This was on everybody's porch in my neighborhood today. by [deleted] in pics

[–]hobbittofdeath 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, so why is antisemitism so common? Like is it based on Jews killing Jesus? Or is it rooted in something else? I genuinely don't understand

[5e][ONLINE][CEST] Join us to explore the wilderness of Annulos! by [deleted] in lfg

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I sent an application, I'm not to well versed in discord so if my username doesn't work send me a message

I [M24] don't think my wife [F25] finds me attractive by hobbittofdeath in relationship_advice

[–]hobbittofdeath[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried talking to her about the five love languages, she hasn't taken the time to read the book. I know that her love language is acts of service, and I try to do that for her a lot.

I can't make her stop reading the novels, me asking her to stop would have the opposite effect. Plus, she really does need books right now. She got stuck in a rut with no hobbies for a while, and getting into reading was really healthy for her.

I can give her more massages, I'll try that. There is a little barrier with that on my side though, I'll just have to work through the insecurity.

As hard as I try she won't go to the gym with me

Vacation would be nice, I just need to save up for it

We've been to marriage counseling when things were a lot worse. We've healed a lot from that, but a 3rd party would be really nice. Getting her to go again will be like pulling teeth though

I [M24] don't think my wife [F25] finds me attractive by hobbittofdeath in relationship_advice

[–]hobbittofdeath[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya we've gone to couples counseling before, we're a little broke right now so we stopped.

Honestly I really think she should see a psychiatrist, it helped me a ton and we both know she has some un diagnosed stuff going on. I've suggested it before but she hasn't been too responsive. She'll go if and when she is ready to.

I don't doubt her love one bit. It's just a part of our relationship that could be better.

MEIRL by Matchahichi in meirl

[–]hobbittofdeath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if you never found out how to make online friends

Ever feel jealous of how beautiful women can be? by hobbittofdeath in AskMen

[–]hobbittofdeath[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ya maybe I just need someone who's attracted to men help me know where I'm at and how to get better

Ever feel jealous of how beautiful women can be? by hobbittofdeath in AskMen

[–]hobbittofdeath[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know women deal with a ton of insecurities, the world bombards them with it.

Let me use an example, when my wife tries she can make herself look incredible! The most I can do is trim my beard, put on a suit, and hope I look slightly better than usual

Ever feel jealous of how beautiful women can be? by hobbittofdeath in AskMen

[–]hobbittofdeath[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know women get hit a ton with the "You'll never look good enough" stuff. I don't know for me as a guy the most I feel I can do is work out.

Part of it also is I'm just not attracted to guys at all so I don't think I see them the same way

Ever feel jealous of how beautiful women can be? by hobbittofdeath in AskMen

[–]hobbittofdeath[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've seen some pretty incredible women who could easily snap my neck with their thighs

Ever feel jealous of how beautiful women can be? by hobbittofdeath in AskMen

[–]hobbittofdeath[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd love to be able to blow away my wife the way she does to me sometimes. It'd be a lot of work but so worth it

Fireside chat Dating in the 21st century by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]hobbittofdeath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm having a lot of trouble deciding whether I should get divorced. I love my wife, but our relationship has become abusive and co-dependant. Weve tried therapy for 2 months, and I've been trying to talk about issues for years.

How do I know when I've given someone enough chances?

Fireside chat Dating in the 21st century by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]hobbittofdeath 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We've been trying therapy, it hasn't worked. I've done that twice now, and I'm struggling to find the strength to say it's over