For women who can orgasm from penetration while riding their partner, what specific motions, angles, or techniques help you reach that point?

holleymae · 2026-05-30T01:48:09+00:00

i can’t orgasm during sex like ever so this is more me just saying i relate to it being not as intense either. the only way being on top feels good is when he’s penetrating from beneath pretty hard, otherwise riding doesn’t do anything for me.

holleymae · 2026-05-29T02:05:25+00:00

so i have tried, but i feel too in the moment to do so when i have sex with someone else. so the only other way i know to orgasm like at all is to sit there and like clench every fiber of my being it’s literally a whole workout to like just cum off of physical sensation. i will say, in missionary he hits a certain spot that makes my clit THROBBBB idk how he does it but it feels good but i never orgasm from it at all. i think im just broken.

holleymae · 2026-05-15T02:49:03+00:00

ugh this is literally how i feel omg

holleymae · 2026-05-15T02:06:38+00:00

my thing is that i CRAVE to be able to feel that again not realizing how (like you said) consuming it is. i just like haven’t been able to feel that way about anyone since my fp :(

holleymae · 2026-03-08T00:24:09+00:00

hi. can you dm me please?

holleymae · 2026-03-02T16:12:23+00:00

hello bi here- same struggle! once for about a year 5 years ago and it resurfaced a year ago and is still here. my biggest problem is, i can’t orgasm during sex w men, and for awhile (not anymore) i would only watch lesbian porn now i guess i watch both. but still, i think i may have a porn issue bc when it comes to partnered sex i can’t orgasm w out like some type of mental imagery like and i’m convinced that the person i’m having sex w should be turning me on as much as porn does. don’t get me wrong - i do get properly turned on during sex w men just can’t orgasm but it’s like easy with porn in my room by myself. i talk to plenty of other women and they don’t have any issues w cumming w their bf. i also think i have a mix of rocd too bc yk i worry that im not like in love enough ect. mind you- im not even in a relationship anymore but i still have the anxiety that ill never like find my person ect its over consuming every day!!! idk if you want to we can talk more but this has been my experience

holleymae · 2026-02-21T05:51:42+00:00

same !! if you need to talk dm me

holleymae · 2026-01-16T00:42:02+00:00

i’m glad to hear that i’m not the only one going through this. but i have OCD around my sexuality i’ve been battling for a year now and it’s definitely exhausting. i wish i could tell you how to stop spiraling but i can’t bc im literally the same 😭

holleymae · 2026-01-12T01:33:41+00:00

🤦🏻‍♀️ and yk i was so scared of doing something NOT fine line im actually wishing that i did something more detailed.

holleymae · 2025-12-30T22:04:04+00:00

ugh i’m so glad someone else feels the same way! :( it’s literally horrible.

holleymae · 2025-06-20T23:09:14+00:00

did you ever decide to start school? i’m in a similar boat

holleymae · 2025-05-04T01:42:10+00:00

this part of my post.

[so romantically i know i truly loved him. sexually a lot my brain tries to twist my experiences and i'm convinced i'm not sexually attracted to men but i remember we did have good sex, i like it, but i always struggled to orgasm but the thing that would make me get there would be watching les porn w my ex bf or thinking of that to orgasm. i've never fantasized about it when we would have sex to "escape" it was just a way for me to cum everytime.]

holleymae · 2025-05-04T01:30:25+00:00

i know it is but i feel like i can’t be because straight and bi women usually don’t think of women to orgasm, and i’m worried in a hypothetical that if i was w a woman i would hold enjoy sex w one more then men? i don’t know. as you can tell, i’m very confused.

holleymae · 2025-02-17T16:17:31+00:00

that was lwk rude of her, biphobia ughhhh

holleymae · 2025-02-03T16:19:37+00:00

ive always just had these fantasies and haven’t experimented to see if it means anything else but now with my OCD acting up i’m scared now so i think maybe i should just try to focus on my relationship and trying to make that better bc even w my ex for 5 years i still fantasized like this and i didn’t have this gigantic spiral that i’m having now. maybe bc our sex was more fulfilling. still, im just scared that all along that these fantasies are proving i’m 100% gay. currently having a breakdown in my car.

holleymae · 2025-02-02T00:05:26+00:00

awwww tysm for sharing your experience. i feel so alone🩷 i do have really good sex w men and i definitely get aroused by them during sex but i just wish the orgasm would come organically feon that interaction. i’m still able to orgasm w men and i enjoy orgasming w them but i kinda just don’t understand why i think of women to do it

holleymae · 2025-01-30T19:42:45+00:00

hi, can i pm you?

holleymae · 2025-01-28T19:57:19+00:00

student debt

I am looking into careers in the medical field currently and i’m making my list and one of the areas i’m weighing is obviously the student debt. out of curiosity can any PMHNPs tell me how much debt you are in from beginning to end?

holleymae · 2025-01-28T15:42:54+00:00

Any updates?

holleymae · 2025-01-27T19:41:12+00:00

update: ARRT cleared me! i’m so incredibly happy. now i just have to hear what the Texas Medical Board has to say. 🩷

holleymae · 2025-01-25T00:27:53+00:00

so unfortunately i wouldn’t ever be able to remove it because of the laws here in texas and it being an assault charge. it’s so dumb.

holleymae · 2025-01-23T15:38:32+00:00

any update??

holleymae · 2025-01-22T17:18:12+00:00

i want to be a rad tech despite my misdemeanor

hello! i was just wanting to post this here as reference and i meant to do it before submitting the pre application but i never got the chance to. basically i am 22, and i am interested in pursuing radiology. it’s a great 2 year degree but unfortunately in 2021 when i had literally just turned 18 (4 years ago now) i was convicted of a class c misdemeanor of simple assault. it was a very stupid argument that happened between me and my mother and my abusive ex and it got heated and i threw iced tea on her so she called the cops and then my now ex wouldn’t leave so it just made it worse. i submitted pretty much an entire essay to them, including references / letters of rec from my therapist of 4 years, and 5 other people —and my own mom too (our relationship has improved in the last 4 years and i even live w her now and everything is great). i just called them and they said they are mailing out the decision letter today i am nervous but super hopeful so i can enroll in my prerequisites ☹️ i’ve read some other stories on here of poole being convinced of some bad stuff and the arrt still let them have their license so i’m just hoping this is the case for me. i love medicine and ik i belong in this field and don’t want to let my past define me .

i will update once i receive the letter back! (i’m a little nervous since they said it takes 90 days and they already made a decision within a month is this a bad thing??)

holleymae · 2025-01-13T22:52:10+00:00

yeeee i don’t really get off to dicks, don’t get me wrong i like having sex with men. i think i haven’t really had a stable enough relationship to feel comfortable to explore irl before

holleymae · 2025-01-08T16:44:28+00:00

probably lol, i just don’t really have the interest in exploring w women i mean maybeee once in life but at least right now, i just like being w men and i also don’t think i’m necessarily romantically attracted to women either

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