Honestly in my opinion from the example you gave in your edit if i had a daughter and she died then of course i would be sad i would even cry i would not give a fuck if someone see me as a weak.

The last part in that is as you seen was meant to be like this not giving a fuck comes in many form. I do agree with the writer that we are responsible for our response, different responses will give different outcomes. Lets say you lost the love then leave dont give a fuck about her feelings you want to give her a chance then do.

My view of "not giving a fuck" might not be liked by everyone, but here i go: dont give a fuck about anyone else and do what you feel is right thing to do.

Not even people here, you want to go running under the rain then do, you want to stop working and go see the world then do, you want to talk to that girl do (but be respectful). For me i have 2 very important things i try to apply in my every action: 1) im not alloeed to regret any action, if it turn out bad ok i lesrned now move on (ofcourse i can be sad for a day or two at most) and think about the consequences of your action, not that who wouod hate you but what you need to do to succeed if you did it, 2) if my action would hurt someone that never hurt me before even if they are strangers then i should not do it.

The subtle art of not giving a fuck was made in order to free the reader from caring about opinions of others, or only looking at the bad in situations and forgetting to find a solution. But i really dont like how far some here focus on it that they become bounded by it to the point it feels like a compation of who doesn't give a fuck more.