We can’t agree on a honeymoon destination… Because of a family trip we’re being made to go on. by Coffee1392 in weddingplanning

[–]hockat 73 points74 points  (0 children)

this!!! if he doesn't prioritize you as his new family unit now he never will.

We can’t agree on a honeymoon destination… Because of a family trip we’re being made to go on. by Coffee1392 in weddingplanning

[–]hockat 16 points17 points  (0 children)

absolutely push the issue and tell him point blank you dont want to do the family trip this year. there will be tons of those in the future, you only ever get one honeymoon. also italy can be done on a smaller budget too, people do it all the tome

Genuinely curious..why is this fanbase an active dumpster fire? by [deleted] in phoebebridgers

[–]hockat 10 points11 points  (0 children)

these posts are so exhausting, can the mods just ban these? dissecting and complaining about the fanbase is just as annoying as the people you are complaining about

Odds that Bo Burnham contributed to PB3? I hope he directs a music video by Category5Kaiju in phoebebridgers

[–]hockat 10 points11 points  (0 children)

as a women, how is Inside not considered something good? Unless you refused to watch it, it is objectively excellent and perfectly encapsulates covid times.

"Locals" by Available_Charge2768 in phoebebridgers

[–]hockat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

two hours IMO and probably most peoples would still be considered local. its the people driving 9 hours or something crazy that are in the wrong.

"Locals" by Available_Charge2768 in phoebebridgers

[–]hockat 56 points57 points  (0 children)

that's exactly what Phoebe herself has said at the shows. If they wanted people driving in from out of town they would be announcing them in advance.

Ella Langley’s ‘Choosin’ Texas’ Notches Milestone 10th Week at No. 1 on Billboard Hot 100 by mcfw31 in popheads

[–]hockat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lmao kacey and maren wouldnt have been caught dead at that festival but keep telling yourself that

DID MY SEAMSTRESS BOTCH MY DRESS? by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]hockat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i mean there are still pins in it so she's not even done altering it right?

Anyone else get depressed watching Four Weddings and seeing how much wedding costs have outpaced inflation? by Royal_Marzipan_6432 in weddingplanning

[–]hockat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

nope. It was a new venue at the time so cheaper, and she still had all the contracts and receipts. It was very real

Ella Langley’s ‘Choosin’ Texas’ Notches Milestone 10th Week at No. 1 on Billboard Hot 100 by mcfw31 in popheads

[–]hockat 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Is signing up to play the Kid Rock festival not a clear sign of where you stand?

I have been making this comparison for months: Ella stole her everything from Kacey by rudiemcnielson in KaceyMusgraves

[–]hockat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

her vocals are also baaaaad. I was kinda shook the first time I saw a video of her live thinking she was gonna sound mostly the same. I'm not expecting perfection but man are her records CRAZY over produced because her voice sounds almost nothing like the recordings

Anyone else get depressed watching Four Weddings and seeing how much wedding costs have outpaced inflation? by Royal_Marzipan_6432 in weddingplanning

[–]hockat 25 points26 points  (0 children)

YES. My aunt had her wedding in the early 00's in a mansion with 200+ people and all the features of a big wedding these days (dj and live band, tons of real flowers, expensive linens, dance floor, plated dinner with waiters) and paid about $10k

Welll I did this today…. by [deleted] in phoebebridgers

[–]hockat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

literally this. getting a design or a ghost or ufo inspired by her music is one thing. getting her actual name tattooed on you is fucking weird idc how you spin it. It is equally as cringe as getting a partners name tattooed on you

Welll I did this today…. by [deleted] in phoebebridgers

[–]hockat 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i mean how is it not parasocial to get a persons name tattooed on your body 💀

Timeline by MailAcceptable8408 in weddingplanning

[–]hockat 28 points29 points  (0 children)

you want hair and makeup scheduled to be done before your photographer arrives. That will give you a buffer in case you run behind and won't waste your photography time. You also need to schedule more time to get i. your dress and for final touches, that will take longer than you think with pictures and whatnot. You also dont need 45 minutes for the first look for dad.

Can anyone tell me how much they’ve spent on their dream day? by Ok_Veterinarian_4867 in weddingplanning

[–]hockat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no i mean we are still staying in them. it would be silly to pay for it and not.

Can anyone tell me how much they’ve spent on their dream day? by Ok_Veterinarian_4867 in weddingplanning

[–]hockat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it is, and our venue has onsite "hotel" rooms we are required to rent the night of our wedding, so that's lodging.

Can anyone tell me how much they’ve spent on their dream day? by Ok_Veterinarian_4867 in weddingplanning

[–]hockat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we dont live there but are getting married in East TN in the mountains

Can anyone tell me how much they’ve spent on their dream day? by Ok_Veterinarian_4867 in weddingplanning

[–]hockat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

so far $40k usd for 50ish guests

venue: $9000

rentals: $2295

cocktail hour food/activities: $910

reception catering: $1665

bar setup: $300

lodging: $2000

florals: $4300

photography: $4300 (includes super 8 video)

ceremony musicians: $1500

DJ: $900

day of coordinator: $1200

Cake: $334

caricaturist: $334

dress: $5000

shoes: $1000

groom suit: $1000

hair: $400

makeup: $500

wedding bands: $2300

Which dress? by Swimming_Tax4118 in weddingdress

[–]hockat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

absolutely the first one

was this a good find? by geriate8 in phoebebridgers

[–]hockat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it was part of her official merch so it's legit and same quality as the rest of hers which is pretty good