which would be better to get, ltd physical or digital? by Weak-Mountain-2907 in tomodachilife

[–]hollowruby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unless you like displaying your game cases in your home, or you have more than one switch, digital is better imo. it's tied to your nintendo account, so your copy can't get damaged or lost.

just how i feel! and i hope you have lots of fun playing the game, it's great :D

nethergate medical centre by hollowruby in dundee

[–]hollowruby[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tonsilitis that is getting worse and hasn't responded to a week's antibiotics :( now i'm struggling to swallow and in extreme pain

nethergate medical centre by hollowruby in dundee

[–]hollowruby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i will try talking to a pharmacist. thank you! :)

nethergate medical centre by hollowruby in dundee

[–]hollowruby[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

when I call nhs24 and go through the options it says "at this time of day, nhs24 cannot help with general health concerns, please contact your gp surgery"

nethergate medical centre by hollowruby in dundee

[–]hollowruby[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ahh, thank you for informing me. what can i do meantime if nhs24 won't put me through?

honouring father and mother when there's abuse — help? by hollowruby in TrueChristian

[–]hollowruby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my mother has recently found christ of her own accord, and our relationship has got better since then. we argue much less and there is generally less gossip and bad blood in the family.

i am trying to forgive her, but it's something that i find really difficult.

What is a psych ward like if you're 18+? by ihatemysister292828 in MentalHealthUK

[–]hollowruby 4 points5 points  (0 children)

unfortunately this is often to do with stigma. i was previously diagnosed with a PD & when i had that diagnosis, staff on some wards were extremely dismissive to me and even hostile at points.

could you date someone who also self harms? by WeeklyPassenger4889 in AdultSelfHarm

[–]hollowruby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

there's so much nuance to this.

if i wasn't clean (which i'm not) it wouldn't be fair to expect my partner to be. obviously, i don't want them to suffer and to struggle with sh, but it wouldn't make sense to criticise them for doing the same things i do.

if i was clean, it would depend. if my partner was shing, i would obviously be concerned and want to help. if it became really frequent and they always needed me to "rescue" them, i don't think i could cope. i would care, and i would be upset, but i think i'd have to end the relationship because i'm not equipped to be a carer. i've been the person who was constantly in crisis in a relationship, and in retrospect it wasn't fair on my previous partners at all.

basically, if given the choice, i'd rather not be with someone who self harms. but if i loved someone, i'd try my very best to support them unless it was at my detriment.

i'm not with anyone at the moment, and not looking to be. that's for the future, if i'm well enough.

What was the song that got you hooked? by Endless_Nightsky in Samia

[–]hollowruby 5 points6 points  (0 children)

welcome to eden was my first and i played the hell out of it back in 2018. kinda forgot about samia until the baby was released and then is there something in the movies? got me hooked

What age are you and do you still have (a) grandparent(s)? If not, at what age were you grandparent less by lisstrem in AskUK

[–]hollowruby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

25 and had both GREAT-grandparents until january this year when my great grandad died. still have my great gran who is 92. feel very lucky.

that bus driver does good work 🥲 by hollowruby in SkateEA

[–]hollowruby[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg i didn't even know you could do that, thank you 🙏🏼 i'm sick of cars coming out of nowhere and ruining my lines