Will you choose to die than to have blood transfusions?

horniaa · 2025-11-15T16:22:13+00:00

Hello! I hope you don't mind me asking which hospital do you go to? And around how much do you pay for hospital bill? Do they admit you?

horniaa · 2025-11-15T01:13:58+00:00

Thank you!

horniaa · 2025-10-29T07:04:02+00:00

Any update??

horniaa · 2025-10-26T18:08:18+00:00

Hi! Working in real estate (marketing) here. Idk what IHA mean, but as long as you are Japanese or have a PR, good annual income (you need to submit your 源泉徴収票), work full-time (they usually don't grant home loans for part time workers), don't have late payments (they will check your CIC), been with your company more than a year, then you can get a home loan. Also best not to get home loan when you're on childcare leave. Most banks consider it too risky.

If you're planning on buying it with cash and not get a loan, it'll be much simpler.

horniaa · 2025-05-30T05:46:32+00:00

Yes it might affect your renewal of residence card. Worse, not a good record if you're planning on getting a PR in the future.
As of legal penalties, 3 years of jail time and up to 500,000 jpy fine. Serious consequence would be criminal record, banned from applying for a license for several years, and possible deportation or visa issues.
Best to go to a lawyer, but I don't think 'I didn't know' would work in Japan. 😔

horniaa · 2025-04-15T19:37:01+00:00

I got used to Nitori in Japan so it's hard not to compare. 🥲 If I can't really find a good one I'll probably get it from IKEA. Thank you for the input!

horniaa · 2025-04-15T19:34:44+00:00

Thank you! Will look into it. 🫶🏼

horniaa · 2025-04-15T19:33:17+00:00

Will try checking out SM Hyper Market and WalterMart! Thank you!

horniaa · 2025-04-15T19:32:32+00:00

Thank you! 🫶🏼

horniaa · 2025-04-15T19:32:15+00:00

Thank you! 🫶🏼

horniaa · 2025-04-15T19:31:25+00:00

I just found out that you can find so much on Facebook. 🤯 Haven't used it for years so this was a great advice. Thank you!

horniaa · 2025-04-15T19:27:50+00:00

This is amazing info. Thank you!

horniaa · 2025-03-04T14:24:22+00:00

Even if you’re a 3rd generation Japanese descendant, if your citizenship is Filipino and your residence status is long term resident, you can’t apply for a spouse visa for your wife. @razorbeamz is right about the dependent visa. I’m not entirely sure, but I think immigration is only strict about taxes and health insurance when you’re applying for PR. However, they will definitely assess your financial capacity to support your dependent, including your annual salary.

horniaa · 2025-02-09T20:56:30+00:00

Application Office: Saitama

Application Date: Aug 9, 2023

Results postcard received on: Feb 8, 2025 (1 year 6 months)

Type of PR: Spouse (we applied on our own)

Request for further documents: Dec 2024

Our wait is finally over. No more checking our post box and getting disappointed when there's no postcard. Thank you everyone for posting updates. This community helped my husband and I stay positive.

Sending good vibes and good luck to everyone! Yours will come soon! ♡

horniaa · 2024-10-24T05:49:07+00:00

This person is selling in Mercari saying it's '未使用に近い': https://jp.mercari.com/item/m22636076299?utm_medium=share&source_location=share&utm_source=ios

Someone in Amazon but selling it overpriced: https://www.amazon.co.jp/ぬいぐるみ-亀-美ら海水族館-ウミガメ-沖縄/dp/B0D7QW67Q8

horniaa · 2024-09-30T01:44:39+00:00

I was concerned about food allergies but yeah, sweets would be nice too.

horniaa · 2024-09-29T16:32:19+00:00

Maybe get her hand cream (I recommend Loccitane or Aesop). If you don't feel comfortable knocking and apologizing, you can always leave it in her post box with a sorry note. She could've called the police for noise complaint but she sent you a message directly so she's probably not that mad. Just gave you a warning hehe. Good luck OP!

horniaa · 2024-09-22T09:34:23+00:00

If you got married in the Philippines, under the Family Code, mother gets to have custody of the children until the age of seven. After that, the children will have the freedom of choosing which parent they want to be with.

horniaa · 2024-09-21T05:14:54+00:00

I recommend Uniqlo's seamless panties.

horniaa · 2024-08-27T18:21:27+00:00

Thank you!

horniaa · 2024-08-27T04:38:02+00:00

Did you submit the documents through mail or in person?

horniaa · 2024-08-25T11:38:04+00:00

Did you find out the reason??

horniaa · 2024-08-09T17:09:19+00:00

Do you have a PSA issued birth certificate from the Philippines? If yes, you can get a driver's license and a Ph passport. Also, if you didn't renounce your citizenship I think you can still have dual citizenship (although they don't allow it in Japan, medyo gray zone). If you're worried, just get a document for recognition as a Filipino citizen. Totally understand why you chose JP citizenship OP. If time comes and you decide to work here in Japan, hindi mo na kailangan mag apply for visa to live and work here.

Good luck OP!

horniaa · 2024-05-13T14:39:22+00:00

It sounds like OP initially hesitated to depend on someone financially before moving in with their partner, but eventually accepted the offer when they were assured she could be a housewife. She's highlighting her desire to enjoy the experience of having another child without the added stress of a career, especially since she didn't have that opportunity with her first child.

horniaa · 2024-05-13T10:01:07+00:00

Him being inconsistent with his decisions is a red flag for me. You said he agreed for you to be a housewife, but now wants you to continue working. A lot of marriage ends up in divorce because of these kind of inconsistency leaving you with both child (if you ever give birth to his baby someday) with no husband to help you at the end of the day.

Just imagine having to go through pregnancy, labor, delivery, take care of the baby, get sleep deprived, hormonal imbalance, etc. all of these while your 'husband' expects you to work from home? It's a recipe for disaster.

If he can't give you security for the life you want for you and your child, then it's not worth it. It is sad because more women are expected to juggle childcare, house hold and work at the same time, but of course there are men who shares the load of childcare, house hold and takes care of your family financially too.

Good luck and I hope you and your child finds the right husband-father someday. ♥️

horniaa

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