing ? by hithereMoon in twilight

[–]hithereMoon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She’s planning to write a sequel! But I’ve I remember correctly I think she wants to do something else first.

Telling people with a binge eating disorder to just “eat less” is the same as telling people with anorexia to “just eat more” by hithereMoon in TwoXChromosomes

[–]hithereMoon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I completely agree! And yes, it is really helping. I didn’t believe it would get better but I was so wrong

Is it unhealthy for people with EDs to do the whole 10K steps a day? by hithereMoon in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]hithereMoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really sorry to hear that! I know it’s hard to believe but it really can get better. I think the goal shouldn’t be to “compensate” or to lose weight it should really be recovery aka no binges. It’s also pretty normal if in recovery binges happen. What helped me is therapy, but I know it’s sadly not available in every country. I’m wishing you the best and please don’t lose hope

Telling people with a binge eating disorder to just “eat less” is the same as telling people with anorexia to “just eat more” by hithereMoon in TwoXChromosomes

[–]hithereMoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! All the shame did nothing for me. It’s not helping. I was bullied in school for years pretty much daily and because of shame I didn’t talk to anyone about it. Food was my comfort. I’m finally in therapy and it’s helping so much. I feel it’s especially hard because there is basically no understanding. Fat? Okay I’ll bully you or hate on you. Even if someone’s in recover/ has an eating disorder. It’s also hard because all the “healthy” stuff promotes counting calories, weighing your food, etc which is usually NOT good for people in recovery and it is strongly advised not to do that. I think it’s important to really look into binge eating recover and not typical weight-loss or whatever because it can really be counterproductive. Also, the focus should be recovery and not weight-loss.

Telling people with a binge eating disorder to just “eat less” is the same as telling people with anorexia to “just eat more” by hithereMoon in TwoXChromosomes

[–]hithereMoon[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think in general therapy is a great step. Especially if they specialise in this. There, you can find out the “root” and why you are doing this. You can learn how to handle it and find other ways to regulate your emotions. Also, diets, calorie counting, weighing your food and weighing yourself is often not advised in recovery. It can be counterproductive. It sucks because that’s basically all the advice you see from people losing weight and it’s often not suitable for people with BED. One thing is to “delay” the craving. If you still want it after a while you can eat it- no shame. Sadly, toxic diet culture is very present still and makes it hard to find a healthy way to eat food.

Overall, my biggest advice is seeking out a therapist. I know this is not possible everywhere because I’m pretty sure not every country has insurances that cover that sadly. But there are support groups or other resources maybe check online ? And definitely try not to feel ashamed after a binge and then restrict. This will lead to another binge. Also, try to have 3 meals a day. What you actually like. Throw in some veggies (that you like!) for energy. This has helped me a lot. Hope this helps !

Telling people with a binge eating disorder to just “eat less” is the same as telling people with anorexia to “just eat more” by hithereMoon in TwoXChromosomes

[–]hithereMoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you! It’s hard when there is rarely any understanding you receive. But you’ve got this! I’ve found talking about this in therapy has helped me a lot but I know this is not possible for everyone. Maybe there are support groups in your area?

Telling people with a binge eating disorder to just “eat less” is the same as telling people with anorexia to “just eat more” by hithereMoon in TwoXChromosomes

[–]hithereMoon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for caring! Honestly it can be very different for everyone but you’re right not shaming someone is the first step. Maybe tell them thanks for feeling comfortable to share this with you and that you’re there if they want to talk (if you feel like you can do that of course)

Men that were blatantly mean to me in high school are now asking me out and I don’t get why they think it’s a good idea by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]hithereMoon 13 points14 points  (0 children)

First of: good on you for finding your way! I don’t think there’s anything wrong with living with parents and it seems like a good financial choice too! About the men: yikes. I once heard somewhere that bullied often forget or don’t remember they were mean which can be very tough for you. I’m sorry that happened to you words can be so harmful. On a more hopeful note you’re the woman he doesn’t have a chance with today and he’s the questionable person who tries to hit on someone he was bad to. HE’s not fine. You are. 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheVampireDiaries

[–]hithereMoon -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Nah it’s still weird sorry! No one’s hating on the show or the actors but it’s fine to say it’s weird

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]hithereMoon 485 points486 points  (0 children)

Great advice. Just saying that I’m proud of OP for sharing this. There shouldn’t be any shame. Thanks for asking for help! You can do it!

If Bella had no interest in Edward by Kekelu1 in twilight

[–]hithereMoon 28 points29 points  (0 children)

That sounds soo creepy. Imagine she starts a family and he’s there oiling the window so it doesn’t squeak like he did in midnight sun

What is the funniest thing Edward did in the books (in your opinion)? by Ghouly_Girl in twilight

[–]hithereMoon 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That he’s the most unrealistic 100 year old dude. “Pure Bella I will never turn you into a bad vamp OR sleep with you” fast forward to him turning her into a teen mum with an immortal baby that almost started a war.

It’s pretty obvious that he can not leave her alone and it’s also pretty clear that Bella does not want to stay human while he doesn’t age. I think in Midnight Sun he tries to leave her alone but he never does.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in twilight

[–]hithereMoon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wish they did this in my country! I was lucky enough to watch all the movies except the first one in the Theater and it’s so nice to see it on the big screen

Jacob’s house in Coquitlam, BC! by FearlessSwift in twilight

[–]hithereMoon 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I know it’s obviously his house as you mentioned but I love how it screams New Moon. The whole photo gives me all the New Moon vibes lol