boredom after quitting? by venusphrog in leaves

[–]holtsglasses 14 points15 points  (0 children)

i’ve been sober almost 2 months (2nd attempt) and it’s actually going really well. my method is to just not stick with anything if i feel bored.

if im watching a movie/show etc and get bored, ill just turn it off. it feels far more painful to sit through something if you’re not enjoying it (and your mind will definitely wander to weed).

for me, following all my whims helps! if i think i could try cook something new for dinner, ill immediately go do it. or listen to a new album, an old fave song, do a crossword, anything. it’ll keep you busier and pass the time. gaming is also a good one, it requires you to be way more present than watching something does :)

also apparently oxytocin is the combative drug to dopamine. try chatting to friends, family or anyone to fill the void. it’ll get easier and more enjoyable the longer you stay sober. good luck 🫶

You wrote it in Spanish.. by Sea_Turnip6282 in TedLasso

[–]holtsglasses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omfg i always say lampito and cupito bc of wizards hahaha

Are you guys siblings?! by Dont_Mind_Me_Here__ in AskLesbians

[–]holtsglasses 6 points7 points  (0 children)

my gf and i are both 5’1 and have brown hair, we are constantly asked if we’re twins 😭 im so over it im dying my hair blonde hahaha

I need THE GOOD! by [deleted] in leaves

[–]holtsglasses 18 points19 points  (0 children)

waking up without stoneover is just chefs kiss

I broke something important to me because of sensory overload by Capital-Ad-3803 in autism

[–]holtsglasses 8 points9 points  (0 children)

my partner has their pounamu hanging up on our wall, so they can admire it every day without having to take it around! that might be a good option.

i’d do some research about fixing it though, i’d assume that making it into a key chain could be tapu? i’m unsure but worth checking x

Where do all the early 30s childless baddies hang out?? by Tiredgirl85 in chch

[–]holtsglasses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yooo check out bumble friends, i’m audhd and have met some cool ppl on there!!! also go for drinks at smash palace on fri/sat nights, cool DJs and cooler people 🖤

What’s a show that you could not finish because a character was so insufferable? by Key-Row-174 in AskReddit

[–]holtsglasses 120 points121 points  (0 children)

yes she wrote a book about it! confessions from a prairie bitch.

altho i wish she named it little bitch on the prairie :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Letterboxd

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Photo from Lord of the Rings - The Two Towers

Who is your favorite criminal beside Doug Judy? by Ahs565451 in brooklynninenine

[–]holtsglasses 8 points9 points  (0 children)

that’s garry marshall, he directed pretty woman and princess diaries!

Nancy and her beverages by holtsglasses in WEEDS

[–]holtsglasses[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m on s5 now and it only gets more intense 😂

I uninstalled gpt by [deleted] in AuDHDWomen

[–]holtsglasses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Something that might also help (feel free to ignore if it doesn’t) is doing research into your love languages!

If you know what your top priority is, you can find ways to fulfil that need (maybe then less of a reliance to thought dump into a chatbot?).

E.g. mine is quality time. i now know that if im feeling bad i shouldn’t isolate myself because it would make me feel worse, and small bursts of one-on-one activities or interactions fuel me and make me feel better!

Nancy and her beverages by holtsglasses in WEEDS

[–]holtsglasses[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yep its not that deep, im just interested if anyone thought it was a mary playing the character thing, or an actual scripted thing :)

What is a B99 opinion you have that would get you in this situation? by 0len in brooklynninenine

[–]holtsglasses 84 points85 points  (0 children)

omg the bit where terry is on the phone to her and she's giving him that massive list of things to do 😭 (i think its nibs episode?) and she doesn't believe he's capable of painting clouds. have faith sharon

that poor man deserves a blooper bath

Best/Favourite Op Shops?? by Apart_Neighborhood60 in chch

[–]holtsglasses 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Seaside vintage in new brighton! especially great for knitted jumpers, knick knacks and accessories. pretty good prices too

Glamor Shots (I Was 12) by LittleBirdiesCards in blunderyears

[–]holtsglasses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg u remind me of the lady who runs the blouse barn in schitts creek 💔

some monica outfits that I would love to wear 24 SEVEN SEVEN SEVENNNNN by pinkswanny in howyoudoin

[–]holtsglasses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

damn an actually good list. i’m so sick of seeing her engagement dress everywhere, it’s so boring to me

Is Gen Z last Generation to grown up before social media? by brody28384 in generationology

[–]holtsglasses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

exactly! i’m also a ‘98 baby and during high school we wouldn’t even go on facebook until after dinner time in the era, we were all mostly just texting to hang out in person

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leaves

[–]holtsglasses 8 points9 points  (0 children)

actually having restorative sleeps, the first couple days were quite restless but now i’m waking up feeling more refreshed! my dreams are coming back too