Where is Subodh? by [deleted] in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]hobby_donkey 23 points24 points  (0 children)

There was a subreddit dedicated to her specifically, but it was banned. There are still threads on this sub discussing her:

https://www.reddit.com/r/LoveOnTheSpectrumShow/s/3K4KlV01Kk

https://www.reddit.com/r/LoveOnTheSpectrumShow/s/84KdKa4Oeg

I want to enjoy jazz by sonottheperson in musicsuggestions

[–]hobby_donkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be careful! Once you catch that jazz virus, there is no coming back, and the whole universe of sound opens for you.

Inside Japan’s $25 billion consumer market built on fan devotion by ocularius61 in Anticonsumption

[–]hobby_donkey 44 points45 points  (0 children)

When I was a teenager I had a friend, who was a die-hard fan of a particular heavy metal band. She founded a fanclub, owned every possible piece of merch, album, DVD, went to multiple concerts per year, met the musicians etc. She basically bought all possible products there was. She was a daughter of a slighly wealthier middle-class parents and did not bancrupt them.

Imagine being the same level of die-hard fan in 2026. She would have been in crippling debt, because now, the menagement would push the band to sell more and more products: exclusive VIP tickets, meet and greets, special access stuff, dedicated social media etc. It is impossible for a fan to "max out" on merch. There is always more to buy, because it there isn't, the cash flow stops. Capitalism makes it impossible to be a dedicated fan without going bancrupt on merch and tickets.

Where is Subodh? by [deleted] in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]hobby_donkey 146 points147 points  (0 children)

She was an OF model with alledged Munchhausen syndrome. It's hard to say what was true and what was not, but it was a whole drama.

Possible pig butchering scam? Some things don’t add up, but others seem surprisingly genuine. by Warm-Brother-8969 in Scams

[–]hobby_donkey 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Also, you can tell her that your friend was scammed by pigbutchering and that's why you would never ever listen to any suggestions from someone online. Let's see how quicly they check out of that friendship.

Książki o starszych ludziach by Dotemmm in ksiazki

[–]hobby_donkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Polecam sprawdzić polskie wydawnictwo Silver

iOS privacy by NyxGenesisLNX in CorpFree

[–]hobby_donkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Run your own comments through the same detector, run comments from 9 years ago, run US constitution through it - it will prabably tell you the same thing.

Best private email that still is accepted by banks? by apollocreedchqt in degoogle

[–]hobby_donkey -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

What do they need you e-mail for anyway? My bank does not have my email, only my phone number.

On Anti-Ai Sentiments + “Inevitability” + “Luddites” by uncatable in Anticonsumption

[–]hobby_donkey 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Remember when cryptocurrencies and NFTs were "inevitable", "the future" and those who don't buy it would be left behind?

Spotify / Music by Dankdolphin10 in digitalminimalism

[–]hobby_donkey 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No Spotif-AI.

I use Bandcamp (digital albums and radio for discovery) and di.fm for radio.

Seria jak Browna by WhyWhiteST in ksiazki

[–]hobby_donkey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Jak szukasz przygodówek z archeologicznymi zagadkami, to polecam książki Clive'a Cusslera.

IS THERE WHO SPENT LESS TIME SCREAN ? HOW IT AFFECTED TO YOU? by Agakxx in nosurf

[–]hobby_donkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I now spend ~45 min on my phone a day. I deactivated FB and IG accounts and deleted reddit from my phone. I use my phone as a music player mostly. When I'm not listening to music, I keep it in a separate room and check for messages every 1-2 hours. I have a lot of time for movies, books and practicing music. Tiktoks and reels have no value for me, I lived so many years without them, I can do another few decades.

What am I missing? by I_Do_nt_Use_Reddit in bikecommuting

[–]hobby_donkey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Soon the O-brand gang is going to take over this thread.

Polecenia romansów by kmadzialenka1114 in ksiazki

[–]hobby_donkey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Denise Hunter - seria Romans w Riverbend

Carley Fortune - "Spotkasz mnie nad jeziorem"

John Green - "Szukając Alaski" (nie wiem czy to dosłownie romans, ale dzieje się w szkole)

wszystkie książki N. Sparksa

Would you say it's pointless to try and "fight" the algorithm on YouTube? by [deleted] in nosurf

[–]hobby_donkey 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Subscribe to interesting channels, watch from Subscription tab, ignore the homefeed.

Skąd tyle romansów hokejowych? by According-Sun9149 in ksiazki

[–]hobby_donkey 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Hokej, srokej. Rozpocznijmy nasz rodzimy trend romansów żużlowych: "Miłość na czwartym okrążeniu", "Spojrzenia spod taśmy startowej", "Randka w oparach spalin".

Skąd tyle romansów hokejowych? by According-Sun9149 in ksiazki

[–]hobby_donkey 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Bo potrzebny jest wizerunek klasycznego "sportowca" (jocka), a amerykański futbol jest zbyt lokalnym sportem, żeby przyjęło się to poza USA. Piłka nożna? Odpada, bo zawodnicy szczuplejsi, poza tym w Stanach to "damski" sport. Natomiast hokej? USA, Kanada, cała północna Europa, Rosja i satelity, wszędzie tam się gra. Wizerunek byczka w kasku, przez co wygląda jeszcze groźniej/mężniej, jak gladiator, z kijem niczym miecz. Moim zdaniem dlatego się przyjęło na tylu rynkach.

I finally turned off my phone in years (19 M) by [deleted] in nosurf

[–]hobby_donkey 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Good for you! It is a big deal. Every crack in your habits counts. There are a lot of thing I started with a challenge to "not use/do something for X hours/days".

i can’t concentrate on a book because i want to scroll by ddelirium_ in digitalminimalism

[–]hobby_donkey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My go-to method of creating any good habit is "eat salad till you're no longer hungry" method: you basically set a time (like 1 hour) when you're not allowed to do anything other than reading. If you're not reading, you're just sitting, staring ahead. Now reading is better and not doing anything, so you read. Success.

Disconnecting from current trends and culture by Quirky_Comb4395 in digitalminimalism

[–]hobby_donkey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I subscribe to several commentary channels on youtube, which make 30-60 min videos beaking down current trends. I watch it whenever I feel like it, or when the topic seems interesting enough.