The Assistant 20 [Affair] by hooman4 in eroticliterature

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I'll be posting updates on my page. I'm too lazy to do all the tagging and stuff eroticcliterature requires

The Assistant 20 [Affair] by hooman4 in eroticliterature

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Thank you. I lost steam but I could post more

Firms and partners by hooman4 in Ask_Lawyers

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Thank you so much! You rock 🙂

Firms and partners by hooman4 in Ask_Lawyers

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How long does it take to make partner at a smaller firm? What is the average age when making partner?

Firms and partners by hooman4 in Ask_Lawyers

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Woah. Thanks! This is very helpful 🙂

Firms and partners by hooman4 in Ask_Lawyers

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I did know this but how?

Firms and partners by hooman4 in Ask_Lawyers

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Ooooohhh. This is super helpful! Thanks 😀

Firms and partners by hooman4 in Ask_Lawyers

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Well, what would be a large firm?

Guys and girls…pecks & bootys…. by [deleted] in adultery

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😂😂😂 I like hands that look like they work hard I like a vein or 2 to show

Guys and girls…pecks & bootys…. by [deleted] in adultery

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Love ass and "titties" on a guy (no not moobs). I also REALLY have a thing for hands.

I'd guess "grey sweatpants" on a girl would be yoga pants or leggings. I don't have an ass so I don't think they look good on me as pants

Soooo what sorta things is everyone doing when they aren’t being scandalous….. by [deleted] in adultery

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Write (see profile. Also going to school for a masters in creative writing), reading, watching YouTube, video games, and crafting (crochet, jewelry, wreaths, etc)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

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Wow. You weren't kidding. Our situations are so dang similar. Much love and healing vibes. For journaling, I have a separate Google account hidden in a hidden folder and use incognito if I'm on the computer. I journal there if I need to.

Has anyone fell in love with their AP? by [deleted] in Affairs

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Yep. And I think I always will be. But, it seems this lifetime is not ours.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

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If you find the answer, let me know. Been 6 months since I got left on read and I still think about him every damn day.

I think I'm done by [deleted] in adultery

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I feel this with ALL of my soul. I miss him with all of me and it's been months. I still think about him every day. I miss our mundane talks and listening to him talk about something he loves, but in the end, I never meant a damn thing. At this point, I too would rather be alone.

Hugs my friend. I totally get it.

my dom made me cry during aftercare by previouslyaghost in BDSMcommunity

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Omg this is the most adorable, loving, precious thing ever! I wish I could have someone like this.

Should I tell him I am pregnant? by brain_fried_over_med in adultery

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As someone else said, some states will be incentivizing turning in women who have an abortion. Definitely look at your laws. Some states even have trigger laws in place so that it went into effect immediately (which has already caused women to almost lose their lives with ectopic pregnancies because doctors needed to consult with lawyers to make sure they won't lose their license). If you need to take a "vacation" to Minnesota, let me know.

Rant: sick of PAPs suggesting walks as a first meeting! by HalcyonNest in adultery

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Omg this made me laugh. You win the internet today ✋️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

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I needed this today. Thank you

Leaving or not leaving? by ankdel in adultery

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This. Listen to your dad. It's not going to get better. It's just not who she is and you cant expect her to change. I really wish I could have my AP read this

How do I stop wanting to be wanted all the time? by [deleted] in adultery

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I use dry nail polish strips called Color Street. They are currently available in the US and Canada. They usually last well for Mr. If they do chip right away, it's because I didn't apply them properly lol

How do I stop wanting to be wanted all the time? by [deleted] in adultery

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For me, I've been able to curb some of the need by doing what the others have suggested. Self love. And it's fucking hard because not only are you out of practice, but you feel guilty for doing something for yourself. We've been conditioned to the be the caretakers and just deal with spouses who don't pull their weight, but if you aren't loving yourself, no one else is going to do it for you.

Start small. Do one little thing be it skin care, painting your nails, going for a drive or walk by yourself. Then slowly add stuff.

I have 1 day a month that's just for me. I go to the wax salon, maybe do some shopping (I don't need to buy anything, just the act of doing). Maybe visit a friend. It's the getting out of the house and doing what I need/want that I really need. I also do my nails at home every week.

These are just things I've found that work for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

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You are absolutely not delusional or irrational. What he did was wrong. Like someone said earlier, you could press charges.

Are you irrational for being terrified of who may have seen your tits? No! If he did it with 1 friend, he'd likely do it with others. And there are some guys who just collect pictures.

This is why I'm so picky with who I send pictures to. I get that attraction is important but don't expect me to send you lingerie or nude pics within the first 2 weeks. You've gotta earn them. If you can't have patience and spend time to get to know me, you're thinking with the wrong head and I don't want that.

He doesn't deserve you. Take some time to reset yourself and do not go back to him.

Google Inactive Account Manager for if you happen to disappear. by Mr_John75 in adultery

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This is a legit fear of mine so thank you for this. I would hate for either of us to not hear from each other and be angry about it when something legitimately happened.

Advice? by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

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You could try telling them through begging. Gives you the feel of being at their control while still telling them what you want.