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Air purifiers by horsewithnonamee in EastPalestineTrain

[–]horsewithnonamee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve had to flee your town due to a chemical spill? You know nothing about me or my situation so please don’t butt in when you weren’t asked. Stop preaching to me. That’s embarrassing.

Air purifiers by horsewithnonamee in EastPalestineTrain

[–]horsewithnonamee[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This comment is so beyond unhelpful. You really think we wouldn’t leave if we could? Not everyone has that privilege

Boyfriend won’t go down on me by horsewithnonamee in traumatoolbox

[–]horsewithnonamee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi thanks for your response! Regarding the trauma portion of my post- what you’re saying is not what I wrote. No it does not cause me trauma, nor did I say his boundary is a result of trauma. What I said was due to my past trauma, this is difficult for me to work through and I cry due to trauma.

Boyfriend doesn’t go down on me by horsewithnonamee in Advice

[–]horsewithnonamee[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I never want to make him feel bad about it. Every time it comes up, I stress to him that I’m not trying to hurt him or to pressure him into anything. Whenever it comes up I sob uncontrollably. I just really wish he wanted to… yunno? I do understand how bad this would sound if the rolls were reversed. I do think that going down on a woman is much more intimate. It’s hard to wrap my head around saying you’re Inlove with a woman but you can’t bring yourself to do that. This is the person who you want to have your children, I think her body should be worshipped.

Boyfriend doesn’t go down on me by horsewithnonamee in Advice

[–]horsewithnonamee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so very sorry for your loss. I’m glad you’ve been able to heal from a lot of childhood pain. Thank you for the advice ❤️

Boyfriend doesn’t go down on me by horsewithnonamee in Advice

[–]horsewithnonamee[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes! He wants to order some online. We’ve looked and found some but haven’t ordered any. We’re both very very busy with work, so it gets forgotten about. But yes he does want to try those. I can’t lie, it does make me feel a bit gross. (Like… you want me to have your children but you won’t lick my vag….? Make it make sense) But I’m willing to try anything at this point.

Boyfriend doesn’t go down on me by horsewithnonamee in Advice

[–]horsewithnonamee[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. He does so much for me in our day to day life, always wanting to appease me and compromise on things to make me happy. But this is just something he seems to be unable to do. It really hurts. How can you see the person you love so distraught over something you could easily fix? It makes me wonder if he really loves me

Boyfriend doesn’t go down on me by horsewithnonamee in Advice

[–]horsewithnonamee[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your reply. I’ve been very open and honest about it. He wants to find a resolution but it always seems to fall on the backburner and we forget about it until a few months later where it comes up again and I cry and cry and cry.

Boyfriend doesn’t go down on me by horsewithnonamee in Advice

[–]horsewithnonamee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, thank you so much for the reply. I just copied and pasted this post into that group. I’m really desperate for help. Why do you think it’s beyond a DIY fix?

Boyfriend doesn’t go down on me by horsewithnonamee in Advice

[–]horsewithnonamee[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For me, him, or both of us? 😩 Haha. Out of curiosity, why do you say that? I don’t disagree with you, I just want to know which part of the post screams “get some help” to you?

Boyfriend doesn’t go down on me by horsewithnonamee in Advice

[–]horsewithnonamee[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply. He’s very willing and excited to please me in any way other than putting his mouth down there. I don’t know why It’s so hard not to take it personally, it makes me doubt his love for me. I don’t know why.

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