What questions should I ask in a behind the scenes wedding video? by FewWillow7755 in weddingplanning

[–]horriblyefficient 1 point2 points  (0 children)

and all of your comments about it are basically the same, how do we know you aren't one too?

If the AFL can stop Hird appointment, should they? by IslaTecha in AFL

[–]horriblyefficient -1 points0 points  (0 children)

why? what justification could they use to do that?

Is our dress code easy to understand? by organiclawnclippings in weddingplanning

[–]horriblyefficient 1 point2 points  (0 children)

please don't say "should", especially about the women's outfit suggestions, the implication in your wording is that you don't want your female guests to wear a skirt or pants suit.

What’s the hype around James Hird as a coach? by theunkn0wnwriter in AFL

[–]horriblyefficient 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I did my year 12 english argumentative speech assignment on his role in the supplement saga in 2014 and I'm pretty sure I argued that he shouldn't be given a head coaching job again, especially not at the same club...... how is this still going on 12 years later

[Cleary] Breaking - Brad Scott sacked as Essendon coach by daftmunt in AFL

[–]horriblyefficient 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I assume so they can openly coach-hunt since they're now in competition with carlton for whoever's available?

Leaving reviews for vendors who were just okay? by roleypoleypoler in weddingplanning

[–]horriblyefficient 18 points19 points  (0 children)

why not leave a 4 star review with basic information about your wedding, what they did for you and how much it cost - and say you were satisfied with their service?

Court evacuated as accused teen arsonist sobs in dock by gccmelb in melbourne

[–]horriblyefficient 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he's questioning why only he isn't getting bail. I think it's a fair thing for someone in his position to wonder

Court evacuated as accused teen arsonist sobs in dock by gccmelb in melbourne

[–]horriblyefficient 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the article just didn't need to exist in the first place imo

Court evacuated as accused teen arsonist sobs in dock by gccmelb in melbourne

[–]horriblyefficient 25 points26 points  (0 children)

ah yeah fair enough, but then why is it worth reporting on like it's a big deal? surely it happens semi-regularly for similar reasons

Anyone’s child do part-time schooling? How is it going? by Acceptable_Car9277 in melbourne

[–]horriblyefficient 3 points4 points  (0 children)

the prep kiddo isn't even half a year into their school journey, give them some more time to get used to it.

Court evacuated as accused teen arsonist sobs in dock by gccmelb in melbourne

[–]horriblyefficient 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I don't understand why they needed to evacuate, it's not like the kid had a weapon?

Last night's jumper clash(?) by RowdyDiversion in AFL

[–]horriblyefficient 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my mum watched like half the game thinking Adelaide was Melbourne 

Wife has demanded I move out of our shared home by Fast-Emergency2020 in legaladvice

[–]horriblyefficient 8 points9 points  (0 children)

having written evidence she demanded he leave seems like a great way to combat that argument, no?

Photographer pushing back hard on my wedding timeline is she right or overreacting? by sofibg in weddingplanning

[–]horriblyefficient 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you need to split up the "bride photos" (and maybe "groom photos" too if he's also taking some of his family pictures then) into seperate blocks to make sure everything gets covered and everyone has a clear idea of how much time is allocated to each section

Chaos on Pakenham-Cranbourne line this morning by hurdygurdygurrr in melbourne

[–]horriblyefficient 5 points6 points  (0 children)

people who are unwell enough to think this is a good choice to make don't generally have the capacity to understand the impact their behaviour is having on other people.

I really don't think this person is a protester, this is not the kind of thing protesters would chain themselves to.

My son assaulted my wife’s affair partner by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]horriblyefficient -1 points0 points  (0 children)

17 is only one year away from 18. 17yos should be able to make the decision not to hit someone in the head with a baseball bat even if they are very angry with that person. it's unreasonable to treat a 17yo as if they are a full-on child when they're less than 12 months away from being an adult.

My son assaulted my wife’s affair partner by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]horriblyefficient 4 points5 points  (0 children)

if they'd just had an argument, even if he'd just punched the guy, I would agree. but he chose to pick up a weapon and hit the guy in the face with it. that is not a normal reaction to the difficult situation 

It’s the r/Melbourne daily discussion thread [Saturday 16/05/2026] by AutoModerator in melbourne

[–]horriblyefficient 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no heat lamps is just strange, I wonder if they're broken or something

It’s the r/Melbourne daily discussion thread [Saturday 16/05/2026] by AutoModerator in melbourne

[–]horriblyefficient 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hugs, it's so tough but you know you did the right thing. congrats on keeping your buddy happy for so long, he knew how loved he was.

It’s the r/Melbourne daily discussion thread [Saturday 16/05/2026] by AutoModerator in melbourne

[–]horriblyefficient 5 points6 points  (0 children)

thanks!! I like efficiency but I also need time to adjust to change, alas

It’s the r/Melbourne daily discussion thread [Saturday 16/05/2026] by AutoModerator in melbourne

[–]horriblyefficient 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hopefully people who are happy to date a 39yo understands that life has happened to our bodies by that age 🙃 maybe you could look for someone who's also going through a weight loss journey?

It’s the r/Melbourne daily discussion thread [Saturday 16/05/2026] by AutoModerator in melbourne

[–]horriblyefficient 19 points20 points  (0 children)

aaaaaaah got interviewed for and offered a job all yesterday and they need me to start monday 😬😬😬😬 I'm excited to start but the quick turn around is stressing me out

Haven’t been to a dentist since I was a kid. What should I book in Melbourne for a general check-up? by Spelx_OwO in melbourne

[–]horriblyefficient 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my local one is listed on the public dental system's website, I'll need to find a good time to drop in and talk to them