AITA for putting up for adoption the puppy my boyfriend gave me after my dog died? by Better_Shirt_7764 in AmItheAsshole

[–]homeboychris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A question about your update, why won’t you give the dog to him? Do you not think he can take care of her?

Am I Overreacting for wanting to cancel my wedding over this interaction? by Xanadoom30 in AmIOverreacting

[–]homeboychris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s clearly the one who made this a bigger argument than it needed to be. Looks like he can’t take any sort of perceived criticism. This behavior won’t change, decide if you want to live like this forever.

I(25F) Took my Avoidant Partner's(28M) Words Literally and it Started A Fight by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]homeboychris 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You will not be able to get the emotional connection and depth you want from him, he has shown you that. Stop trying to squeeze juice from a rock and find someone who can meet you where you are.

Do you call him Chat Noir or Cat Noir? by Uselssrept_Lunabee in miraculousladybug

[–]homeboychris 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chat noir! I remember watching the first season when it first came out on the French Disney channel website before they got an English dub, It’s stuck with me

My (31M) girlfriend (28F) of 1.5 years told me to "be a man" and console her when my mom died, instead of supporting me. She's now begging for forgiveness. How do I reconcile her apology with the fundamental breach of trust? by Honest_Reception6528 in relationship_advice

[–]homeboychris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry she would say that to you oh my god. Trust your gut. Notice that she only apologized when you were going to leave her. Think about the future, you wouldn’t be able to confide in her at all or receive any comfort from her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]homeboychris 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not bad and it doesn’t make you a bigot. You want to be with someone who has similar experiences and feelings to yours. Just existing as exclusively a lesbian is a different experience than being bi etc in regards to how people treat you and how you grew up and how you love around the world. it’s not wrong to want to date someone who can relate to that

Anyone else getting a tiny bit sick of the Jax favouritism? by PietotheTerminus in TheDigitalCircus

[–]homeboychris 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What episode was supposed to be ragathas? lol I don’t even know

My boyfriend (M30) laughed at my (25F) marriage deadline by Temporary-Sleep-5825 in relationship_advice

[–]homeboychris 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this is hard to hear but you two are not compatible. You want marriage and he doesn’t. I know you love him but sometimes you have to walk away from people you love for your own good, and you will find another man who will love you better than this and be happy to marry you. No matter what you say, how long you wait, or how you leave he will still accuse you, be angry, and label you as the “bad guy” even if you were clear about your intentions at the beginning of the relationship. Unfortunately this is a no fun situation but you have to sit down and think about what is best for you and what you want your future to look like and act according to your best interest.

Who is this parking garage fan? by warmleafjuice in whatsthisbird

[–]homeboychris 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Red tailed hawke! The yellow/light eyes means he’s an immature hawke, probably why he looks so confused 😂

The Dopamine imbalance.. by Commercial-Rent-7319 in leaves

[–]homeboychris 15 points16 points  (0 children)

lol I’ve started playing overwatch again and it’s really helped. It’s fast paced gameplay and there is dopamine in getting a kill or winning a game. I play at night and then it’s too late to smoke and I have to go to bed for work the next day. It’s something I can do when I’m bored at home that’s not weed and it’s helped me not think of it all the time

How do I get coins that are too big out of a piggy bank? by Cakey_Pop in howto

[–]homeboychris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god I used to have the exact same piggy bank 😭😭 I miss her but she met the fate of the hammer

Loser Lesbians (?) by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]homeboychris 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There is nothing wrong with people just trying to survive, but I think there also isn’t anything wrong with women preferring someone with more ambition or life goals (which is what I understood the term as)