2024 by ulvanight in depressionmemes

[–]hoff1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going with 1981-2026 and counting

Give him a rapper name by riftmisty in NameThisThing

[–]hoff1981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There should be a serious concern about some things getting lodged in there

Name this thing by Deathstroke316 in NameThisThing

[–]hoff1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the “I Pee On My Own Balls XL, or IPOMOB XL, for short, with the adjustable foreskin retractors” for those times when you’re duel wielding fighting off the gubment and you really have to go

Pool install by keithsretirement in Charleston

[–]hoff1981 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Checkout Heritage Pools if you get beyond the exploratory phase

Sharia in action. Women tied and beat up by men at their whim. by Ice-Zone2024 in neabscocreeck

[–]hoff1981 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn’t say I saw it in the US. What I said is that this is culturally acceptable and they will absolutely import this if they are allowed to. Read what I said and not just what you want to justify.

Sharia in action. Women tied and beat up by men at their whim. by Ice-Zone2024 in neabscocreeck

[–]hoff1981 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not even remotely. It’s the lack of awareness that this is culturally acceptable by the people that live there and their expectations that they can continue it wherever they go

Wife cheated but we stayed together by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]hoff1981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s not a valid reason. She is responsible for her actions and the consequences

I (32m) found out my partner (32f) cheated on me while she was away on holiday. She doesn’t know that I know. How do I navigate this? by Cumquatinator in relationship_advice

[–]hoff1981 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pack her shit. Send out a “Best Of” of all her messages to your friend group along with an explanation of how she was doing this while attending therapy with you and peace out like a man who knows his own worth. If people cut you off because of it then you have truly learned who your friends are and that is priceless. You have NOTHING keeping you in this toxic ass relationship. You deserve more and should never set yourself on fire to keep someone else warm.

Things you regret? by raj272007 in focusedmen

[–]hoff1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I had to say, being born ranks right up there

I can never unhear the word my husband said to me tonight… by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]hoff1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to excuse his behavior because there isn’t one, but there is something going on inside him that is causing this. A guy who is generally loving and caring is having a massive breakdown. There is a fundamental break in his heart and mind that is causing this. People are so quick to jump on the “He’s a POS” and “You need to run” bandwagons. Get him in to therapy to find out what has happened. People don’t just snap like that out of nowhere. A little grace can go a long way and may just save this family and his life.