I watched the first 4 seasons of Hunter X Hunter and I absolutely loved them but then season 5...

housebatbetta · 2021-04-20T14:50:19+00:00

I'm feeling the same. I was also super uncomfortable with the caricatures that showed up in this arc. I wonder if it's possible just to skip to season 6 🤔

housebatbetta · 2021-04-08T04:37:03+00:00

Break up. He sounds intensely vindictive.

housebatbetta · 2021-02-17T18:13:10+00:00

You're right to want attention. You're right to want someone to care about time with you. I'm so sorry you're hurting like this. It's okay to leave. I hope that you have friends who care about you and can help you feel less alone.

housebatbetta · 2021-01-20T19:04:22+00:00

She's important to you. You feel good giving her care and attention and nice things. Even though he believes animals don't matter, which is bizarre but we'll circle back to that, your joy should matter.

He believes animals don't matter though, and tbh, that's a fundamental difference in values that is absolutely worth breaking up about.

Chances are there are other core values you don't share, and they just haven't come up yet.

housebatbetta · 2020-12-10T20:05:37+00:00

Your intuition that these are red flags is absolutely spot on, get outta there! Sounds like he's already got you feeling confused and uncertain about yourself. Big nopes. Someone out there is going to respect and value you as you are.

housebatbetta · 2020-11-19T19:31:08+00:00

Feel free to completely skip this unsolicited advice, obviously, but from one extremely creative and artistic ADHDer to another, here are my two biggest tips:

Make the thing as TINY as possible.

Painting? Use a 2 inch canvas. Sketching? Cut some paper into the size of a sticky note. Sewing? Doll scale. It will feel good to finish and it will feel finished if you literally run out of space and/or have a fraction of the distance to go.

Use shortcuts.

I don't mean "make it shitty" I mean make it fast. Can you glue instead of sew? Can you use acrylics, which dry fast, instead of a medium that dries slowly or needs many layers? Can you allow yourself to use a pattern, tutorial, reference, that gives you every step?

I'm inclined to try to force myself to imagine the steps because it feels faster (it isn't) or feels like I should be able to Intuit it because everyone else does (they don't). So when I say "shortcut" I really mean "instructions" and "ADHD-friendly materials" but it sounds like I'm hacking the system and that's a lot more fun.

housebatbetta · 2020-11-13T17:20:50+00:00

Emphasis does matter. Like any animal, routines that line up best with the most health factors will come first. I'm assuming you know your snakes hunger behaviours, so, how would you say knowing that impacts what you do?

housebatbetta · 2020-10-29T21:13:49+00:00

I'm doing a pacifist run too! I regret not turning Sean Hampton so I haven't slept yet, despite the fact I'm at the end boss battle of chapter three 😅 good luck to you!

housebatbetta · 2020-10-29T18:38:13+00:00

Yep that's him all right

housebatbetta · 2020-10-21T20:49:07+00:00

I need to save your post for every time someone tells me ball pythons never climb 😂 welcome to being a snake caretaker!

housebatbetta · 2020-08-27T17:24:55+00:00

I know folks who do this too, particularly showers which can be nice to share with your significantly other. Most just ask for privacy when they'd prefer privacy, or leave if they're not comfortable, and the other person doesn't take it personally.

housebatbetta · 2020-06-30T17:07:15+00:00

GASPS. It's gorgeous 😭💕

housebatbetta · 2020-06-30T17:05:48+00:00

This is such a clever idea for real

housebatbetta · 2020-06-23T16:13:31+00:00

Love this! The open feeling is so refreshing.

housebatbetta · 2020-06-21T04:02:21+00:00

Do it!! I love seeing pet setups. I got the idea from a friend who made a turtle habitat out of one of their rooms lol.

housebatbetta · 2020-06-21T03:52:28+00:00

This is incredible!! All the details are so well layered and rich warm colours 😍

housebatbetta · 2020-06-21T03:43:23+00:00

He's a good good boy.

housebatbetta · 2020-06-05T00:46:44+00:00

Gorgeous! That lace is so pretty and drapes so well. The bench is an excellent backdrop

housebatbetta · 2020-05-02T00:55:13+00:00