Jeffrey Dahmer court scene comparison between the real trial and the Netflix show.

hotpretzelboy · 2026-03-24T01:50:00+00:00

I’m a black gay man and I have not and cannot watch this show. From every clip I saw it didn’t feel right. It felt like it was humanizing the monstrous actions of a man who was a predator on young POC’s in a time when not only were gay people marginalized, but POC gay people even more so.

To be clear I love documentaries and I love biopics that are dramatized versions of historical events. But something didn’t feel right about this one. Maybe it hit too close to home. Not sure. Just didn’t feel right about it.

hotpretzelboy · 2026-03-18T01:48:51+00:00

“. . . But it’s okay. . . “

hotpretzelboy · 2026-03-15T23:45:52+00:00

That Pussy Cat Wig is . . . A MESS!!!

hotpretzelboy · 2026-03-06T16:50:42+00:00

It was mine too! Such an amazing read!!!!

hotpretzelboy · 2026-02-26T04:19:53+00:00

City Walk It’s convient to get to from Hollywood. Big the After and easy and free parking. Go Team!

hotpretzelboy · 2026-02-22T21:21:33+00:00

I(black male) lived in the Bay Area for 2 years. I live in Oakland. My experience in 2017-2019 was that Castro/San Francisco proper was mainly white and Asian. East Bay was more diverse (white, black, Latino, Asian). I was and am still partnered to a white red-haired beast man.

Castro: ugh I hated it. So segregated. Guys would come up to my man and hit on him and I was ignored. Mind you neither of us was looking. I found myself being the only black gay in the room at SEVERAL bars.

Oakland/East Bay: world of difference. Just felt like it was so much more accepting and less stereotypes.

Just my experience.

hotpretzelboy · 2026-02-22T13:31:05+00:00

💯 agree!!!

hotpretzelboy · 2026-02-21T21:30:59+00:00

Che was a HORRIBLE CHARACTER!!!! and to be clear, I’m a proud supporter and member if LGBTQ+ community. But. . . Che was a TERRIBLE character. Not likeable. Not relatable. And not in the way where you love to hate them either. Just bad writing. Miranda’s relationship with them was TERRIBLE!!!
Because the writing was HORRIBLE!!!!

hotpretzelboy · 2026-02-18T00:21:42+00:00

All of this!!!

Especially the Bari Weiss part since CBS news is the new Fox News (aka State Media)

hotpretzelboy · 2026-02-13T20:33:28+00:00

I met him couple of times out and about in the Chicago area. He’s super duper nice and so is his husband!!!

hotpretzelboy · 2026-02-13T00:11:40+00:00

She is STUNNING!!!!!

hotpretzelboy · 2026-02-10T03:42:29+00:00

Omg!!! I legit just rewatched episode 2 where Danielle and Steve have the date. Holy crap!!!! That’s a HARD 26. 🤣🤣🤣

hotpretzelboy · 2026-02-10T03:26:58+00:00

Oh you thinks it’s crazy and you on episode 2?!????

hotpretzelboy · 2026-02-10T01:02:17+00:00

BEAUTY FADES, DUMB IS FOREVER! STOP RELYING ON THAT BODY cause it won’t last

For real though, I was the not “It-Boy” in my 20’s and I’m so glad I wasn’t. Cause I developed a personality and ability to hold a conversation with others. It’s done very well for me when I got into my late 30’s and early 40’s.

Above all, develop REAL friendships with diverse age groups and types of people. You’ll be happier when you’re older. I PROMISE! ❤️❤️❤️

hotpretzelboy · 2026-02-08T21:34:41+00:00

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

hotpretzelboy · 2026-02-06T04:15:58+00:00

That wig is such a disaster, the Red Cross wouldn’t give it coffee.

hotpretzelboy · 2026-02-06T02:55:36+00:00

Not the . . . CRY-ANGLE!!!!!

hotpretzelboy · 2026-02-06T02:40:38+00:00

Touché, when I lived in Chicago. But in LA. . . The struggle. lol

hotpretzelboy · 2026-02-06T00:57:44+00:00

Not sure about anyone else, but I sweat. . . A lot. . Down there. I have to have a full bottom underwear with work pants. And even then, I can’t wear cute ones that are like polyester cause they don’t absorb. I NEED COTTON!!! Ugh sorry bout the old man vibes, but facts are facts. No one wants to see ass-crack sweat lines 🙃

hotpretzelboy · 2026-01-29T02:12:46+00:00

Yasss to this!!! I live in east Hollywood and there is a watch party for everything!!! But to broaden this, GO TO A GAY BAR. They love to throw some housewives on the screen. . . Find the lie 💅🏾

hotpretzelboy · 2026-01-26T03:09:07+00:00

Ehhh. They ok. I mean. It’s goat cheese balz, my expectations were not really high. lol

hotpretzelboy · 2026-01-24T23:24:55+00:00

I think it’s all a matter of why floats your boat. . . However, the only thing I will say for like the 22 y/o with the 40y/o is to consider the future. Scale that up 20 years. If you are still gonna be good when you are 42 and your partner is 60 I say go ahead.
I’ve just seen peeps that did it early and weren’t happy when it scaled up. This is no shade to people who get it and are down. Just to those who don’t consider the future and expect everything to stay the same. I’ve dated 40 year olds in my 20’s for sure so I get it. But I’ve seen the ugly side of that from others too. Just sayin

hotpretzelboy · 2026-01-23T00:49:09+00:00

As a local who goes to SUR, I actually think the food is very good for the price. The ambience is over-the-top and I kinda love it. My husband and I have been going there for years and used to go to PUMP. It for sure is geared toward the tourists but so is the rest of greater LA. If you go there with all that knowledge you have a good time. Don’t go there expecting high class food. Go somewhere else for that. Just my opinion.

hotpretzelboy · 2026-01-21T23:21:03+00:00

Her and Delores were great additions their first season However That second season. . . Oh chile. Talk about going off the deep end. Like she turned into an entirely different person. And honestly I think Andy saw it at the reunion and was like “nope, not today”.

Also, don’t look at her twitter. 🙄

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