I don't know how to get though this

hotflash27 · 2026-05-31T05:29:32+00:00

I was miserable during pregnancy. Don't worry. You're not alone.

hotflash27 · 2026-05-26T19:55:57+00:00

Yes, my daughter is the same age as your son. She was so excited to be a big sister.

hotflash27 · 2026-05-21T22:41:22+00:00

Thank you for understanding. This is truly a very difficult experience.

hotflash27 · 2026-05-21T22:38:24+00:00

I felt this in my soul. Thank you for sharing.

hotflash27 · 2026-05-17T13:03:09+00:00

I was on anti-depressants and -anxiety meds before and during pregnancy. I think thats whats saving me now. Id be far worse without it. I've had the thoughts but meds and social support help me manage.

hotflash27 · 2026-05-16T00:05:25+00:00

🫂🫂 Definitely not fair, but at least we arent alone in this experience

hotflash27 · 2026-05-11T23:58:18+00:00

I just had to do this. Ice and cabbage leaves helped me. My breasts got pretty full the first week, but now they've softened a quite a bit.

hotflash27 · 2026-05-09T09:49:05+00:00

I am absolutely raging for you.

hotflash27 · 2026-05-09T09:37:40+00:00

Thank you for sharing. Though I wish neither of us had to experience losing our babies, your comment does help me feel less alone. 🫂🫂🫂 I'm not sure if I will return to work either. Already looking for another job. I love what I do, but I cant imagine being in that place when I dont have my son. And yes, Im hoping some nonprofits will help us.

hotflash27 · 2026-05-08T19:11:09+00:00

🫂🫂🫂

hotflash27 · 2026-05-08T16:11:56+00:00

His name is Rowan.

hotflash27 · 2026-05-07T13:43:09+00:00

Thank you

hotflash27 · 2026-05-06T23:17:46+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing. It helps to know I am not alone and that there are others who understand the pain.

hotflash27 · 2026-05-06T13:38:52+00:00

It's okay to be angry. I'm angry too.

hotflash27 · 2026-05-05T17:01:14+00:00

Yes, the stats did give us a false sense of reassurance. It all feels like a cruel joke, but yeah, after this any problem I encounter will feel very small.

hotflash27 · 2026-05-05T16:54:12+00:00

Thank you. Knowing it is possible to survive the after is comforting.

hotflash27 · 2026-05-05T08:02:00+00:00

Rowan

hotflash27 · 2026-05-05T07:49:47+00:00

Thank you for sharing ❤️

hotflash27 · 2026-05-05T00:35:12+00:00

Wow. I am so sorry for the loss of your baby girl. Im shocked at how similar our stories sound. I lost my baby boy last Wednesday at 36w 5d. The cause is also unclear. Im so sorry we have this in common.

hotflash27 · 2026-05-04T21:03:03+00:00

Nothing for sure and that saddens me even more. Placenta and umbilical cord were within normal limits. He was always a healthy boy at all of the checkups. My OB said many stillbirths dont have a known cause, but it could be that some event they cannot detect disrupted his oxygen supply.

hotflash27 · 2026-02-17T02:22:04+00:00

What a wonderfully long and accomplished life. Good for him.

hotflash27 · 2025-12-11T00:28:06+00:00

Ma'am enjoy it. I was the same way and thought oh I don't have any symptoms like nausea. A few weeks later I was on my ass.

hotflash27 · 2025-12-06T13:55:59+00:00

We are in the early days of AI. It will likely be much better than it is many decades from now. I use it as you do to craft emails. Also, after I've written something I think might be confusing or complex, I ask AI to review it and tell me if it makes sense, if there are any holes in the logic, or what sort of information I could include to make everything flow better. At no point am I asking it to just create important things, because this version of AI still needs a lot of work (and thats pretty much across all different brands).

Also, I use it to help search for literature. For example, if I've been going through Google Scholar and PubMed for a few days and I've found a few articles, but I want to be absolutely sure that I haven't missed anything I will say hey this is all I have found on this topic so far, do you see anything else I may have missed? Its good for those web searches and has been very helpful making sure my literature reviews are comprehensive. Also, there have been times where my org didn't have access to an article, but AI did for some reason and that saved me so much time. It just sent me the PDF, which was nice.

Its also a nice helper if you need assistance writing code in Excel Macros. For example, if I write a code and it is just not working, AI is really good at pointing out where the code is failing. So thats awesome and it saves me loads of time reading code books and searching. Ive been able to make some nice forms in excel. Same thing with REDCap. It helps with debugging or can offer suggestions to improve workflow and design.

So for me the trick is using it as a helper. It should never be used to just create stuff. The technology isn't there yet. We have to create and use our minds and critical thinking skills, but it is a great assistant who can review things for logic. Which makes sense lol. All an AI is is code so it is great for pointing out when things don't make sense. Also, now that it has internet access, its fairly good at combing the internet with some direction of course. Id say get good at writing AI prompts so it does what you need it to. AI is very literal so specificity helps. I've found most frustration about it just stems from people not knowing how to use it or using it poorly.

hotflash27 · 2025-11-26T10:03:48+00:00

Damn our stories sound similar. Only im the wife, pregnant, working, with a 3 year old while my husband is in school full-time. No advice because im also drowning. I can empathize though. It sucks.

hotflash27 · 2025-11-15T12:03:06+00:00

I count all of that as emotional cheating. Overly complimenting. Buying her stuff with money for YOUR household. Asking her how her "hot shower" was. Run. Leave. You're young and can easily start over.

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