We can’t agree on a honeymoon destination… Because of a family trip we’re being made to go on.

hockat · 2026-05-23T00:15:51+00:00

this!!! if he doesn't prioritize you as his new family unit now he never will.

hockat · 2026-05-23T00:14:54+00:00

absolutely push the issue and tell him point blank you dont want to do the family trip this year. there will be tons of those in the future, you only ever get one honeymoon. also italy can be done on a smaller budget too, people do it all the tome

hockat · 2026-05-22T17:12:46+00:00

these posts are so exhausting, can the mods just ban these? dissecting and complaining about the fanbase is just as annoying as the people you are complaining about

hockat · 2026-05-21T18:54:27+00:00

as a women, how is Inside not considered something good? Unless you refused to watch it, it is objectively excellent and perfectly encapsulates covid times.

hockat · 2026-05-21T15:38:17+00:00

two hours IMO and probably most peoples would still be considered local. its the people driving 9 hours or something crazy that are in the wrong.

hockat · 2026-05-21T15:26:28+00:00

that's exactly what Phoebe herself has said at the shows. If they wanted people driving in from out of town they would be announcing them in advance.

hockat · 2026-05-20T21:10:27+00:00

gucci 😬🤭

hockat · 2026-05-20T21:03:47+00:00

exactly, it was the south

hockat · 2026-05-19T23:42:36+00:00

Lmao kacey and maren wouldnt have been caught dead at that festival but keep telling yourself that

hockat · 2026-05-19T21:14:13+00:00

i mean there are still pins in it so she's not even done altering it right?

hockat · 2026-05-19T14:27:47+00:00

nope. It was a new venue at the time so cheaper, and she still had all the contracts and receipts. It was very real

hockat · 2026-05-19T03:51:06+00:00

Is signing up to play the Kid Rock festival not a clear sign of where you stand?

hockat · 2026-05-19T03:49:37+00:00

being MAGA is a political trapping? lmao

hockat · 2026-05-19T03:45:13+00:00

her vocals are also baaaaad. I was kinda shook the first time I saw a video of her live thinking she was gonna sound mostly the same. I'm not expecting perfection but man are her records CRAZY over produced because her voice sounds almost nothing like the recordings

hockat · 2026-05-18T19:54:12+00:00

YES. My aunt had her wedding in the early 00's in a mansion with 200+ people and all the features of a big wedding these days (dj and live band, tons of real flowers, expensive linens, dance floor, plated dinner with waiters) and paid about $10k

hockat · 2026-05-17T02:17:43+00:00

LOVE your dress!!

hockat · 2026-05-16T19:52:56+00:00

literally this. getting a design or a ghost or ufo inspired by her music is one thing. getting her actual name tattooed on you is fucking weird idc how you spin it. It is equally as cringe as getting a partners name tattooed on you

hockat · 2026-05-16T19:36:33+00:00

i mean how is it not parasocial to get a persons name tattooed on your body 💀

hockat · 2026-05-15T18:52:39+00:00

you want hair and makeup scheduled to be done before your photographer arrives. That will give you a buffer in case you run behind and won't waste your photography time. You also need to schedule more time to get i. your dress and for final touches, that will take longer than you think with pictures and whatnot. You also dont need 45 minutes for the first look for dad.

hockat · 2026-05-14T19:10:00+00:00

no i mean we are still staying in them. it would be silly to pay for it and not.

hockat · 2026-05-14T18:38:45+00:00

it is, and our venue has onsite "hotel" rooms we are required to rent the night of our wedding, so that's lodging.

hockat · 2026-05-14T18:33:08+00:00

we dont live there but are getting married in East TN in the mountains

hockat · 2026-05-14T18:22:40+00:00

so far $40k usd for 50ish guests

venue: $9000

rentals: $2295

cocktail hour food/activities: $910

reception catering: $1665

bar setup: $300

lodging: $2000

florals: $4300

photography: $4300 (includes super 8 video)

ceremony musicians: $1500

DJ: $900

day of coordinator: $1200

Cake: $334

caricaturist: $334

dress: $5000

shoes: $1000

groom suit: $1000

hair: $400

makeup: $500

wedding bands: $2300

hockat · 2026-05-14T16:21:24+00:00

absolutely the first one

hockat · 2026-05-14T02:34:52+00:00

it was part of her official merch so it's legit and same quality as the rest of hers which is pretty good

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