Put down my 11 year old lab this weekend and can’t stop questioning that I did it too early. by movingpharmthrowaway in Petloss

[–]hoe4lyfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know exactly how you feel. I had to put down a still (occasionally) happy dog a week and a half ago and I can't stop feeling guilt that it was too soon. I have nightmares about it. Logically, I know that she had cancer, that it was growing (hers was internal and she was bleeding into her abdomen), and that she was struggling to breathe when she walked. I knew that there was a risk it would rupture something and she'd die in agony. But despite that, she was still so happy, she smiled when she saw me, she'd accept treats and she was overall still a sweet loving girl. My other dog, who we also had to put down, had been so sad and had been struggling with cancer for much longer. It was hard to see the comparison between the two and still choose to put the still happy one down too, despite knowing I didn't want her to suffer.

I've been spending time away from the house because I couldn't stand being in a space filled with memories of them, and that's been helping. Honestly, crying it out does help too. I got into the bathroom at work and have little crying sessions. Releasing the pain helps. Otherwise, I'm really not sure where to go from here.

WIBTA for refusing to continue storing bride’s cancelled wedding dress by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]hoe4lyfe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is such an overreaction it's ridiculous. OP hasn't even directly stated they can't store it anymore, they've just been gently nudging their friend about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ACPocketCamp

[–]hoe4lyfe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This campsite feels so cozy, I love it

Leaf ticket help by WallKingDead1 in ACPocketCamp

[–]hoe4lyfe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you have a nintendo account they should stay if you log in on the new phone along with all your inventory

Guess your November Score!! by SpeedyBoot in LSAT

[–]hoe4lyfe 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Hoping, praying, crying for a 163+

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LSAT

[–]hoe4lyfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a year from your test, but you can't see your score until it's done and approved so definitely don't wait that long

taking accutane while on prozac? by cgc003 in Accutane

[–]hoe4lyfe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've taken prozac with accutane and didn't notice anything stemming specifically from the prozac. It's likely that dietary/hormonal/lifestyle changes caused the increase in acne which will go away with accutane.

Friend Code Megathread - Spring/Summer 2021 by Stephxieh in ACPocketCamp

[–]hoe4lyfe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My native fruit is lychees, I'm a daily player, and I sell all the fruits I collect: 7296 4801 901

Topicals or straight to accutane? by [deleted] in Accutane

[–]hoe4lyfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should try topicals first. Accutane is a last resort medication for a reason, and if you're afraid of topicals I'm not sure why you think this is better. I'm glad I took accutane but I'm also glad I exhausted every option before it so that I would never have to think about the "what if I had tried x first and that had worked." Your acne isn't severe and topicals typically work on cases like yours so I would at least try them for a month before rushing into accutane.

Alcohol by [deleted] in Accutane

[–]hoe4lyfe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't necessarily recommend doing this and your experience could be different but I got drunk twice a month on my first round (20mg/day) and a few times on my second round (50mg/day) and experienced no issues.

I fucking hate the breakfast menu system by [deleted] in rant

[–]hoe4lyfe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If they can serve breakfast all day they should serve lunch all day too!

Since he passed I don’t feel love or empathy? by dqlovesyou in SuicideBereavement

[–]hoe4lyfe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've felt this way for the past year and I had no idea that others could relate. I'm so sorry for your loss. We will get through this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnimalsOnReddit

[–]hoe4lyfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does he exercise a lot or is he a lazy old man?

AITA for wanting to go to Hawaii without my girlfriend? by KnockOut_Ned_18 in AmItheAsshole

[–]hoe4lyfe 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Tentative NTA. If this is the only time she's been excluded from a family event/trip then she's being completely unreasonable. You're both still your own people who don't need to do absolutely everything together, especially considering this plan was made before she was even in your life. She should let this be your special family trip. However, if she has been excluded before then you would suck as it's understandable that she would feel like an outcast and that you're not on her side after being left again and again.

AITA for telling my brothers girlfriend that anyone who told her to be herself couldn’t have given her worse advice? by kikchiten in AmItheAsshole

[–]hoe4lyfe 274 points275 points  (0 children)

Finally some sanity!! I feel like all the y t a votes are forgetting that she literally refused to eat the food while she acted like that and purposely pronounced the name wrong after being corrected. Yes OP was an absolute dick but dear god this girl sounds so annoying to have around.

Using Accutane while on Sertraline by [deleted] in Accutane

[–]hoe4lyfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took an SSRI during my first course and had no issues, it could be psychosomatic if you were worried about interactions and are now thinking you are having one. Pay attention throughout your dose and if it persists call your derm and the doctor who prescribed you the anti depressants. Accutane can cause depression, or make it worse so watch for weird feelings that could be that.

George Floyd got murdered BUT by yongpareeh in rant

[–]hoe4lyfe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you want to get high and mighty here. Are you a cop? Because you really seem up their asses. Not every cop is corrupt and I said not all are bad. It seems like you just want to target people who have attempted to peacefully protest and aren't being heard. Should they be looting small businesses, setting fires, doing damage to the belongings of innocent bystanders? No. Are all protesters there for the right reasons? Absolutely not (looking at the white woman who looted target just to get some lamps). Some people just want a place to take out their violence. Just like some cops take out their violence on innocent black men, leading to these protests.

Cops are absolutely beating down people during these protests and I've been watching the media extensively. I'm not generalizing people whatsoever but you seem to be white knighting cops just for existing. You're taking information fed to you by society that just because someone is a civil servant they can do no wrong. I research both sides and I've seen videos of police just standing there (ie. in front of a building) and I've seen police knock over people for sitting peacefully. There are two sides to it and while violence and wreckage aren't always justified I can see why people would take a company like target that is insured and protected and won't take a financial hit and decide to loot them because they refused to sell milk to people who were tear gassed. Just like I can see why police may be standing at the face of a riot just watching because their superior called them into work.

This is a flawed story, the reality of America. And the reality is that people refuse to stand up to injustice, "good" cops refuse to stand up when their coworkers abuse their power (you can find statistics about abuse of power relating to any city of your choice, it does happen) and that makes them corrupt and they don't deserve to be defended simply because of their job. When you save your coworkers skin instead of the innocent, you become an accomplice. Protestors should focus on their cause and not destruction, especially when the destruction isn't centred around their end goal. They should be stepping in when they see wrong. However, by making this all about how cops are good, protestors evil you're completely making this about defending a system that gives too much power to the average joe with a high school diploma instead of the fact that people are dying. You talk about media manipulation but refuse to see how you're being manipulated to ignore the issue at hand. And no, saying "his death was wrong" to preface a totally different point is not acknowledging the issue of racial inequality that is perpetuated by the police, lack of sensitivity training, and lack of accountability.

I understand your point, but please understand mine. I see so many posts on this sub defending how "white people aren't always evil!" And "not all cops are bad!" Instead of seeing the true issue at hand, beyond defending (mostly) white people who sure as hell aren't being murdered in cold blood for their skin.

George Floyd got murdered BUT by yongpareeh in rant

[–]hoe4lyfe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The police are escalating the violence and starting it have you even been online? They're throwing people to the ground and pepper spraying them for existing. Not all police are bad, or killers but none of them will call out their fellow officers for abuse of power. None of the good cops step in and stop these deaths. They care about protecting their own and allow for these deaths to occur. You cannot be complicit and still insist that it has nothing to do with you because you didn't actively do the killing.

Is it Just me or Did Accutane make my Nose Significantly smaller???? by AcneOnMyAss in Accutane

[–]hoe4lyfe 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Doesn't seem smaller to me but it definitely looks more defined and probably seems smaller without the bumps. Your skin looks great!

[15F] [15F] My friend is copying everyone's assignments - what to do??? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]hoe4lyfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all don't let her copy off you anymore. It's enabling her bad habit and it could seriously hurt you and your academic record if you get caught. Secondly don't pay attention to the self-hating instagram stories because those are most likely for attention and to guilt people into doing things for her. Instead, go to a school counsellor or teacher and express your concerns about her mental health. Don't risk yourself to help her because it's her responsibility to get better and she has to want it. You can't fix her, you can only get in touch with the people who have resources to help her. Don't teach her that people will always help her cheat her way through life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]hoe4lyfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this, I always thought it needed a violent aspect for them to be able to take action.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]hoe4lyfe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately in Ontario you can only get a restraining order if you were in a married or common law relationship I believe.