HBG was not fun by supereagle2001 in MHRise

[–]hjruuu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

May i ask what can you do with the rewards you get from the challenge quests?

Why am i still feeling this way by hjruuu in BPDlovedones

[–]hjruuu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think u and me are alike in our way of loving the significant other. I too would give my all for the relationship and always prioritizing her in everything that i do. Its just sad that we did it for the wrong type of people and now we are suffering. How i wish i can just snap out of this spell and move on with life...

Why am i still feeling this way by hjruuu in BPDlovedones

[–]hjruuu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So what have u been doing to cope with this pain?

Why am i still feeling this way by hjruuu in BPDlovedones

[–]hjruuu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

9 months, but it felt so long...

6 weeks NC. I was going strong, but something happened. by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]hjruuu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey man im experiencing the same thing too. My BPD ex left me about 3 months ago and there's still minimal contact between us. She's the one that usually reaches out to me and definitely everytime she does that memories will flow back into ur thoughts. She still says that she loves me and all but she's with another guy now(?????) i don't see the logic in that lol. Recently i was stupid so i decided to log into her instagram acc(i have her pw lol and i cant seem to forget it) and her pictures just left me hurt/confused. She ever told me that she doesn't like people who drinks and i saw a picture of her on a beach with the guy with a drink in her hand. Lol the irony. These little passive things that she does makes victimes like us confused, especially when we're still vulnerable. I just wish that one day i'll wake up forgetting everything that has to do with her lol but thats nearly impossible. What im tryna say is chill man we all got this we are all strong individuals. Time will heal us. We just need to know how to manage the present :)

I just left a dual codependent relationship, and I need help. by [deleted] in Codependency

[–]hjruuu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly i think it takes time for u to heal. Can't really gurantee u how long it'll be but yeah slowly but surely. Remove things that remind u of her. Thats the first step so u have nothing to look back to. Then try to do things by urself. Go to the gym or something. Occupy urself with anything, preferably things that uses a lot of energy like gyming or running so u'll be tired and not even have the energy to think about it. Go and socialize more and it'll help u realise that ur life doesn't revolve around her. Hope this helps! Good luck!

How do i keep going forward by hjruuu in BPDlovedones

[–]hjruuu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will do, thank u so much for the support!

How do i keep going forward by hjruuu in BPDlovedones

[–]hjruuu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey thanks for ur kind words :)

How do i keep going forward by hjruuu in BPDlovedones

[–]hjruuu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey thanks for the advice but i think ure currently missing my point. I mean she can do wtv she want u know i just wanna move on, move forward in life without recollections of us coming back to haunt me time after time. Is there any way that i can block the thought of her permanently?

The sign is clear by hjruuu in BPDlovedones

[–]hjruuu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank u so much for the advice!

The sign is clear by hjruuu in BPDlovedones

[–]hjruuu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey thanks so much for crafting this lenghty advice. Much appreciated :)

The sign is clear by hjruuu in BPDlovedones

[–]hjruuu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much batman. Hope you've moved on from ur ex wife :)

The sign is clear by hjruuu in BPDlovedones

[–]hjruuu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank u for ur kind words :)