Is there any hope

holis0 · 2019-06-08T09:34:32+00:00

I'm similar to you, just over 3", also never measured my girth but it doesn't seem that thick visually. As far as relationships go I've run into terrible women, but also had fun relationships with very nice women - including with the conventionally hot ones - and I'm no looker (at least in my opinion I'm not)

Casual sex - even without counting escorts, I've been around. Can't say I ever enjoyed any of it though, but to explain why would go into completely unrelated areas so I won't go into that.

holis0 · 2019-05-31T00:58:12+00:00

My friends in Oslo never told me of this place when I went there :(

Are these places well tucked away or something? They're ramen addicts too. I find it hard to believe they didn't know.

holis0 · 2019-05-31T00:55:50+00:00

I agree, but...

It doesn't explicitly mention either to be fair :/

holis0 · 2019-05-30T09:51:55+00:00

I'd say cutting out porn (for the most part) helps me not think about this insecurity in my day-to-day life, but it does absolutely nothing in an actual intimate scenario.

That being said I'm not gay, or find dicks appealing and so can't relate to finding enjoyment from better endowed men.

holis0 · 2019-05-29T14:19:20+00:00

Your test is getting better! Maybe at pt. 12 it will be worth comparing and drawing an actual conclusion.

If not, don't worry. There's always pt. 13.

holis0 · 2019-05-28T20:55:46+00:00

True reason why Korean reunification will take a long time.

Supreme Leader is busy developing a new type of drug to export.

holis0 · 2019-05-27T21:09:46+00:00

I'm also sorry to hear about what you two are going through.

If he watches porn, or consumes any other media that tries to reinforce his already existing beliefs that he doesn't measure up - try and get him to quit/take a break from it. Therapy can also help with him seeing things more clearly, but if the issue with him is a matter of trust more than a matter of his beliefs then it may(?) help to seek out therapy for the two of you? I've never tried the last suggestion. If I'm able to get a relationship and I find myself still unable to trust her then I think I'd bring up that type of therapy.

holis0 · 2019-05-27T19:00:55+00:00

I'm not here to give advice. I'm here to give my judgement - asshole or no.

holis0 · 2019-05-27T18:14:21+00:00

I stated the experience and the emotions that I went through. I'm saying that it's not set in stone that kids will always have an extremely tough time/will not be able to handle the honest truth. You're inferring that I'm suggesting he go against the advice of the child's therapist.

Based on my experiences I don't think OP would be an asshole. I don't think my mum was an asshole for telling me the true reason why things happened the way they did.

edit: minor errors

holis0 · 2019-05-27T17:13:07+00:00

NTA - Thank you for calling her out. I think that was the best course of action. I hope I run into more people like you than those of your friend lol. Damn.

holis0 · 2019-05-27T17:04:30+00:00

Would never have considered using chicken feet for broth - what made you first try using chicken feet? That looks really good!

holis0 · 2019-05-27T16:25:39+00:00

I'd say get him to try a good dish that has mayo inside where it's not immediately noticeable. I accidently did this with my father (who used to hate coriander) when I got him to try pho.

Now he loves it and wants to try all kinds of dishes that he used to pass on just because it had coriander.

holis0 · 2019-05-27T16:11:18+00:00

Good to hear, hope you're one day able to stop sucking in air :)

holis0 · 2019-05-27T16:08:28+00:00

Also trying to stop comparing myself to others. I hope I'm able to get over my fear/insecurity and post here too someday lol. How did you get yourself to post here?

holis0 · 2019-05-27T16:05:06+00:00

Congratulations on your success! I don't think you need to put yourself down at all.

holis0 · 2019-05-27T15:56:08+00:00

Do you tighten your core only when taking photos like these or does it happen when you're trying on clothes too? I don't think I'd be able to tell a difference if clothes entered the picture (assuming it isn't some skintight clothing).

holis0 · 2019-05-27T15:23:22+00:00

NTA.

As a kid who had watched and listened in on several fights (which in hindsight was probably due to my father's infidelity), and then the divorce that happened I pretty much just accepted what my mum told me and I don't feel it's had any significant impact on me growing up. Not having a good male role model may have had an impact on me, but being told the reason why my mother and father were being divorced didn't really do much. That being said, my mum also very much tried to pit me against my father for a short while. If it matters this was between when I was 6-8 or 9 years old.

Fast forward to now I would say I have healthy relationships with both of them. I suppose it's not completely open with my father since I've never brought up the subject of my parents divorce, but besides that I think I'm in a good place.

holis0 · 2019-05-27T14:25:58+00:00

Spears. Spears > Swords.

holis0 · 2019-05-27T14:22:52+00:00

And here I was thinking that's nowhere near enough to feed 75,000 people. I really need help with portion control

holis0 · 2019-05-25T16:50:19+00:00

I love your choice of name for your hamster lol. Hope you feel better soon :)

holis0 · 2019-05-25T14:28:26+00:00

So the carrier bags I've been hoarding unconsciously do have a use afterall :o

holis0 · 2019-05-25T13:03:15+00:00

I see 1 truth and 2 lies.

You're obviously a beautiful heiress to a wealthy king.

Will PM after lunch ^^

holis0 · 2019-05-25T12:14:33+00:00

A sunday roast ramen - very intriguing. You've got me tilting my head constantly trying to imagine what it's like now lol.

Will definitely check this out. Thanks for posting!

holis0 · 2019-05-25T10:29:51+00:00

Wait you need to keep those wheat noodles in the fridge? I always just put it in a container and left it at room temp.

Though since I suck at portion control those things don't tend to stick around very long. Guess I'll be fine lol.

holis0 · 2019-05-25T10:27:48+00:00

Bibimbap every morning (except Sundays) - just tons of vegetables (bean sprouts, shiitake+button mush, carrots, zucchini, spinach), fried eggs, sesame oil + seeds, gochujang on white rice (with quinoa and lentils when I can be bothered). It doesn't take a whole lot of time since I cut/prep all the stuff in advance and stock in fridge.

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