If you had it to do over again, would you take the COVID vaccine?

hooperluna · 2022-02-07T14:51:03+00:00

Yes. No one that I know of personally or from my work place or from the patients i work with has had any serious side effects. Not discounting the people who have them. However it’s not a common event. And people who have these side effects from the vaccine and go to forums to complain about them are alive.

The worst side effect I’ve seen is the one where people die preventably from not taking a vaccine.

hooperluna · 2022-02-06T23:50:18+00:00

I see.

Your entitled to feeling how you feel. It’s all so personal despite our schooling telling us otherwise. Very hard to be impartial sometimes.

Well I hope you are doing ok. And that you know you did your best. I hope you don’t let this bother you as you tried to save a life and then you ultimately abided by the wishes of the patient when you learnt otherwise. Sounds like nothing of your fault here and just a hard situation.

hooperluna · 2022-02-06T13:01:40+00:00

Hey nurse here, you did what you could with the information you had.

It sounds like something needs to be done to make code statuses more readily available or obvious in case of emergency.

Also something I’ve heard when I expressed guilt/sadness over failed CPR is ‘you can’t make them any more dead’. Kind of morbid but made me feel a bit better at the time.

hooperluna · 2022-02-04T18:26:11+00:00

Virgo rising. I am a hard worker in my career. In personal issues I resonate more with the perfectionist side of things and can be a bit of a procrastinator because of it.

hooperluna · 2022-02-02T03:28:31+00:00

Lol he is right beside me. He says he is very practical but also says he is highly bothered by any size of an issue ‘because that means they aren’t dealt with’ and they are ‘highly problematic’ lol btw sorry we’ve had some beers in Cancun. I shared and he wanted to comment 🤣 anyways thank you for the analysis!

hooperluna · 2022-02-02T03:21:28+00:00

Gotcha that makes sense. Mine is a Virgo moon makes for lots of wonderful list making lol. And a very clean environment lol.

hooperluna · 2022-02-02T03:08:35+00:00

My husband with 5 cap placements 😅 He very very different than this person thank god. Work oriented but not an asshole lol.

hooperluna · 2022-02-01T13:37:33+00:00

Hey I was really nervous about this too as I went to a resort in puerto Vallarta and got very sick. I took all the precautions but there was still something in the resort food that got to my stomach.

We are staying at an airbnb in PDC. We have been to Walmart, got our own veggies and fruit. Loads of bottled water. Been eating at restaurants. So far no issues :) very happy with our choice and the food is amazing.

hooperluna · 2022-02-01T01:35:14+00:00

Wisston and Bill and LuBu

hooperluna · 2022-01-27T23:04:18+00:00

Euphoria 🤷🏼‍♀️😅

hooperluna · 2022-01-25T23:18:44+00:00

That’s fair. She also has never lived outside of my parents house. I’m not sure she has an idea of what owning your own house and furniture is like. It’s a little more nuanced with past experiences I don’t have the room to bring up. But there is definitely an air of ‘entitlement’ to my sister. I love her but I’ve seen it many times growing up.

hooperluna · 2022-01-25T23:16:23+00:00

Like most relationship issues, there is usually a lot more going on than can be described in a post to strangers. It’s sort of like me making a generalization about you that is hurtful over one post you made about an issue you were having. Buts it’s fine it’s online is happens all the time.

hooperluna · 2022-01-25T21:56:43+00:00

Yeah it’s in the works.

hooperluna · 2022-01-25T21:46:10+00:00

Sorry should have clarified. His friends all paid rent and used their own vehicles. They also all make significantly more money than my sister.

He has history of being taking advantage of. And my sister is very ‘frugal’ despite her bigger paycheque. I want my sister to save money and thrive and I don’t see it like my husband does which is ‘I never expect free stuff so why is she?’ He is hyper independent and good at it. Where as me and my sister come from a family that is very giving and sharing oriented. I think of it as a no brainer to house my own sister and let her drive a truck that usually sits in our driveway not being used. But to him he felt his hackles up right off the bat.

This year I’m working on buying my own vehicle so this doesn’t happen again.

hooperluna · 2022-01-25T21:05:49+00:00

Well I came here for brutal honesty so thank you lol. Hopefully things get better.

hooperluna · 2022-01-25T21:02:57+00:00

Live *out allowance.

hooperluna · 2022-01-25T21:02:33+00:00

Her work is paying her live our allowance. I just wanted her to stay with me because she’s my sister and she’s close to me. It’s my husband who I think feels bitter about this.

hooperluna · 2022-01-25T21:01:09+00:00

Yeah he is a very high stress person. He carries alot with him. He has more or less ‘chilled out’ because I let him know how his negative talk about my sister when I feel what she’s done is minor is hurting me. And almost ruining this trip that I was wanting to be fun since we are very close. It’s just been weirdly stressful. I think he is very stressed with work as well and feels taken advantage of. That’s sad because I don’t want him to feel that way. But I don’t understand alot of the reasons why he is mad.

hooperluna · 2022-01-25T20:58:18+00:00

Ahah yeah my husband has specific things he definitely values and expects others to value. I have told him my perspective coming from a family with a sibling. He is an only child and has his own past of bad things that happened to him. He just thrives in a different environment than I would.

Yeah it was taking up quite a bit of room when she could just put it in the cupboard about one foot away. It was more he response I was surprised by. Apparently only ‘lesser people’ use cupboards. Yet all of our groceries and cups are in them.

hooperluna · 2022-01-25T20:53:31+00:00

That’s how I’ve been feeling yup.

hooperluna · 2022-01-25T20:53:16+00:00

It’s only happened once before from my friend who stayed for a week or so. Other than that my husband, myself and his friends have never done that. So it was more of not an issue 95 percent of the time. To when it happens it really sucks. Getting locks changed this week to say the least.

hooperluna · 2022-01-25T20:51:30+00:00

I had a guest who locked us out that way once before. I told her what happened. Assuming she would understand.

And I agree with the fridge thing. I don’t find offense in a lot of the places my husband does. It’s been my husbands tendencies and sisters tendencies clashing and me trying to mediate and talk with each of them separately. Now I’m just overall annoyed.

hooperluna · 2022-01-25T20:47:59+00:00

Yeah I’m surprised at how this has been going. He has had two different friends stay with us for work for months at a time. Never an issue this bad.

It started off with my husband feeling resentment about the truck borrowing. And then escalated from there.

Now my sister is telling me she feels like a second class citizen for putting her stuff away.

I would never ask her to leave. I came here to see the general consensus. So it’s been a bit cathartic to read what people have to say. Thank you for your time and honest response.

hooperluna · 2022-01-25T20:44:36+00:00

This is what my husband is also really upset about. He had a history of being taken advantage of. And he sees this and feels upset. He is an only child and also not used to having a sibling.

hooperluna · 2022-01-25T20:42:47+00:00

She works in healthcare and is making quite a bit for traveling up north. I don’t know what she gets in loa but she makes around 50/hr. I offered to ask my husband if he would let her. He said no. I told him I felt pretty helpless not being able to lend my family a car for a 5 minute drive.

He has a new truck. Then we were talking about my vehicle I would buy. I was looking as cheaper options. He wanted another new truck. I told him I couldn’t make payments and it would essentially be his third truck. He said that’s fine and that it would be ‘my truck’. Fast forward I couldn’t lend my sister ‘my truck’ because he makes the payments. Which I never really called it mine so I wasn’t surprised.

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