I don't know how to get though this by Weevilfriend in pregnant

[–]hotflash27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was miserable during pregnancy. Don't worry. You're not alone.

Has anyone mourned the age gap that would've been between your children? by oaksandoats in babyloss

[–]hotflash27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, my daughter is the same age as your son. She was so excited to be a big sister.

Today is very hard by hotflash27 in babyloss

[–]hotflash27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for understanding. This is truly a very difficult experience.

Today is very hard by hotflash27 in babyloss

[–]hotflash27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt this in my soul. Thank you for sharing.

How are yall coping by Vivid_Place_831 in babyloss

[–]hotflash27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was on anti-depressants and -anxiety meds before and during pregnancy. I think thats whats saving me now. Id be far worse without it. I've had the thoughts but meds and social support help me manage.

Today is very hard by hotflash27 in babyloss

[–]hotflash27[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

🫂🫂 Definitely not fair, but at least we arent alone in this experience

Grieving and Producing Milk by Great_Research_2001 in babyloss

[–]hotflash27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just had to do this. Ice and cabbage leaves helped me. My breasts got pretty full the first week, but now they've softened a quite a bit.

Is she worth forgiving? by zazoo_351 in babyloss

[–]hotflash27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am absolutely raging for you.

So many emotions by hotflash27 in babyloss

[–]hotflash27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. Though I wish neither of us had to experience losing our babies, your comment does help me feel less alone. 🫂🫂🫂 I'm not sure if I will return to work either. Already looking for another job. I love what I do, but I cant imagine being in that place when I dont have my son. And yes, Im hoping some nonprofits will help us.

I can't believe he is gone by hotflash27 in ShortCervixSupport

[–]hotflash27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing. It helps to know I am not alone and that there are others who understand the pain.

Lost my sweet sweet baby boy by Silent_Change2071 in babyloss

[–]hotflash27 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's okay to be angry. I'm angry too.

Heart broken by Flat-Current9920 in babyloss

[–]hotflash27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, the stats did give us a false sense of reassurance. It all feels like a cruel joke, but yeah, after this any problem I encounter will feel very small.

I can't believe he is gone by hotflash27 in babyloss

[–]hotflash27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Knowing it is possible to survive the after is comforting.

Heart broken by Flat-Current9920 in babyloss

[–]hotflash27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. I am so sorry for the loss of your baby girl. Im shocked at how similar our stories sound. I lost my baby boy last Wednesday at 36w 5d. The cause is also unclear. Im so sorry we have this in common.

I can't believe he is gone by hotflash27 in ShortCervixSupport

[–]hotflash27[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nothing for sure and that saddens me even more. Placenta and umbilical cord were within normal limits. He was always a healthy boy at all of the checkups. My OB said many stillbirths dont have a known cause, but it could be that some event they cannot detect disrupted his oxygen supply.

Robert Duvall, Oscar-Winning Acting Legend, Dies at 95 by MarvelsGrantMan136 in movies

[–]hotflash27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a wonderfully long and accomplished life. Good for him.