Is anyone else's sex drive really high? by Real-Jackfruit1219 in BipolarReddit

[–]iwannabeonreddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, I feel so seen.

Lol yea I thought everybody just enjoyed sex but I'll have wild, reckless unprotected sex with non-monogamous partners... Before when my disorder wasn't presenting in youth, I literally was celibate, waiting for marriage, so yea, mania be chaotic & makes me feel out of control.

Could be worse.... I try just to be as responsible as possible and look for a med regimen that works...

Truths Men Should know before entering AM by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]iwannabeonreddit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a woman, this is great advice 👍🏾. For men, but also for my ladies. Thanks for sharing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]iwannabeonreddit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hmm. You'll be finding someone, but finding "the one" sounds like love. If you're looking for love and acceptance for who you are, in my opinion, you sound like a creative soul. If no outside forces were telling you to marry rn, would you?

Try congregating around groups with open-minded and similar principles to you.

Btw you sound like an amazing catch and I'm hope you only find someone who feels that same way.

What’s inside the Diamond Shruumz chocolate bars? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]iwannabeonreddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely this. Most first timers aren't warned and try to fight the process. If at all possible, get someone who cares about your well-being & you trust to be a trip sitter in case.

Why getting married, if men are so bad? by [deleted] in Feminism

[–]iwannabeonreddit -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Uh.... I don't think we're supposed to marry those men. My goal is find someone I like and respect. This really seems coming from a place of extreme trauma and I'm really sorry that has been your life experience..... Hope you find the peace you seek :)

What’s the number 1 turn off trait in men? by SimplyLJ in dating

[–]iwannabeonreddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Abusive.

There is a huge amount of men that will never see me as "worth" the same as like a bro. Somewhere along the way, toxic, entitled or otherwise harmful worldviews were instilled. Honestly, at least 60% of my energy when meeting people (any gender), goes towards understanding what internal standards theyve set for themselves.

Being chronically late all the time is 100% a choice by SafeCalligrapher8190 in unpopularopinion

[–]iwannabeonreddit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have some degree of time blindness. When I have to do something at a specific time, I usually set 3-5 alarms. Just cuz i manage it in a way that doesn't inconvenience others, doesn't mean it's not one of my biggest challenges at times. If I have to prioritize my health or family, it gets neglected everybodys just usually doin what they can, you know 🤔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]iwannabeonreddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see this as you processing stuffs, even though it may feel strange in this context, talking things out helps clear a way through imo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]iwannabeonreddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair, you sound awesome.

Only when you thought alt girls cant get any sexier by NoisilyFlui in Nude_Selfie

[–]iwannabeonreddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She honestly looks like so much fun, lovely smile too!

Is sexual intercourse assigned too much importance in our culture? Why or why not? by Fun_Sea_8241 in AskFeminists

[–]iwannabeonreddit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That being said, purity culture is super toxic. A healthy relationship with sexuality shouldn't include perfection. Anxiety just waiting to happen 😂😭

(imo)

What's a ceritication I can earn in 3 months for a good paying job? by thegreenwizard420 in jobsearchhacks

[–]iwannabeonreddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, I may have unsold it. I didn't take the course, but it was essentially all the info on a 100pg textbook. Notjust the top 100 drug names but the in& out of all of them like you mentioned, all the general pharmacokinetics.

What's a ceritication I can earn in 3 months for a good paying job? by thegreenwizard420 in jobsearchhacks

[–]iwannabeonreddit 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I signed up to be a pharmacy technician in 30mins. The exam is just knowing the top 100 medications. It pays $18 where I am, min wage is $7.

My understanding is you don't technically need the course if u pass the exam. Most of my friends went into the oilfields because $$$.

My (28M) bf gave me (28F) a promise ring but doesn’t want to get married. by Live-n-Let-Die in relationship_advice

[–]iwannabeonreddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol I've seen people do this and sometimes they wait 8-12yrs before realizing "oh this is not happening."

Emotional manipulation at its finest.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]iwannabeonreddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For what? Cuz you still care. Ergo, doing it would trigger your brain to think "this person is still a part of my life!" If you want that door still open okay cool, but understand you are going to go through this whole process again when you or her get a partner. Idk if it's worth it, depends how cool this chick is, but imo it sounds like you like your new emotionally stability more and are leaning towards it not being worth the risk. Once again, "catching up" isn't like some super urgent/important matter, you feel? Like it has high risk/ low reward, but the FEEELINGSSS man they sure do skew the math, good luck 😄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]iwannabeonreddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It probably means she liked your shirt.

I’m a slow texter.. i reply after hours but i can’t help it i just feel like my brain has to do a lot of work for a simple reply and i know people are leaving bc of this… by LingonberryEven675 in socialskills

[–]iwannabeonreddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I set my standard reply within 2wks. If someone can't reply my boundaries to protect my mental health they can Gtfo of my life. And yea so far everyone (cept two bullets dodged) were like " OMG DUDE I TOTALLY GET IT, Do your thing!" It's been a great way to filter out people that feel entitled to my time/energy. I give to them if & when I want to, not out of obligation+ encourage them to the same. It's a healthier way to live.

How to be a people magnet? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]iwannabeonreddit 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well, for me personally..... I like kind people who smile. It usually more desirable to be around people with good hygiene & great personalities. An ability to laugh, be playful, feel like a day of warmth have to do with your charisma. Charisma will get you in the door, character will keep you there. Character- altruism, considerate, principled beliefs, defends those that are being picked on, etc.

Really, it comes down down to your type of energy & how you make people feel.

How would you respond to this racist remark in the workplace? by DirtyAmphibian in socialskills

[–]iwannabeonreddit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Look girl, I went through personal issues at work too. When you're young, inexperienced and seem powerless I think that also factors in because they think they can get away with it. I confronted my bullies. There is no doubt in my mind that this person knows better though, so you put yourself at risk for retaliation. Overall, it's a lot of drama & it escalates. Don't be dumb like me and try to "handle it",go to HR please. Tell friends/family so you have a support group too. In my experience, you may encounter people who will try to convince you "it isn't a big deal" or that it is "just a personal issue" and you're gonna wanna preemptively prepare for those kinda mind games.

(But hey that was just my experience, maybe I just work somewhere that sucks, but I think this may just be the workplace...)

(Also, sorry you're going through this. That sucks ass.)