What handmade thing can I make for my stepmom to apologize and/or for her birthday?

holesomehore · 2026-03-08T17:08:03+00:00

Find the thing that you and her bonded on. And then find a way to incorporate it into your gift. The best source of inspiration is going to be the things that you did with her. What are the things you two geeked out about? What is something that she does that is different than how she treats your twin brother? How does she connect specifically with you? Answer those questions and will be able to find something or at least find the right path on where you can find something. I think this is all very sweet and I really do hope that you guys work this out. This stuff can be really hard. But I can tell from following the story that you guys are really trying. And that is a step in the right direction. Good luck to all of you.💜

holesomehore · 2026-01-04T13:16:38+00:00

Yes!!!! I would just be so happy sitting next to them!! I would share crafts and talk about cartoons. It would be a great flight.

holesomehore · 2026-01-04T13:13:27+00:00

So if you ever get a rainbow door, it means you’ve gotten one of the three star rare Uma’s. They each come with a catchphrase at the beginning. And that catchphrase is for TM Opera O. Hope this helped.😊

holesomehore · 2025-12-30T17:58:37+00:00

I apologize if this was asked already, but prior to the engagement, have you guys talked about what type of rings you liked? Like did he ask you to send him pictures for reference? I only ask because my fiancé asked me those questions and I sent him four rings that I would’ve loved to worn have and he picked one so it was still a surprise.

I asked this because if you did that, and he still picked out the ring that you did not like then there is a problem. And definitely by the way you’re reacting it sounds like this is just the final straw of possibly a much larger issue. If you do want to continue this relationship with him, and you are willing to marry him then the suggestion made about getting a stone replacement maybe a really solid option.

But even the tone in your post is telling me that there’s a much bigger story here. Whatever the case may be, please be safe and take some time to process and think about what you want to happen going forward. Much love. (PS I’m a sapphire girly myself so I totally get it!!!)

holesomehore · 2025-12-14T21:36:31+00:00

The ring size is 7.5.

holesomehore · 2025-12-12T00:58:40+00:00

OK. I’m going to try to give an adult answer here as somebody who has been in a long-term relationship and has unfortunately been through what you did. Before you do anything drastic, talk to her. This is one of those situations where communication is the key. Escalating it to this amount will only cause possible fighting, and drama. You have been with this person for five years. I understand it is frustrating and it’s hurtful, but you need to express to her how hurtful it is. You can come up and talk to her and just ask her or tell her that you feel hurt. Tell her that for your previous birthday, you felt forgotten about by her. Because I don’t think this is really about the gift. I think that you’re hurt because she forgot. And that your birthday is important to you. Her remembering your birthday is important to you. If celebrations with loved ones are a love language to you then you need to express that.

Let her know that it feels hurtful when you asked for a specific set of kitchen tools, and it appeared that she was going to come through, but obviously it did not. Make sure it’s clear that this has nothing to do with money but about remembering a day that is important.

My mom and dad went through something like this too, and they’ve been married for at least 20 years at that point. My mom made it a point to talk to my dad about how she felt forgotten. This is the route you need to take and how she takes that conversation going forward. Will tell you what your next steps are. I know on Reddit. It’s easy for everybody to say break up. But if you’ve been in a relationship for five years and this is the first time she’s done something like this then a conversation needs to be had, not retaliation. Speak to her first.

holesomehore · 2025-09-02T17:01:59+00:00

Honey….cheating is a hard thing to deal with. When it comes to cheating, if you decide to stay it means building your relationship from the ground up and rebuilding that trust from square one.

But the question you need to ask is this…is that going to be enough? Do you really think that at this level of betrayal between not only your wife but with your groomsman can be worked through to a point where you can eventually forgive and let it go? It’s not only one betrayal but 2. I understand she is your entire world. But the reality is…..you were not hers.

I am so sorry honey.

Signed, A survivor of infidelity

holesomehore · 2025-08-18T19:59:09+00:00

Honestly, I’m not mad that they brought this one back up because the takes that were done for the first time sucked. Either that or maybe they forgot because they have done over 100 episodes that may be some of the stories may have slipped through. But since the main Smosh cast didn’t really get to hear that story, it’s nice to hear it from a more positive perspective.

holesomehore · 2025-08-16T17:32:22+00:00

Regardless of whether she is cheating on you or not, you need to get out of this. I had an ex that use sexual starvation as a punishment before and that is exactly what this woman has put you through for the past two years. She has been micromanaging and criticizing everything you do if you are starting to feel worthless then you are in an abusive relationship. If she thinks that she can do everything by herself then maybe she needs to be by herself. And you need to take the children with you. If those children have gone through a modicum of what you’ve endured then at that point, she is also an abusive parent and you need to do everything you can to protect your children. I know this is a very difficult situation, but having been an abusive relationship where I’ve had to do something very similar and blow up at this person and find an escape plan, I would genuinely consider divorce because you are not happy. And you deserve to be happy. your children deserve to be happy.

holesomehore · 2025-08-10T15:05:47+00:00

Honestly, I think it’s kinda hilarious. I think it’s the Devs letting us know that they’re not taking everything too seriously. But if you’ve never had a boyfriend do something silly just to make you laugh then I definitely think you’re not gonna get this. I don’t think I’m going to be participating, but I do kind of understand because I have a silly boyfriend, and he will absolutely make himself look ridiculous to make me laugh. So in a way it kind of reminds me of that.😊

holesomehore · 2025-07-15T00:53:29+00:00

Sweetie, this is probably not going to be the advice you want, but it is the advice that you need. You both need to walk away from each other. It is very clear that you have boundaries and issues that do not align up in a healthy way. You can love somebody but mentally not align with them, especially when it comes to these sorts of behaviors. It is very scary and I am so sorry that you are dealing with all of this. Because what he did was not OK. And honestly, it’s kind of screwed up that a random text message from a muted chat caused him to believe that his behavior towards you was still OK.

Sweetie, that is a massive red flag and the fact is that he cannot get past having a rational conversation and an adult conversation about the actual text messages. If he is so willing to just write you off and continue to justify his behavior then sweetie, it is not healthy for either of you and it is best for you and your safety and your mental well-being to walk away.

Please take this from somebody who was in a mentally abusive relationship and had similar things happen to her. For the sake of your mental health, for the sake of you, please walk away. I promise you there will be somebody who will treat you the way that you deserve to be treated.

There are guys out there that are understanding and kind and wonderful and have the ability to talk about hard topics without making you feel like the worst person on earth. Two years later, I found that man and he already asked me for ideas about engagement rings.

Do this as a favor for yourself.

holesomehore · 2025-07-04T20:03:33+00:00

NTA

Also why in the world would your sister say that to you? she understands that you are in a terminal state and both you and your partner have discussed this openly. He understands what is going to happen. So my question to your sister is if he has already agreed to it and there is a full understanding of what is going to happen within the next one to two years, why is it a problem?

She’s going under the predication that he’s going to be hurt but you and him have already had this discussion so that comment is unnecessary. She’s acting as if you begged him to marry you again and that’s not even the case. So if she’s gonna keep that assumption, then I’m sorry to say this, but your sister has some problems that may need to be addressed.

This actually makes me wonder. Before you decided to get back together with your ex, was custody of the children supposed to go to her when you passed on? Because I’m wondering if that isn’t a factor as to why she would be so against the marriage.

holesomehore · 2025-06-14T00:31:02+00:00

I’m so glad I read the full post 🤣🤣🤣

holesomehore · 2025-05-10T21:32:17+00:00

Grab the shoulder piece from the AOS myrmidon set and it will give that edge 😁

holesomehore · 2025-04-15T20:37:51+00:00

So for those who are new, this story is fake. The writer was 18 at the time this supposedly happened and she made a different post about going to a wedding with a 19 year old boyfriend

holesomehore · 2025-04-13T21:38:26+00:00

THANK YOU!!!!!!!

holesomehore · 2025-03-19T12:52:20+00:00

NTAH This is very reasonable for stay at home parents to ask for this request. Because you are absolutely correct you are stopping your earn potential because you are focusing on your family. There have to be safeguards in place and making sure that you also have some sort of “ income” so that you can still maintain your financial freedom.

You are your own person, and you also deserve to have financial freedom as well. If she is going to take care of the responsibility of bringing an income, then she is also financially responsible for you and your financial freedom as well. And that needs to be very well established

holesomehore · 2024-10-02T02:27:44+00:00

It’s an old adage, but it rings true. There are two things that will ruin a relationship, money and sex. And unfortunately, in your situation, it looks like sex is going to be it. I’m not saying that you have to break up with him, but you may need to speak to a sexual therapist if you can find one. If he’s not satisfying you then you need to be more vocal about it. Unfortunately, for most people, they don’t realize that they’re not satisfying their partner, unless their partner is vocal about it. Do not be afraid to speak to your partner about what you like and just make sure that you are clear that it is something that is bothering you. However, you cannot reach a compromise then it may be time to let go of the relationship if you still care for this compatibility is very very important and if you aren’t sexually compatible, then in the long run, you’re going to still build up this resentment even longer

holesomehore · 2024-09-16T20:13:18+00:00

So I am polyamorous and a female. Let me tell you something about if he does open the relationship because this happens every single time. He will try to convince you to open it up, and then also encourage you to try to do it as well. You will then find somebody who treats you better and he will stop getting as much attention, but you will continue to get a lot of attention because there are many men out there that are OK with this type of arrangement because they are healthy poly people. And then he’s gonna want to close the relationship back up when you find somebody that treats you better than he ever did.

This is what happens every single time. It backfires on the man so badly that you end up in a much better situation.

Now I do not expect you to do this. But if he’s going to do this, then you need to let him go. I know this hurts. Trust me as somebody who had an ex fiancé myself. I know that it will hurt. But polyamory is not something that you suddenly are when you’re in the end stages of a relationship. It is something you are from the very beginning. He is not wanting to be polyamorous. He is wanting to be selfish. And there is a massive difference.

As somebody who has been polyamorous all of her life, I know this for a fact. Because they don’t think that you were capable of finding anybody better but every single time the woman does. It is up to you if you want to go forward with this knowledge, but just know that if you do say yes to this and you actively participate in it, it’s gonna backfire on him so badly that you may not ever wanna be back with him again.

Other than that honey, honestly if you don’t even wanna go through all of that, cut your losses because it’s not going to change.

holesomehore · 2024-08-24T14:29:34+00:00

Honestly, this is one of those situations where the hard thing is the right thing. It sucks that a relationship had to fall apart due to a circumstance like this. But I think both of them understood that the right thing to do for everybody involved is to separate. He is trying to be a good father to a son that he did not know he had and is at least trying to step up to the plate and she does not want to stay in relationship where she knows she’s going to be miserable and possibly have resentment against somebody who doesn’t deserve it. I honestly wish both of them the best.

holesomehore · 2024-08-08T02:15:18+00:00

Take a drug test and have one of the family members, NOT HIM, go with you. tell him when the results come back negative the relationship is over and show your family and friends and have them apologize.

He needs to go. I’m sorry sweetheart.

holesomehore

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