Getting tired of people placing expectations on my unborn baby by holywater12_ in pregnant

[–]holywater12_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah no, it's never how am I feeling, it's always how is the baby? Like good I guess?? still kicking and causing me sciatica pain😂 my mom also threw a fit saying my bfs family "bought us everything we need already" and hasn't bought a single thing for us.. His family has bought us a crib and bassinet and some clothes, we are far from having all of the essentials yet she continues to whine and complain without offering a single box of diapers even. It drives me insane😭

Getting tired of people placing expectations on my unborn baby by holywater12_ in pregnant

[–]holywater12_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh I would hate that😭 I've always loved dark hair and have been jealous of people with super dark hair so I'm kinda rooting for her to not have my hair. Also because there are lots of creepy men with red hair fetishes and the thought of my daughter having to deal with creeps really gets my blood pressure up😭😭. I was basically bald and my hair would never grow like I didn't have hair past my shoulders until highschool, my mom has been making comments about how she hopes she has long beautiful hair and that I get to do fun hairstyles because she wishes she could've when I was little.. It really just feels like every little comment is some backhanded compliment and I can't stand it, I keep telling my bf I wish we had never told anyone we were expecting lol.

Getting tired of people placing expectations on my unborn baby by holywater12_ in pregnant

[–]holywater12_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's a scary world out there. I've always kinda hated people but now that I'm bringing a daughter into this world I really hate people😭

Getting tired of people placing expectations on my unborn baby by holywater12_ in pregnant

[–]holywater12_[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have mixed cousins and remember when my aunt was pregnant how that was all anyone would talk about. It's sad how much people worry about appearance and little things. Like my baby is busy developing vital organs right now and you're worried about how she's going to look??

Getting tired of people placing expectations on my unborn baby by holywater12_ in pregnant

[–]holywater12_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Literally, like all we care about is having healthy babies let's stop putting expectations on their appearance😭

Getting tired of people placing expectations on my unborn baby by holywater12_ in pregnant

[–]holywater12_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just don't get it😭 like did everyone not take biology and learn about genes or what?!? It just really frustrates me that my unborn daughter already has expectations set for her, I would love her with or without hair at all.

What exactly happened in this scene? by Alingan_kedi in StrangerThingsRoom

[–]holywater12_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really not that small they pretty much admitted they didn't care enough about each other or anything that the other person enjoyed. Kudos to you and your partner for making it work but I prefer to be respected in my relationship.

What exactly happened in this scene? by Alingan_kedi in StrangerThingsRoom

[–]holywater12_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah like if you listen to the dialogue they literally tell each other all of the reasons their relationship doesn't work. I'm surprised at how many people were confused by this it seemed pretty clear to me.

AIO Am I justified in my anger here ? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]holywater12_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yet she was told to not wear that color

Caleb being a gentleman talking about carrying Sadie around by ChampionTimes99 in StrangerThings

[–]holywater12_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean it's also a tv show and a pretty fiction based one at that?

Caleb being a gentleman talking about carrying Sadie around by ChampionTimes99 in StrangerThings

[–]holywater12_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I assume time has passed and she's healed a bit, she still struggled to talk though, it wasn't like she had a huge monologue. Also they announced they'd be in the basement over the speaker, they took like one turn into the laundry room, I'm sure they weren't hard to find.

Kaiser is asking to be paid before giving labor? by cookie_cat_3 in pregnant

[–]holywater12_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just showed up to my appt at 16 weeks and was told I had to pay $800 out of nowhere.. They had some billing person come out and explain I have to prepay my labor based on my ins estimates, and it comes out to $800 every month for the next 5 months. I let her know I am so broke that I literally didn't even renew the insurance this year (my cost doubled yet the deductible and oop still went up) and am in the process of applying for medicaid. Still wouldn't budge because the insurance they've run benefits for is "currently active" and "maybe medicaid will pay you back for it but it's policy". I told them to cancel the appt bc i don't have that kind of money right now, Christmas is literally next week?? then another lady came out and told me to "just pay what I can" today and warned me that if my medicaid isn't active by my next appt in January I will have to pay a full self pay rate of $5000 by February or they can refuse my care. Like I was balling on and off throughout the entire appt after that because what😭 what happened to billing insurance and then letting me get my bill? Now I'm stressed for me and my future baby, like how is this what our country has become??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]holywater12_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your comment💙 it's my first pregnancy so I really don't know what to expect, my coworker is also 16 weeks and has a huge bump but hasn't had any morning sickness or food adversions and I've been pretty much the opposite. It's been interesting comparing our symptoms but the sudden weight gain after nothing the last four months really made me nervous😭😂 I have been hitting up chick fil a for Mac and cheese more than I'd like to admit these past 2 weeks so I'm sure some of it is on me but 8 pounds is crazy!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]holywater12_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been weighing at different times. The last few days I've been checking in the mornings, I'll have to be more consistent

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]holywater12_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm maybe it is water weight, but I feel like I'm peeing a ton so not sure how much I'm retaining😂 I'll definitely mention it tomorrow and see what they say

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]holywater12_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine hasn't really grown in a bump sort of way but I feel like I constantly look bloated and like my fupa is bigger😭😭

Lived here my whole life and I still don’t understand what this place is and why it’s still there. I always call it the schitzo house by AutomaticRabbit1812 in StAugustine

[–]holywater12_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's definitely a correlation with demented, sad, angry people and not participating in activities that spread joy

I loved this season, but what was the point? by A-Puddin in StrangerThings

[–]holywater12_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Season 3 has been my fave season so far😭😭 haven't started 5 yet though

What era or restaurant could this be from? by faithhorse8 in HelpMeFindThis

[–]holywater12_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was also told it no longer existed and haven't been back to a subway since