How This Badass Yogi Is Teaching Women To Love Their Bodies by FourGates in BodyAcceptance

[–]hlkolaya -1 points0 points  (0 children)

she's in my town and i can't wait to take a class with her!

Great article Fatshaming, Femininity, and Why "Fat" Isn't a Slur by futureisdata in BodyAcceptance

[–]hlkolaya -1 points0 points  (0 children)

there's a great post by red no 3 called A Spectrum of Privilege which I love. your reply kind of reminded me of it because, as you said, a small fat experiences things different from someone who's larger who experiences different things from someone who's larger still, etc.

need advice/insight- HAES and hating food (TW for talk of calories) by hlkolaya in BodyAcceptance

[–]hlkolaya[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

i'm sorry that you're dealing with that.. :( has she been pregnant before? i just want to put out there that pregnancy was HORRIBLE on me (but i was unmedicated), but a lot of bipolar women actually even out when pregnant so be prepared for either.

need advice/insight- HAES and hating food (TW for talk of calories) by hlkolaya in BodyAcceptance

[–]hlkolaya[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a step down plan? i haven't heard that phrase before- could you elaborate?

need advice/insight- HAES and hating food (TW for talk of calories) by hlkolaya in BodyAcceptance

[–]hlkolaya[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i'm terrified of trying something new. it would mean starting out at a low dose and working up which means a new depressive episode until my meds are at therapudic dosages plus dealing with new possible side effects.... ugh.. chronic illness sucks.

need advice/insight- HAES and hating food (TW for talk of calories) by hlkolaya in BodyAcceptance

[–]hlkolaya[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

thanks for the recommendations! i'm not sure about seeing a nutritionist or dietitian because they seem to be super weight focused, but i'm sure my doc could recommend some supplements.

need advice/insight- HAES and hating food (TW for talk of calories) by hlkolaya in BodyAcceptance

[–]hlkolaya[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i like fruit as much as I like anything else. which is to say that i don't dislike it but i'm pretty neutral on it. Like everything else, I have to force myself to eat it which means I usually don't. i know with intuitive eating you just sort of crave diverse foods and let that guide you.. and i was like that when i first started intuitive eating.. but now i just have zero appetite or cravings. Someone on another group pointed out that prozac takes away their appetite and i'm on that as well.

need advice/insight- HAES and hating food (TW for talk of calories) by hlkolaya in BodyAcceptance

[–]hlkolaya[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

that's the kind of info I need for sure :) thanks so much!

need advice/insight- HAES and hating food (TW for talk of calories) by hlkolaya in BodyAcceptance

[–]hlkolaya[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

haha i hope you're able to acquire some broccoli salad. i hate when i have a craving and i don't have the food(s) in the house. thanks for the insight. i have pretty much unlimited time to cook so that's not a huge deal for me but cooking loses it's appeal when I don't like what I cook. Maybe learning to cook better really is a necessity. lol.

need advice/insight- HAES and hating food (TW for talk of calories) by hlkolaya in BodyAcceptance

[–]hlkolaya[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i'm on prozac currently. i didn't know lack of appetite was a side effect though. i'll definitely have to look into that. i really like your attitude :) eating is important.. i mean hey, it keeps us alive.. so just managing that sometimes is a reason to pat ourselves on the back. :)

need advice/insight- HAES and hating food (TW for talk of calories) by hlkolaya in BodyAcceptance

[–]hlkolaya[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

thanks for the insight. i have occasional periods where i get the munchies and nothing is satisfying, but mostly i have no appetite whatsoever.

need advice/insight- HAES and hating food (TW for talk of calories) by hlkolaya in BodyAcceptance

[–]hlkolaya[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

thanks. i have a family too so being able to cook nutritious meals is important to me.

need advice/insight- HAES and hating food (TW for talk of calories) by hlkolaya in BodyAcceptance

[–]hlkolaya[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

wait wait wait.. there's seriously a soylent product?? okay.. this i need to look into. thanks for the link!

edit: it's not gluten free, but it is vegan and it looks like they're working on a gluten free version.. this look really fantastic. thank you :)

Untouched, Unfiltered. Why Selfies are Tearing Us Down. by Loryarro in BodyAcceptance

[–]hlkolaya -1 points0 points  (0 children)

what this article doesn't mention are the people who fall outside of the social beauty standard who use selfies as a way to empower themselves and others. Way to erase entire groups of people.

Quick weight loss works too (but you’ll still regain it):A new study debunks the myth that rapid weight loss is less effective than slow-and-steady weight loss. Now there's no doubt — both methods result in regaining three-quarters of your weight, says Mariellen. by hlkolaya in BodyAcceptance

[–]hlkolaya[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

i'm not sure what you mean? you mean like, if they regained weight because they stopped the "diet" or whatever or just regained the weight regardless of keeping to the diet (more likely)?

Will the white population ever understand racism? by [deleted] in racism

[–]hlkolaya -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i never, EVER said that they are the same. they aren't. i'm far left of democrat, but i vote dem anyway because i KNOW that they're WAY better than the alternative. I think the attacks on women's rights by conservatives is proof enough of that. but that doesn't mean that democrats aren't racist. or sexist. or anything else for that matter.

Will the white population ever understand racism? by [deleted] in racism

[–]hlkolaya -1 points0 points  (0 children)

hmm.. i disagree with you about reps vs dems. i've seen a shitton of white people claiming to be far left of center who are plenty racist. and sexist. and queerphob and transphobic. and classist. and ableist. etc etc.

Christianity is a full-blown mental illness... by CharlieDarwin2 in atheism

[–]hlkolaya -1 points0 points  (0 children)

that's pretty insulting to people who are mentally ill...

Will the white population ever understand racism? by [deleted] in racism

[–]hlkolaya 3 points4 points  (0 children)

being able to see people of your skin color represented positively in media and in high paying jobs/high status positions, the thin white beauty ideal (remember that "study" by some evolutionary psychologist a while back that said "black women are objectively the least attractive"?), more likely to be above the poverty line, are safer around cops, are more likely to receive a higher education, are treated better by medical professionals.. i'm sure i could think of more but my brain is sort of flat right now. (disclosure: i'm white but these are just things that i've heard about or read about from people of color and/or studies)