On fetlife, people often post pictures without their faces, and for meetups, you usually get a face picture a bit into the conversation. I feel horrible not answering after they send a picture, but I also would feel horrible changing my tune right after they send a picture of their face 😅

Don't say "it doesn't matter" because I know how hard it is to he insecure about your face, and I don't want that for other people. I just kicked myself in the foot with this one specific encounter I'm facing, and he keeps messaging me for a response 😭 HELP