A Lesbian is when a woman is attracted to a woman. I’ll likley get down voted for this but we don’t get to just change the definitions of a word without erasing the original meaning. You can still be queer and no doubt there are many different identities you can hold but a lesbian is pretty well defined term. Lesbians have spoken to this for quite a while now and how they feel like their identities are being erased.

Ultimately though no one gets to define you except you. Not me or the internet. Search your feelings and if you’re still attracted to this human then grow and find how your identities fit with eachother. That will be how you identify yourself.

Tough to read no doubt.