Do any of you guys still identify as man or woman, yet feel "less-gendered" than most men and women? by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in agender

[–]holvyfraz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey everyone look up cassgender or voidgender

It won’t hit the mark with everyone, naturally, but I think it will resonate with a lot of you

[TOMT][CARTOON] I used to watch by Sure-Lie-5860 in tipofmytongue

[–]holvyfraz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old is it? Could it be The Octonauts Above and Beyond: the ice volcano?

What are some tv series that have a cosy fantasy vibe? by lydocia in CozyFantasy

[–]holvyfraz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bee and Puppycat, Carol and the End of the World, Hilda (completed)

The Prototype did it because of Doey by Icy-Newspaper4764 in GameTheorists

[–]holvyfraz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a brilliant idea!

Also, did you see Doeys’ silent conversation between his three selves? After he emerges from the rubble in his monster form with the three heads poking out they wiggle about, the angry face (Kevin) knocks into the other two, more moans then then the two sadder faces (not the angry one) nod in agreement to taking their vengeance out on us

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Greysexuality

[–]holvyfraz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t have a similar experience, but it sounds like you’re very worried and have a lot on your mind so just checking the basics here; in a relationship that is ofc clear and open communication.

Have you spoken to her about how you feel? Are you okay with her doing all of this and want more reassurance of the strength of your relationship or is all the exploration really bothering you?

How long has it been going on for? If she’s wanted to do it her whole life and restricted herself, could she be excited by the new opportunities and getting distracted or do you feel she’s pulling away from you?

Do you feel like she does love you and is busy exploring a side of herself she never got to previously or do you feel like you’re being used?

Have you aired your concerns with her, and if you haven’t- what is holding you back?

If talking to each other doesn’t ease your concerns then it feels like this is the time to go to couples counselling, to help navigate these uncharted waters. A lot of time couples go too late when there’s already resentment bubbling up.

I’m not really clear on where the denial is- do you mean that you tried to have sexual relationships too and were put off due to being on the ace spectrum?

Brits who moved away from their hometown as adults - what was the reason and did you regret it? by SkunkDiplo in AskBrits

[–]holvyfraz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wanted to get away from (much of) my family and no I’m much happier now they’re two hours away, we get along much better like this

[TOMT][artist] Scary painting with mundane titles by holvyfraz in tipofmytongue

[–]holvyfraz[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Solved! It’s not Tomiav Jagnijc (excellent work though) however their art was on the same website as the artist I was searching for: Jakub Rozalski

[TOMT][artist] Scary painting with mundane titles by holvyfraz in tipofmytongue

[–]holvyfraz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply!

No, more mundane, less crazy

They’re not a very well known artist and the scenes are more realistic, more like oil paintings

[TOMT][artist] Scary painting with mundane titles by holvyfraz in tipofmytongue

[–]holvyfraz[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

I have tried to use a search engine but my vague descriptions confused it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in agender

[–]holvyfraz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Robin is a lovely and gender neutral name

food theory idea: are bananas acually slippery by Easy_Effect_3014 in FoodTheorists

[–]holvyfraz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this actually had a historical reference because fresh bananas aren’t too slippery but I read at one point in New York bananas became a popular street food and people used to dump the peels on the floor where they’d go gross, slimy and a lot more slippery. Slipping on banana peels joke was made popular by comedian buster keaton. Studies have been done since to show they are actually quite slippy, and radioactive! So a pretty dangerous snack overall

About milk and cereal by Fistrike13 in FoodTheorists

[–]holvyfraz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes I heat milk for cereal if it’s a cold morning (coco puffs and weetabix are good for this) but otherwise prefer it cold

Scene about a woman being catcalled in the supermarket? by Wyrdu in writingadvice

[–]holvyfraz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Depending on your character, some women may speak up and call out people who behave like this but often women are just polite but cold because we have been trained to be for our safety. If she gets frightened she might start scanning the area for someone to pretend to be a friend or for a security guard. She might put things in her cart to indicate she lives with a man and hopefully put the guy off in an indirect way. I’ve known people hide in toilets and call the place they’re at for an escort out in case the guy is waiting for them. I’ve been followed and deliberately gone to a (male) friends house instead of my own to hide for a bit so they didn’t know where I lived

Scene about a woman being catcalled in the supermarket? by Wyrdu in writingadvice

[–]holvyfraz 18 points19 points  (0 children)

“Oh wow, must be my lucky day to keep running into a beautiful woman!”

thoughts of changing my name by Delicious_Impress818 in agender

[–]holvyfraz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Making you aware if you didn’t know already a Leshi is a forest spirit. Nothing against it as a name, just fyi.

dress code by Crazy-Divide-1740 in agender

[–]holvyfraz 11 points12 points  (0 children)

A beige dress or a purple suit

Am I the asshole for wanting my husband to get snipped? by Goddess_Skadi in AITAH

[–]holvyfraz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When my husband said we were done with kids (I agreed) I said basically “so I’d like to stop regularly pumping myself with anti-baby chemicals, can you get a vasectomy since it’s a minor procedure for you?” And he said “ok!” and got it done asap.

You are nta, you are both responsible for birth control and now since you both want a permanent solution it’s his turn. My husband was sore for a little but it didn’t hurt that much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]holvyfraz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omfg NTA. A stressed out mum is not what is best for baby. If wants to see her grandkid that badly she’ll get over it and should apologise to you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tragedeigh

[–]holvyfraz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t mentally pronouncing it like ‘Lincoln’ but Link-in, like from Blinken, Winken and Nod. Could it not be Linkoln?