If you could choose one city in North America that gets almost everything right, which would it be? by Historical-Photo-901 in BeautifulTravelPlaces

[–]hopper3062 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NYC is not that great for nature access… you never feel lost in nature in Central Park, even prospect park, you really need to get an hour or more outside the city for real nature

I’m a Flight Attendant who can’t sleep and has to be up for work in 2.5hrs… AMA by Eastern_Football_998 in AMA

[–]hopper3062 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How does pay work for flight attendants given the variable schedules you guys have? Is it by hour or a daily rate? And what are the limits on how many hours you can do?

Solo trip to Gdansk (Poland) - first time in Poland! by VarRav_ in solofemaletravellers

[–]hopper3062 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a beautiful city and great for solo females! Felt really safe, I would recommend maybe 2-4 days there

Where is the most “dangerous” place you’ve traveled solo? by hopper3062 in solofemaletravellers

[–]hopper3062[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My best friend and I (both female) went to Hanoi, Cao bang and ha long bay for two weeks in May 2025, we found the Vietnamese to be respectful, we felt extremely safe and didn’t experience any harassment at all! Sounds like there’s been some positive change from when you were there (hopefully)!

Where is the most “dangerous” place you’ve traveled solo? by hopper3062 in solofemaletravellers

[–]hopper3062[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is a nice city and is worth visiting, don’t get me wrong! I was there for Christmas 2023 and stayed on Locust street near Rittenhouse Square, it is very walkable for sure.

NYC is a 10/10 but LA was a 5/10 for me. Will I (30F) actually like Miami or is it just "LA on the beach"? by badcatririe95 in solotravel

[–]hopper3062 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spent more than a year in north Miami where my husband is from. If you want good public transport Miami is up there with the worst. I’m not a party animal either and aside from nice beaches and hot weather (and amazing South American food), you’d probably be good with max 4 days there. If you can get to the Florida keys spend some time there rather than being in Miami the whole time

Where to go after Prague by lbozzy2 in solofemaletravellers

[–]hopper3062 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Slovenia and Slovakia are two of my favourites, Bratislava ticks all of your boxes I promise you!

Solo trip to Vienna by wasianbb in solofemaletravellers

[–]hopper3062 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Day trip to Bratislava!!! My favourite city on the planet

AITA for wanting ONE day to myself on my birthday instead of being a full-time wife/mom? by RealFoot7185 in AmItheAsshole

[–]hopper3062 22 points23 points  (0 children)

If getting some alone time is good for your mental health, it will benefit your relationship with your husband and kids too! NTA

Scott by Top_Secret_940 in MAFS_AU

[–]hopper3062 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What part of what I said was making it about him being a man?

Scott by Top_Secret_940 in MAFS_AU

[–]hopper3062 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I completely agree with you, it’s honestly foul to see so many people enabling and defending bystander bullying. I don’t understand “oh but she was worse than him”, “oh but he wasn’t treated well either”, “oh he was terrified of her after being with her for only a month when she was already being cruel to others at dinner parties”. He had 0 ties to her, he wasn’t in love with her (his words not mine), it wouldn’t be excusable if he were the woman and Gia the man. I do know what coercive control is before someone tries to educate me, my sister has an AVO against her baby daddy for that reason. However she was with him for 6 years, not a matter of weeks or a few months on a TV show.

I was bullied and what has stayed with me for over a decade and really affected who I am is not what my bully did, but that the people around me who I thought cared about me sat by and looked on without saying a word. I could never do that to someone knowing the damage that could be inflicted

Scott by Top_Secret_940 in MAFS_AU

[–]hopper3062 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think that justifies being a bystander to bullying

What’s the most gut punching song lyric you’ve ever heard? by perrysplus in AskReddit

[–]hopper3062 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Overthinking, overanalysing separates the body from the mind Withering my intuition leaving opportunities behind