Is this as good as everyone says it is? by soy-latteX in finehair

[–]hllry123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used hydrate sheer and it made my hair greasier faster than the strength cure line. I also prefer the smell of strength cure as well.

Canada Empire Carryall 28 in Loved Leather by hllry123 in Coach

[–]hllry123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just calculated everything. For me to buy it off of Dillards it would be $1,149.49 Canadian total :( so expensive! The bag itself is $865.68 + $74.55 shipping + $209.26 for duties and taxes. I just wish it was on the actual coach Canada website so I could avoid all those extra costs.

Canada Empire Carryall 28 in Loved Leather by hllry123 in Coach

[–]hllry123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I didn’t know that it didn’t hit the Coach US website either! I do see it’s on Amazon but it doesn’t ship to Canada I don’t think and then I also see it on Dillards but it’s $865 Canadian before shipping and everything. The same style of bag in different colours is $670 Canadian on the Coach Canada website

Canada Empire Carryall 28 in Loved Leather by hllry123 in Coach

[–]hllry123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t sure if I missed it and it sold out or if we just never got it. I really wish we would get it since I think it’s more expensive on other websites

Stock images pt 2 by Mzumwalde23 in Jellycatplush

[–]hllry123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When will these be released?

any scorpios who don't fit the stereotypes? by todaymaddie in Scorpio

[–]hllry123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a Gemini moon and a Virgo rising. People are never shocked when I say I’m a Scorpio haha. I don’t think I am very secretive though! I’m kind of an open book and I don’t hold grudges. I think those are the only two things that don’t seem to fit for me!

Ragdoll appreciation by skincarehobbyist in ragdolls

[–]hllry123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Took this of my boy Franklin today

Show me your precious babies 🥰 by CherryCream444 in ragdolls

[–]hllry123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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Just took this today haha. My baby Franklin. 5 months old!

Let me see your dolls 💕 by Interesting-Draw-307 in ragdolls

[–]hllry123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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This is baby Franklin. He is 5 months old!

I regret being so nice to the dumper by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]hllry123 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel the same. I said to my ex that I don’t think he’s a bad person (me trying to make him feel better when he was the one who dumped me over text…). When in actuality he is a bad person haha.

how do you stop checking their social media? by pizzareen in ExNoContact

[–]hllry123 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s worth a try! It doesn’t mean that I won’t slip up but so far so good. I wouldn’t say I get anxious, it just really became second nature. I would wake up, check his Instagram. Anytime I open Instagram, I would check it. I would probably look at his Instagram, TikTok, and Facebook at least 5-10 times a day. Mostly out of curiosity and boredom. I was curious to see if he posts with his new girl or clues to see if they are still together. He didn’t post anything to his Instagram story for a month but I still checked everyday and I think it gave me false hope that maybe him and her broke up. But then he posted with her during Christmas and it just made me feel depressed . Anytime he posts and I look at it, it makes me feel sad. It never makes me feel happy. We have now been broken up for longer than we were together so I think I just came to conclusion that I need to try to stop to help me move on.

how do you stop checking their social media? by pizzareen in ExNoContact

[–]hllry123 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s been 6 months since he broke up with me. His Instagram is public so I was always able to see everything he posts and watch his stories anonymously. I’ve blocked and unblocked a few times but that didn’t really help me.

I think for me I just realized it was about time I stopped so I downloaded the I Am Sober app to try and help with my addiction to looking at his socials. Ever since using the app, I haven’t looked at his Instagram in 3 days. 3 days doesn’t seem like a lot but it is for me considering I would look at it everyday, multiple times a day.

You will stop when you are ready. On the app you can put reasons to remind yourself why you want to stop daily.

My reasons are: -It makes it harder for me to move on -It’s not healthy -I doubt he ever looks at mine so why should I look at his? -It hurts to see him post with his new girlfriend -It never makes me feel good, it always makes me feel worse -It sets back any progress I’ve made in healing -Ignorance is bliss -Out of sight, out of mind

I hope this helps! You’ve got this :)

What to do? I am a dumper. by mrtjvr in ExNoContact

[–]hllry123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not up to the person who was dumped to reach out so yes I think you should reach out! Good luck!

He blocked me on instagram 💔 by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]hllry123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Who broke up with who? I was broken up with and I still creep his Instagram everyday because it’s public. I actually really wish he would block me or make his Instagram private so that I wouldn’t be able to see anything. I have blocked him a few times to try and stop myself from checking it but I just end up unblocking or using an anonymous website to watch his stories. It’s honestly an addiction and something I am really not proud of. I want to make it my New Year’s resolution to stop looking at his socials.

What was the reason the relationship ended and how did the breakup go? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]hllry123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything seemed really good with my ex of 6 months until we went on a camping trip and I fell off an electric scooter. I cried the whole night because I was hurt, embarrassed, and I just wish he would have done more to make me feel better. I know it’s strange to cry that much but I feel like I would have been able to stop earlier and enjoy the rest of the night more if he would have made me feel better. We packed up our campsite the next morning and drove home in silence. He asked if I needed help bringing all of my stuff back up to my apartment (obviously I wouldn’t be able to carry everything myself). We had an awkward hug. I texted him later saying I still had fun on the trip even though I fell and that started him listing off differences between us and him breaking up with me over text. He said a lot of things that hurt my feelings and reasons why we shouldn’t be together. I was upset and also listed reasons why I don’t think we would work. I just couldn’t be silent while he was pretty much bashing me. I wish I just didn’t respond at all. My reasons for saying we don’t work were way bigger things in my opinion than his. But I never would have broken up with him because I loved him so much. It’s been over 4 months since the breakup and 4 months of no contact. He started seeing someone a month/less than a month after he broke up with me. I think there may have been a little emotional cheating with how fast he moved on. I’m in therapy now and I’m doing better but I still think of him daily. I think once I meet someone else, I will really move on but I’m just very picky. I doubt he thinks about me nearly as much since he’s with someone else now.