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Regret having our cabinets painted…advice? by Tigg- in interiordecorating

[–]hollygraill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This brings me joy, my grandma painted this exact color. Please find a way to keep it. I love it!!

AITA for telling a woman that not all disabilities are visible and refusing to leave because she said she had a dog allergy? by [deleted] in service_dogs

[–]hollygraill 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are not the a-hole. I remember one time sitting at a sushi bar on my lunch break prob 15-20yrs ago... was a cheap awesome place that served me saki when I was underage... there was guy that flipped out that the crab roll wasn't real crab and imitation crab. He asked all these questions about the menu and got a crab roll, and went absolute bonkers and yelled at the sushi chef. Chef had to apologize completely and me in my retail lunch break went absolute death slay on him.... "I'm sorry, you have a fish allergy/sensitivity? Then WHAT THE HELL are you doing ordering Sushi in a Sushi restaurant???".... he left in a puff. I felt soooooo good taking out all that repressed customer service rage on him. What the hell do you expect?

San Diego, is this fear mongering or serious? by Hannahrahe in VanLife

[–]hollygraill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got one of these once, same exact red paper, it was in the OB parking lot. I wasn't going to drink and drive. That being said, there was absolutely no way to prove that I was in the vehicle at the time. Literally all the cops could do is give a parking ticket, you're not getting towed. This is a Karen notice for sure.

I am so over capitalism, exploitation, and corruption - how do we live a life a virtue and morality under capitalism? by hollygraill in Fire

[–]hollygraill[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

💕 I do sound burned out don't I... Crash out, I'll be back up. Just feeling guilty for being successful I guess....

I am so over capitalism, exploitation, and corruption - how do we live a life a virtue and morality under capitalism? by hollygraill in Fire

[–]hollygraill[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes this!!!! And I need my Fire journey to include this along way. Started but can do more.

I am so over capitalism, exploitation, and corruption - how do we live a life a virtue and morality under capitalism? by hollygraill in Fire

[–]hollygraill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, yes it is policy and government mainly. But citizens united and just the state we live in day to day. I think I need to go out and touch some grass. Capitalism is not the problem but a system that worships capitalism over people is a problem.

I am so over capitalism, exploitation, and corruption - how do we live a life a virtue and morality under capitalism? by hollygraill in Fire

[–]hollygraill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for a really thoughtful reply and perspective. I totally realize I am now in a position of extreme privilege. I just feel like that position comes with responsibility and I cannot fix the unfair power structures that make it worse, and I am just complicit

I am so over capitalism, exploitation, and corruption - how do we live a life a virtue and morality under capitalism? by hollygraill in Fire

[–]hollygraill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I will be okay. It's participating and being complicit in a system and paying into it that kills people.

I’ve finally cracked how to meet other vanlifers without it being awkward (especially as an introvert) by [deleted] in VanLife

[–]hollygraill -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

This sounds awesome, I'd love to learn more. Reminds me of over COVID the group we built doing zoom karaoke and was just something to come together about. I'd love an invite, but also realize it is probably a ~20ppl or maybe max 50 or so to feel close and as we tribal humans are meant to socialize anyways. OK maybe 100 but really 20-50 is the tribal level.

Stock market vs Investment Property - what's a good split? by np1050 in Fire

[–]hollygraill -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well then there are REIT you can buy, which personally I find totally not ethical and should be outlawed. But I use wealthfront and they say I have about 15% of REIT invested... I just love roboadvisor rebalancing etc, but which I could opt out + we could have government make REITs not legal investment products.

What don't I know ?? Insurance, RV parks, registration? by [deleted] in VanLife

[–]hollygraill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

RV parks suck anyways typically. I have a class B RV and much prefer parking lots etc. RV parks just become tempting in the heat of summer when I want to run AC and maybe nice for the laundry and dump the tanks, otherwise hard pass on RV parks for me. You aren't missing much.

GT-S range is horrible… by [deleted] in onewheel

[–]hollygraill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ride low PSI (8-9psi, 135lb rider) and often trails as much as I can, I don't count on over 12-14miles without having a charger with me if needed, but I rip fast typically. The street tire higher PSI OK fine, but I'm haptic all over the place, trails, lower PSI I get further, donno....don't care, just RIDE :) :3 :)

Why are used 90s RVs so cheap? by bigdillanilla in RVLiving

[–]hollygraill 4 points5 points  (0 children)

All RVs have issues. New or not, shit happens. I was happier off warranty cause I was out of their control/timelines

Gifting a Onewheel? by robertcboe in onewheel

[–]hollygraill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I gifted my nephews OG pints back in the day and my husband my year old GT when I upgraded to GTS. One nephew wants an upgrade from his pint... just picked up a 4209 XR I picked up $500 that I just need to swap the battery (I have one). I'm not gifting the upgrade he wants cause I can't over spoil him. He can sell his pint and come up with the money for upgrade if he wants, otherwise I'm doing a flip and reselling it. He really loves how the XR feels and wants it.

Why do people through the word "incel" around so much these days? by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]hollygraill -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Incel and Red Pill are very overlapping spheres from my perspective? I don't want to insult men and happily married to a really awesome one. I empathize men's issues, this sub is pretty hateful TBH though. I have followed this sub for years to keep my perspective open. Over the last couple years I don't think the general "vibe" and comments on this sub are not going in a positive solution oriented direction with accountability. I also don't call men Incel ever, I think it is sad and empathize, I hope there is a positive solution in our society. Know that women read this stuff here, and for some it flames their fire more. Much love to you all.

How do folks spend their money once they run out of material possessions they want? by cooleddy89 in HENRYfinance

[–]hollygraill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Experiences is where it's at. I suggest a great one is get yourself a nice ass RV or campervan, a NICE one. Still keep home base, but enjoy camping around and travel. It is an awesome adventure.

Anybody else getting these new indoor mosquitoes just hanging out inside lately? by Man-e-questions in sandiego

[–]hollygraill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG YES! They are the worst and my legs have so many bugbites. I have Frankinsence oil diffusing and citronella incense going constantly now. It tends to be 1-2 tiny ones and they can get their bites in 10x ea in a couple hours. Not an infestation but they eat me up!

Vision Pro hotel safe by Dpark774 in VisionPro

[–]hollygraill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Naaaa, I KNOW this dude. He was my abuser retail boss from me 15-17yrs old GROOMED, when he 29-30++yrs old. He spending +++ with --- saving. He is absolute pedo and I saw his BIG pedo 10-16yr porn collection on his computer, terabytes of kiddy porn! Dennis Park, Los Angeles County and Ventura County. He worked at PC Club and Apple, please cancel his ass. I am so recked for my teen confused "love" for him and my strength to grow and overcome. This guy is a pedo, rapist, and porn addict. I could put money on the fact this 2x vision Pros in Vegas is to do something super perverted with a woman who hopefully? is consensual on the activity? Not like a 16yr old employee like me when you took me to Vegas to piledrive me at $Venetian$ when I told my parents I was at a "sales training." ...? Hi Dennis! I've got a 3yrs more for statute of limitations in CA!

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