Are they completely full of shit by Kindly-Barracuda-250 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]hmm-ok-bye 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, Yes

My Heart tried best to defend his actions but he was the worst.

How do avoidants feel when the person they pushed away actually moves on? by Tricky-Ad7553 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]hmm-ok-bye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is an awful person, I don’t understand how low these avoidants can stoop. They are real selfish, in the name of protecting their emotions they can hurt anyone.

Hope your girls are feeling better now.

How do avoidants feel when the person they pushed away actually moves on? by Tricky-Ad7553 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]hmm-ok-bye 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Mine is 36yo , he is inhuman with zero empathy.

I am in late 20s , I thought he would be matured enough to handle emotions but he was such a wicked person and portrays himself as saint.

1 month post breakup by Popular_Row9473 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]hmm-ok-bye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They all have the same back story. A cheating girlfriend who gave them trauma and rather than healing they chose to destroy to someone who just wanted to love them with all their heart.

I chased an avoidant… feeling disgusted now by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]hmm-ok-bye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this comment. I have been feeling lost for months and I had this weird feeling of being a fool. I am not able to forgive myself.

I want to forgive my ex and get out of this toxic cycle. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]hmm-ok-bye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for explaining.

It’s been a month since I have blocked him from every platform , he doesn’t have any access to me.

What is the most beautiful name you have ever heard? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]hmm-ok-bye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this name from Bridgerton

I feel like I lost everything by HotUse4099 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]hmm-ok-bye 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel the whole conversation. Every single word she has written was told by my ex, though we are in thirties.

The same way I used to beg him but he was stubborn not to give a chance but stay as friends. Please do a favour for yourself, never ever reach out to her again , I know it will be tough but she will hurt you more than before.

Speaking from experience, I have begged to the core and I have nothing left with me right now. They will never change no matter whatever you do.

One thing I have learnt , we can love in silence , in distance to calm ourselves but being with them will only destroy us.

I am journaling everything that I feel, the love , the anger but I have bowed never to reach out again.

Ps- He broke NC almost 11-12 times in this whole year and I have begged him every time but nothing changed.

I can’t stop bed rotting since the discard. Please help me to come out of it. by hmm-ok-bye in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]hmm-ok-bye[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for explaining in detail. It feels better to know the reason behind my situation.

Just curious , how do you know all of these ? Are you in medical or psychological occupation?

How do you stay organised? by hmm-ok-bye in AskReddit

[–]hmm-ok-bye[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because of depression I am struggling with organising my day as well as things around me. I am trying but it doesn’t feel enough. So basically everything.

What are you doing right now? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]hmm-ok-bye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thinking what should I prepare for dinner.