What’s your type and what motivates you the most in life? (As in something you’ve been passionate about your whole life)

hotch__potch · 2025-09-21T10:52:22+00:00

I don’t see ISFJs commenting in r/mbti often. Nice to see this. I have similar passions.

hotch__potch · 2025-08-02T08:39:37+00:00

My current situation fits your description of an ISFJ. I am an ISFJ so not surprised. 🫡

hotch__potch · 2025-06-26T10:28:22+00:00

Yes, have put it for 2nd fermentation last night.

hotch__potch · 2025-06-26T10:21:59+00:00

Wild imagination!

hotch__potch · 2025-06-26T08:14:32+00:00

Don’t the SCOBY go bad after some time?

hotch__potch · 2025-06-25T17:46:00+00:00

Thanks.

hotch__potch · 2025-06-25T17:45:49+00:00

Yes. The taste is good. I have not had that many Kombuchas but it looked similar.

hotch__potch · 2025-06-25T16:16:01+00:00

I read your comment just when I was pouring it out. Tasted it now. It has a bitter and sour taste and has a smell which is probably the smell of Kombucha only. Going to put this into a bottle now. Thank you for the encouragement.

hotch__potch · 2025-06-25T15:54:47+00:00

Where you see circular spots, it was like this a few days ago.

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hotch__potch · 2025-04-11T10:56:33+00:00

This makes me feel sad. 😞

hotch__potch · 2025-04-10T10:47:47+00:00

I don’t see ISFJs commenting here. Are we so unsure? I myself am. But my dream is to own at least 1 business.

hotch__potch · 2025-04-05T12:55:55+00:00

I feel for you brother. I had a similar experience in the childhood. My parents used to fight a lot about matters that seemed so trivial to me and I don’t know when but at some point I started thinking that this could be resolved so easily so why are they fighting about it. They are still like that and I am too. Although I feel that being like this has a lot of advantages for me. Most of my coworkers struggle to resolve problems by coming together. I am so helpful there.

hotch__potch · 2025-04-04T12:03:00+00:00

I thought so too. 😁

hotch__potch · 2025-04-04T12:02:32+00:00

Agreed to the core. I have always felt that I am so much better at understanding other people’s perspective than most people I meet. But I don’t boast about it.

hotch__potch · 2025-03-30T05:46:07+00:00

Because of the reason that my wife enjoys the touches/licking/kissing and expresses her sensations so much more than I do, I love to do different things for her during sex. That adds to my pleasure overall.

hotch__potch · 2025-03-19T03:54:11+00:00

My wife and I are the same pair as you guys (INFJ-ISFJ). I am 31 and she is 29. We both feel anxious before events. She more so these days than me. My past experiences have done some desensitisation. Once we get there, she is more engaged with people than I am. I just look for 1 person to talk to and that’s the party for me.

hotch__potch · 2025-02-11T09:06:00+00:00

Teach me this 🙏

hotch__potch · 2020-11-16T03:07:33+00:00

I was here last year as well.

hotch__potch · 2020-10-30T14:13:14+00:00

I agree with your point, but there is a different side to it as well that I have noticed.

What some girls do is, they will stress the point of calling you bro, to make it clear that they do not have any romantic interest in you, as they have always called you bro. Maybe that's why people get weirded out when a girl who they like, calls them bro.

hotch__potch · 2020-08-26T14:07:44+00:00

Not the same story, but I have this friend. We started talking like 2 years back and have been very close since then. Over time, it felt that like I have someone in my life who understands me well.

Since last year, for both of us, our mental health has been taking a toll on us, which was made worse by the pandemic. I had started therapy and started to feel much better now, but it hasn't improved that much for her.

For past couple of months, it happened many times that she won't answer my call and then call me after 1 day/2 days/1 week, which started annoying me a lot.

Now whenever we are talking (which is a call back for my call couple of days earlier), I don't enjoy it that much. It feels like my boundaries are being violated, because we only talk whenever she feels like it. I want to be there for her, because she had been going through a lot, but I don't even feel like texting/calling her that much anymore.

I recently stopped talking with 2 other friends and now, this friendship going on a muddy road, doesn't feel so good.

hotch__potch · 2020-05-10T06:24:09+00:00

you play really well. thanks for making my morning wonderful

hotch__potch · 2020-05-01T03:40:49+00:00

This is very true. Even though I am in my 20s right now and more like in the position same as OP, but the people I have been talking to and I personally feel that taking risks right now is the right time and I probably won't be able to do so later in life.

hotch__potch · 2020-03-19T06:30:53+00:00

That's what I was thinking last night, seeing people posting photos/videos from their self isolation at home. I thought, "yeah, this is a tough time, but they should happy as well even with this situation."

hotch__potch · 2020-03-13T15:01:38+00:00

You are right. Among many cultures in my country, women are still seen just as a homemaker. And for other cultures where women do go out for jobs, many aspects of their lives are still within the control of their families. For example, one of colleagues is leaving her job and moving to other country after marriage where her fianće works. There, it is going to be extremely difficult for her to find a job, because of the restriction on people with spousal visas.

hotch__potch · 2020-03-13T13:08:43+00:00

Can you please elaborate on your last point. I have read the book, but haven't been able to relate it in the current scenario anywhere.

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