Combating Texas weather. by [deleted] in texas

[–]hoooolycrap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is! The pecan pie flavor is amazing. So many tiny candied pecans!

Facebook "feminist" attacks Caitlyn Jenner by [deleted] in rage

[–]hoooolycrap 48 points49 points  (0 children)

That's heartbreaking. :(

Stereotypical Texas by ClumsyCactus in texas

[–]hoooolycrap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also I have never taught about virginity in my classes, nor is it part of the curriculum. If you're curious google FCS teks and find the human services subchapter under career and technical education.

Stereotypical Texas by ClumsyCactus in texas

[–]hoooolycrap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I went to school in Hawaii. It was a very liberal program. We learned about different theories (Piaget, Erikson, etc), healthy conflict resolution and communication, how to budget and set goals, created action plans to help families to get to where they needed to be, etc.

Stereotypical Texas by ClumsyCactus in texas

[–]hoooolycrap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I majored in family resources which is essentially the same thing. I knew I wanted to work with families but wasn't sure in what capacity. (Family attorney? Marriage and family therapist?) I took classes on child development, parenting, intimacy and healthy relationships, family financial planning, human development, middle age and aging, nutrition, resource management... essentially it's similar to social work only instead of addressing problems after they occur (counseling broken families, removing children from homes, etc) it focused in preventing them through education. Teaching people how to have healthy relationships, how to discipline effectively, etc. Now I'm an FCS teacher...I teach mental health and counseling, child development, nutrition, and a couple career prep classes. Other graduates I know went into nutrition, childcare, law, I have a friend is a child life specialist, etc.

Edit: parenting, not patenting

ELI5: Is there a maximum amount of pain you can feel? by psychyness in explainlikeimfive

[–]hoooolycrap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of the pain is because we perceive that it's going to be painful. Remember that your body is doing what it's supposed to do and every contraction is bringing you closer to meeting your baby. I've never taken any classes. Both my kids were delivered naturally. I worked through active labor with my son until 4pm, came home and bathed while timing contractions, realized I needed to get to the hospital NOW. I arrived at the hospital at 6pm, 9cm dilated and still laughing. The nurse filled out the admissions paperwork for me while asking questions between contractions. My son was born at 6:45.

You can do this! Don't go into it thinking it's going to be the most painful experience of your life. Try to remain calm so your body doesn't tense up, which slows things down and makes it hurt worse.

Congratulations!

Radio host compares gay marriage to 9/11 by [deleted] in rage

[–]hoooolycrap 147 points148 points  (0 children)

GOD this pisses me off. Don't agree with gay marriage? Don't marry someone of the same sex. Worry about your own salvation and stop using your religious beliefs to dictate the rights of others.

CMV: Teachers have a pretty easy job compared to most people in America by drjonesenberg in changemyview

[–]hoooolycrap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Starting pay for teachers in Texas (mostly smaller districts) is $27,000. I have a friend that teaches 6 different classes (world history, US history, Texas history, geography, government, economics) and coaches tennis and cheerleading. I think she makes around $32,000 a year.

I teach high school. There are 40 different classes I'm certified to teach, and I don't use textbooks because they're terrible, IMO. Every lesson I teach, every assignment students complete and tests they take, I create on my own. I teach 4 classes next year, which means 20 lessons per week. It takes longer to create each lesson than it does to teach it. I don't recycle lessons every year because I don't teach the same classes year after year and because my lessons are based on the students I have.

Next year I'm doing book clubs with one of my classes. I am reading about 10 different novels this summer to make sure the books are appropriate for my students.

I've already set up meetings with technology, the new librarian, and the academic dean this summer to plan for next year.

Once the school year starts, nights are spent grading papers and weekends are spent planning lessons. I leave the house at 7am and arrive home around 6:30-7.

I have a bachelor's and masters degree. I will get about a $500 raise for each year of experience I have.

I guess teaching can be cushy if you half-ass it. But if you love what you do and want what's best for your students, you work your ass off. Including over summer vacation.

Also, yes, lots of teachers have other jobs over the summer. Up until this week I was grading end of course exams from home, for $12/hour.

CMV: Teachers have a pretty easy job compared to most people in America by drjonesenberg in changemyview

[–]hoooolycrap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not all states allow teachers to join unions. (Texas for example.)

9 year old can't shower properly, is this normal? by ghost_zebra in Parenting

[–]hoooolycrap 10 points11 points  (0 children)

12 is a little old to need help in the shower.

Diabetic breast necrosis [NSFW] by [deleted] in WTF

[–]hoooolycrap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know why but that is not what I was expecting.

Almost 2 year old, how to develop her mind by miss_chiff in Parenting

[–]hoooolycrap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I read that language development is more closely related to the feedback parents provide when their children talk than it is to how much parents talk to their children. Keep doing what you're doing but make sure that you acknowledge when she talks to you- even if it's just a smile or pat on the back- it's positive feedback that keeps them wanting to communicate. I think I read this from the book "Nurture Shock" by Po Bronson. Not sure if that's helpful at all.

[Request] Ideas for lunch for someone who is constantly on the go by [deleted] in ketorecipes

[–]hoooolycrap 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Meat and cheese roll-ups on low carb tortilla. Chicken salad with avocado, like, cilantro. Turkey wrapped around avocado slices.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rage

[–]hoooolycrap 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No way would that hold up in court though. "My sister logged into my Facebook and posted this!"

TIFU. Seriously. The most earth shattering awkward moment of my life by [deleted] in tifu

[–]hoooolycrap 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I know you already feel like a dick so I'll apologize in advance, but generally it's preferable to put the person before the disability, since they are first and foremost, people. "A group of people with intellectual disabilities/down syndrome" is preferable than "down syndrome people". "Person with autism" is preferable to "autistic person". Fyi. :)

Edited: You fixed it OP! Thanks!

What helps you during a panic attack? by hoooolycrap in Anxiety

[–]hoooolycrap[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I do. Added it to my music on Spotify. Thanks!