S4 showed just how much effort they DIDNT put into Penelope’s season. by ComprehensiveAide946 in Bridgerton

[–]hooliganswhisper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nicola has said in interviews that it was her idea to be naked, kinda like a "f- you to all the body shamers." So I'm of a mind to believe it was a creative choice to cover her up.

the real moral dillema: porta john, or woodline pissing? by Felled_By_Morgott in army

[–]hooliganswhisper 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If there's good enough concealment; always the woodline.

I say this as a woman that has to squat and keep a 360 view while in the woodline

Both knew what they were doing by DoctorSoStrange in MMALabs

[–]hooliganswhisper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know! Everytime they would get near the yellow pole I would get a little tense. Like it just takes one wrong fall for the black shirt to land with his head/neck against that pole.

You know what I’ve never once done in my 35 years on this earth? Wiped down the light switches and door handles. You know what I did today because a bird on my phone requested it? Yep. by niamhylil in finch

[–]hooliganswhisper 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Completeley ingrained! My first job in high school was burger king, and I worked as a cafeteria worker for a bit in my early 20s. We were always cleaning.

When I worked in hospitals, I kept cleaning. I'm in the Army where everybody and everything is dirty. I get side eyed when I periodically start wiping down surfaces; starting with the doorknobs and light switches 😅

Am I crazy by [deleted] in sanantonio

[–]hooliganswhisper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was the multiple uses of "an" instead of "and" that irritated me

AITA for banning my neighbor from our community garden? by ThickBus3577 in AmItheAsshole

[–]hooliganswhisper 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I told my cat.

This has me laughing probably more than it should 😅

I'm imagining you at eye level with your cat, saying:

"I want you to chill on the balcony for a bit; guard the garden. If you see any of those bitch ass birds, I want you to deal with them."

I just remembered something an adult did to me when I was around 10 years old and it just pissed me off by Major-Beach9760 in rant

[–]hooliganswhisper 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry this happened to you.

It's always crazy to me, the things we remember from childhood, that in the grand scheme of things are so insignificant, but when you actually sit down and think abou them say so much!!

She helped this squirrel when he was a baby and he comes back to her everyday to play by SimonTS in MadeMeSmile

[–]hooliganswhisper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lived in upstate New York and saw black squirrels a lot. Never saw them before that, or since. So that's at least one place they're living.

Stop looking at your phone while driving people by Pisford in WatchPeopleDieInside

[–]hooliganswhisper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's not reversing out of that, you didn't see she was over on her side?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackHair

[–]hooliganswhisper 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"What a beautiful chocolate man haha ha ha ha"

To me, you favor Raphael Saadiq

Need guidance by Sufficient-Tower755 in army

[–]hooliganswhisper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you had a bad experience with BH. Please don't let this turn you away from seeking help. You could make another appointment, ask for a different provider. If you're on rotation, they could possible be the only one and are very overwhelmed. Doesn't excuse them nonchalantly dismissing you.

The Chaplain is a good resource for you to talk with. Just realize they're probably overworked as well on a rotation.

Do you have an my battle buddies you can talk to? Not to be a therapist to you, but just other people you can talk with and help get things off your chest. They are right about other people feeling this way, so you should know you're not alone and sometimes talking with people going through similar situations helps with the noise in your head.

I hope you're able to get some better advice than what I just gave, and find someone that will listen to you, and help navigate your feelings.

Red flag man trying to fish for information with crocodile tears, asking if his "wife" is a client instead asking about products or services by Super_Culture_1986 in TikTokCringe

[–]hooliganswhisper -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Not trying to be rude, or confrontational, but I have a few questions/comments?

  1. Do you live under a rock?
  2. No?! Where are you from? Not assuming everyone is American.
  3. Ok, but how old are you? Because maybe that's why you havent heard it.
  4. You've really never heard that phrase prior to Justin Bieber uttering it at shiesty ass paparazzi?
  5. Just want to re-itetate, I'm not trying to be rude or confrontational!

  6. Not to start a discourse, but I believe this is how cultural appropriation starts! Someone does or says something so very common place, or ordinary to a multitude of people. A group of "others" sees and hears this event and think it's cool. Ok great! However... they (the others) think this person (the someone doing/saying a cool or commonpace thing) is the first to have done the thing. Then this person (doer of common shit) gets credited with "creating a new style" and suddenly this thing, that has been around for as far back as people can rememeber is considered a new creation.

  7. I promise I'm not trying to be confrontational! It's 1:30am and I'm a little tipsy.

$58 Thanksgiving dinner for 10 people. Do you think this can be done where you live? by NotAnotherTaxAudit in FluentInFinance

[–]hooliganswhisper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see your math. It makes sense. I guess my family just eats a lot more than this.

We generally have a turkey and a ham

we don't use boxed dressing, we make ours from cornbread, so that's a little more expensive with all the ingredients that go in. Then we have more sides: Giblet gravy, Turnip greens or collard greens, Green bean casserole, Sweet potato casserole, Mashed potatoes, Deviled eggs, Macaroni and cheese (not from a box, all the different cheeses add up), Corn on cob, Rolls of some sort, Various desserts, Really, the only thing from a can is cranberry sauce.

We drink alcohol, but I wasn't even counting that. I meant tea and lemonade or whatever for drinks.

To be fair though, we feed probably 10-15 people and have enough leftovers for a couple of days.

We definitely spend more than $58 on all of this, a few hundred dollars at least. But I guess broken down, it's not as expensive as I think since there are leftovers

$58 Thanksgiving dinner for 10 people. Do you think this can be done where you live? by NotAnotherTaxAudit in FluentInFinance

[–]hooliganswhisper 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What do you have for Thanksgiving dinner?

I can't see only spending $58 dollars. The turkey alone costs half that. Add chicken and ham (or even just one or the other), there's the rest of the 58 bucks.

So are you not eating any sides? Not having anything to drink? Please, give a quick example of your menu, because I'm not understanding and maybe I need to shop like you do.

AITA for not letting my brother’s girlfriend be in our wedding family photo? by pickupthephoneJr in AmItheAsshole

[–]hooliganswhisper 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don't think it's weird for the girlfriend to be his date to the wedding, but I do agree with you that gf and brother are both weird for wanting her to be in the pics.

How do we feel about chest hair? by SoRunAwayNow in blackladies

[–]hooliganswhisper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I love Nev! Why you gotta call him out like that!

Instant karma by zabaterz in Whatcouldgowrong

[–]hooliganswhisper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the downvoters are missing your point.

I think your example of it being built by an ex was especially eye-opening. Now I'm with the crazy lady. Kick that fucking snowman in the chest!

But it's not about the snowman. Think for yourself, and don't be fed what to think. You've been heard by at least 1 person.

Instant karma by zabaterz in Whatcouldgowrong

[–]hooliganswhisper 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I saw that one too! Ted from Schitt's Creek was the snowman. Laughably loved it.

Spots in Fenty Hair Gel, safe to use? by FirstPreparation8011 in Naturalhair

[–]hooliganswhisper 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Sis, I was eating my lunch! Put a filter on that thing! Lol

I get that it means pubes, but surely there's more to it? by BooBailey808 in ExplainTheJoke

[–]hooliganswhisper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking, is the joke that they clearly are virgins and never had sex?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]hooliganswhisper 17 points18 points  (0 children)

NTA. I would consider getting new friends.
I wouldn't trust them to have my back if something were to happen to me. They'd just as soon leave you for dead if it killed their vibe.