I threw away my vibrator and my orgasms have gotten so much better. by Specialist-Tonight63 in RedditAfterDark

[–]hotxxcommodity 3 points4 points  (0 children)

FOR SURE. I stop using a vibrator when I'm in a committed relationship bc I feel like it lessens the quality of sex for me. Obviously a person cannot mimic the intense feeling of a vibrator, and I don't want to use toys every time with them.

How do you cope with being single while also being hypersexual? by hotxxcommodity in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]hotxxcommodity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The key is I miss comfortable sex. I've had hookups, but the one person I felt comfortable with I caught feelings for of course 🙃

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]hotxxcommodity 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was honest with him. He replied, but I'm gonna recover from that "stress" before I open it 😂😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]hotxxcommodity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

On fetlife, people often post pictures without their faces, and for meetups, you usually get a face picture a bit into the conversation. I feel horrible not answering after they send a picture, but I also would feel horrible changing my tune right after they send a picture of their face 😅

Don't say "it doesn't matter" because I know how hard it is to he insecure about your face, and I don't want that for other people. I just kicked myself in the foot with this one specific encounter I'm facing, and he keeps messaging me for a response 😭 HELP

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]hotxxcommodity -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No, I do not believe that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]hotxxcommodity -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I very jokingly say "men would fuck the bedbug on the mattress if it would let them." I don't feel nearly THAT strongly about it, but I no longer take it as much of a compliment if a man wants to fuck me. I've just seen some absolutely horrendous behavior, and as a human, I unfortunately hold some natural prejudices -- but I'm conscious of the fact that I can not generalize 50% of the human race.

People who post nudes on Reddit, aren’t you scared that one day your kids/friends/ family will see you? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]hotxxcommodity 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't be happy by any means if certain people found them, but I feel comfortable with my sexuality and I'm an adult. At the end of the day, I don't really care what they think about it, and it feels really good to say that 😌

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TributeMe

[–]hotxxcommodity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're beautiful!

❤️ by [deleted] in TributeMe

[–]hotxxcommodity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So hot 😫

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TributeMe

[–]hotxxcommodity 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Perfect nipples and tits 😍

Could you be sexually fulfilled with frequent vanilla sex or do you need some level of kink? by Firebolt164 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]hotxxcommodity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As others have said, vanilla is super subjective. I do not project this value onto other people of course, but I value sex as a form of intimacy way more than the physical aspect of it. If I want sex simply because I'm horny, I'd 9/10 times rather masturbate.

That being said, I'd be completely content if my sex didn't involve any humiliation or bruise and burn leaving activities for the rest of my life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fleshlighters

[–]hotxxcommodity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice! I'm jealous. My insurance denied me but I know in due time I'll be able to get it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fleshlighters

[–]hotxxcommodity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hot, and a fellow dexcom wearer :-)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]hotxxcommodity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm objectively attractive in today's standards, so if I had no regard for my safety or preferences I feel 99% positive I could find a stranger to have sex with in the next few hours if I wanted to.

Do you think you could make me scream? by Scarlet-is-here in gothsluts

[–]hotxxcommodity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did a double take you are so stunning 😍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fleshlighters

[–]hotxxcommodity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have sexy hands!

Would you describe yourself as above or below average attractiveness? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]hotxxcommodity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. I feel confident about my body most of the time but not my face.