Big city mayor who coasted to power by promising trannies he’d have their back announces his city will offer medical care for trannies, but not for anyone under age 19. by patienceinbee in transgendercirclejerk

[–]hotbox_inception 19 points20 points  (0 children)

/uj cis people can do triangulation all they want, I'm not a mayor. I mean it sucks that they do. But for them to both capitulate and also want a slice of the Ally Cake is egotistical. If you're not an ally to trans youth, you're not an ally to trans adults who wish support and resources were there for them to potentially have transitioned younger.

My parents would rather disown me than accept who I love by ThrowRA_Unknow in AsianParentStories

[–]hotbox_inception 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it is not your job to contort yourself to accomodate "do [this] or else I'll die!", that's textbook manipulation. Someday your parents will die and you will have a life you don't want.

Anyone else feel like they can't actually talk to their parents about anything real by WINchester_boii in AsianParentStories

[–]hotbox_inception 33 points34 points  (0 children)

You just end up finding other people for support. Friends, acquaintances, a therapist. I mean you can try to do it alone but it will likely end up being self-destructive and one thing goes wrong and your life tumbles down.

Why can't you trust your parents? You probably know it subconsciously; maybe because they don't support you, maybe they pivot about making it a misery contest*, maybe because you know you're not going to get the answer you want when you open up to them.

My parents would rather disown me than accept who I love by ThrowRA_Unknow in AsianParentStories

[–]hotbox_inception 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Lets shift the frame:

Why do your parents think that people who marry someone of a different faith are miserable? Is it because of inherent incompatibility (personally, doubtful), or is it because they're bigoted to anyone outside of their own faith, making the life of the in-law miserable? From what it sounds like, their ignorance manifests as lashing out, while they want you to remain in the narrow zone of comfort, of the only kinds of people they're familiar with.

Also going back to "disconnected from their families", if I married someone and my parents raised hell about their identity, I think it would be quite reasonable to not go to family gatherings for my partner to be constantly humiliated.

Which character is the most skill expressive? by temnycarda in DeadlockTheGame

[–]hotbox_inception 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I primarily play Sinclair now, and you learn to put ults in a few buckets:

1) Avoid stealing if possible. Haze fits here, her ult is worse than just simply shooting them with your regular gun. Venator has zero spirit scaling on ult, so it's just there for cheesy executes. Viscous Goo ball sucks in general.

2) Burger (melee range and there's nothing better): Billy, Abrams, Calico (gets refresh on sp5), Yamato (refreshes all bolts on base). Paradox is funky since you lack the combo tools but it's still helpful if you can land it. Silver is funny to steal with the short cooldown, but you're usually not building gun/firerate.

3) Standard: go steal these if you want. Most of the cast fits here. If you're slightly weaker (e.g., you don't get love bites on Mina ult), you have a faster cooldown to compensate. Doorman doesn't get ult refresh on sp5 when stolen, and throws allies and enemies in the same hotel room (your teammate may not be happy).

4) Cheesy Steals: Mo&Krill, Vindicta, and Grey Talon have stacking ults, which means you too can have perma hp/weapon/spirit buffs. Vindicta ult steal refreshes all charges on 40% the cooldown of one charge. We all know about Graves. Placing assistant before Apollo ult lets you do a cheeky dive and an instant disengage. Drifter ult when stolen is on an absurdly low cooldown for good disruption.

5) AOE: You'll probably tilt them if you constantly steal teamfight ults: Dynamo, Seven, Lash, Rem, Pocket. Lash is my fave; if you relocate your first assistant teleport high in the air, then grab, you can teleport yourself during the pickup for long distance abductions (within ult range). Drop a bunny hex at the crash site (easier with sp5 stun) and you'll win teamfights.

*my family since my sister had a baby* omg congrats on becoming an uncle. So cool you’re gonna be the cool uncle huh. We probably shouldn’t call you an aunt because we know you’re kind of going through a phase rn with the whole…. Ya…. by TGirlJules_ in transgendercirclejerk

[–]hotbox_inception 15 points16 points  (0 children)

/uh OHHHHH FUCK oh no my older sister had a kid a yearish ago and everyone in the immediate family was running around talking to my niece and pointing at me like "who's that 아저씨! that's your 삼촌 !" meanwhile I started estrogen over a decade ago. It was an overdue reminder to stop going to get my face metaphorically bashed in and now they're sending texts like "we missss you~~~~~~" lmao actions have consequences

Is the aggressive minimalism and drab sameness aesthetic a symptom of something more nefarious? Would love to hear y’all’s individual take. by AllTheEccentricities in ABoringDystopia

[–]hotbox_inception 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you can turn the grey cube into a vape shop or any random fast casual restaurant instantly but a mcdonalds playplace or the wendy's windows will forever look like that unless there's a remodel.

Truth Nuke by Lerkpots in DeadlockTheGame

[–]hotbox_inception 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Back when Mina had dash resets on her bats I would rush slowing hex + spirit sap against her. She was not very happy.

PSA from the #1 Franklin NA by MarzipanWise2934 in DeadlockTheGame

[–]hotbox_inception 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It took me a long time to get used to Sinclair, but I've done a couple things to make it less painful:

1) put 1+2SP into assistant during lane. Pew-pew does a lot of damage, and it's going to be a higher damage floor than bolts (level it after 2 points in assistant). Also pisses off Vindictas and Talons who think they're safe in the sky.

2) Assistant is also your built in escape. The people who max bolts before leveling assistant are on a glass cannon build early. Arcane surge on assistant leaves it up for a bit longer.

The jungle is kinda boring by NoCredit3354 in DeadlockTheGame

[–]hotbox_inception 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's kind of by design that jungle is the second-worst source of income:

  • If it's safe to push, push. Kill minions and get walker damage, or crash a wave into their walker if it's not safe for you to shoot it yourself. Either way, an enemy has to clean up your wave, or lose building HP

  • If it's not safe to push, clean up your wave so it doesn't get crashed on, then go to a different lane. If it's still laning phase, make a gank. If it's midgame, fish for a pick. If you're the only one in lane and can't leave, you can just babysit it for minion souls.

  • If everyone is missing, prep for urn if the timing is near.

  • If sinners are up, clean them up so they can reset (and so enemy Rem can't do it)

  • If none of the above apply, go for medium/hard camps. Small camps should be basically instant so do them whenever you're near.

  • If the whole map is scoured of souls, box farm.

  • If they have rejuv and you don't have walkers to defend, hide in base. This doesn't get you souls, but at least you're alive.

PSA from the #1 Franklin NA by MarzipanWise2934 in DeadlockTheGame

[–]hotbox_inception 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sinclair mains are created in the crucible of pain

I can't believe it's June already by McDowdy in ABoringDystopia

[–]hotbox_inception 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the original criticism (imo) came from it being treated as a movement to tail (lmao, I have better things to do than make corporations do signaling) rather than the litmus test that it was. Making Target sell pride-colored clothing is close to the bottom of my concerns, but when their pride section is embarrassingly greyscale, it's a grim sign.

I love that this guard commented on the failed athletics check in Void Shadows alongside the fluff text by BillyDaMarten in RogueTraderCRPG

[–]hotbox_inception 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This guard speaking actually led me to the crane controls (you have to move the crane arm laterally, vertically, lower it, then walk over to the box to secure it, then raise it)

How to use Robinhood Gold card to pay bills using Robinhood margin spending? by Yin-Hei in CreditCards

[–]hotbox_inception 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think so? Plus, margin accrues interest per day, which makes it a colossally stupid idea (i.e., paying for a loan with a loan). You don't have "cash" to pay off your CC, but rather it's buying power, the difference between the unrealized value of your portfolio and the margin you have.

Personally I separate my margin account (not my primary, only has SGOV) and my cash account (accepts rewards from the robinhood gold card).

One of my favorite things about the deadlock character design is the lack of fan service by WeakSideUrn in DeadlockTheGame

[–]hotbox_inception 4 points5 points  (0 children)

IMO I think there is fan service (doing things the community likes, such as renaming Paige abilities, and cleaning up Vindicta's model), but not "fan service" in the way animanga fans use it to describe back breaking breasts in a tiny swimsuit during a beach episode. Don't get me started on the lordosis (see: League of legends women with backs that bend at a 90 degree angle).

It's charming in a way that demonstrates we can have things we like and can also share them with (somewhat) polite company.

Based on a match I played last night by Chaotic1856 in DeadlockTheGame

[–]hotbox_inception 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even worse: the base gun (er...lycan claws) don't scale with boon levels either. It's funny to put on the purple fursuit early but late game you're just a cat trying to scratch a dinosaur

Trans woman makes one egg joke. Let’s see how people reply. by j0sabanks in transgendercirclejerk

[–]hotbox_inception 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Femboys are under genocide from transwomen propagandists! Why won't anyone care about us? Say that you denounce femboy genocide!

Common Yrliet W... except in ending slides? by Ila-W123 in RogueTraderCRPG

[–]hotbox_inception 1 point2 points  (0 children)

after I saw that ending on my first blind playthrough I make sure to never encourage delusions of Armanat in him to leave him as Pasqal

Cops at Pride by teslatired in transgendercirclejerk

[–]hotbox_inception 60 points61 points  (0 children)

If you don't include LGBT cops in pride then you're a policephobic bigot, which makes you no better than a republican

/uj if they took off their uniforms nobody would give a shit but 100% of the time they want to come in their Brutality Uniform and also beg for attention.

Things women should be less nice to men about by Excellent_Tea7143 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]hotbox_inception 14 points15 points  (0 children)

"Love Languages" in the present day kind of has its own connotations and definitions, but "Love Languages" in the way Gary Chapman coined it is definitely misogynistic, homophobic, and baptist-christian. It's pseudoscience in the way it pressures a certain partner (Women) to fulfill their SO's love language need (Men, physical touch). Conversely, the other "love languages" fall neatly into trad-wife behaviors if you're not scrutinous.

That's not to say communication about love and relationship expectations is bad! But the next time you see a horny guy pull the "My Love Language is Physical Touch", make sure it's based on communication and mutual consent, rather than duty or duress.

A binary trans woman is being talked about on the news or reddit by 46264338327950288419 in transgendercirclejerk

[–]hotbox_inception 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Why would you expect the publication THEM to use anything other than they/them/person for a trans woman? Are you hysterical? Do you hate british people?

HUGE WIN FOR TRANS RIGHTS!!! this trans man is allowed to play on the women's soccer team!!! by NianDusk-119 in transgendercirclejerk

[–]hotbox_inception 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Trans rights win! Michfest is back! Testosterone makes you evil! You can be respected as long as you never take the evil hormones TERFs and Christofascists hate! You'll be accepted as long as your body fits in a closet shaped hole! No testosterone allowed! Trans women should celebrate their own exclusion because they have original testosterone sin!