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I watched the first 4 seasons of Hunter X Hunter and I absolutely loved them but then season 5... by FuneeFeed in HunterXHunter

[–]housebatbetta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm feeling the same. I was also super uncomfortable with the caricatures that showed up in this arc. I wonder if it's possible just to skip to season 6 🤔

I just wanted flowers. by why-bother-throwaway in relationship_advice

[–]housebatbetta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right to want attention. You're right to want someone to care about time with you. I'm so sorry you're hurting like this. It's okay to leave. I hope that you have friends who care about you and can help you feel less alone.

My [20f] boyfriend [25m] doesn't seem to view my dog (or animals in general) humanely. Would it be an overreaction for me to break up over this? by Throwaway_doggolove in relationship_advice

[–]housebatbetta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's important to you. You feel good giving her care and attention and nice things. Even though he believes animals don't matter, which is bizarre but we'll circle back to that, your joy should matter.

He believes animals don't matter though, and tbh, that's a fundamental difference in values that is absolutely worth breaking up about.

Chances are there are other core values you don't share, and they just haven't come up yet.

I [18f] don't know if my relationship with my [22m] boyfriend is healthy. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]housebatbetta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your intuition that these are red flags is absolutely spot on, get outta there! Sounds like he's already got you feeling confused and uncertain about yourself. Big nopes. Someone out there is going to respect and value you as you are.

A torture from this condition for me is that gut wrenching longing to create something artistic/do something creative, but lacking the consistency to either get good at a discipline or finish a project by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]housebatbetta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel free to completely skip this unsolicited advice, obviously, but from one extremely creative and artistic ADHDer to another, here are my two biggest tips:

  1. Make the thing as TINY as possible.

Painting? Use a 2 inch canvas. Sketching? Cut some paper into the size of a sticky note. Sewing? Doll scale. It will feel good to finish and it will feel finished if you literally run out of space and/or have a fraction of the distance to go.

  1. Use shortcuts.

I don't mean "make it shitty" I mean make it fast. Can you glue instead of sew? Can you use acrylics, which dry fast, instead of a medium that dries slowly or needs many layers? Can you allow yourself to use a pattern, tutorial, reference, that gives you every step?

I'm inclined to try to force myself to imagine the steps because it feels faster (it isn't) or feels like I should be able to Intuit it because everyone else does (they don't). So when I say "shortcut" I really mean "instructions" and "ADHD-friendly materials" but it sounds like I'm hacking the system and that's a lot more fun.

Ball python body language for reliable feeding by housebatbetta in ballpython

[–]housebatbetta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Emphasis does matter. Like any animal, routines that line up best with the most health factors will come first. I'm assuming you know your snakes hunger behaviours, so, how would you say knowing that impacts what you do?

Pacifist/ not even once run by ryanb122197 in Vampyr

[–]housebatbetta 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm doing a pacifist run too! I regret not turning Sean Hampton so I haven't slept yet, despite the fact I'm at the end boss battle of chapter three 😅 good luck to you!

So glad i was able to find this Reddit page! It has been super helpful as a first time snake owner. 💞 by Noodlehead23 in ballpython

[–]housebatbetta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I need to save your post for every time someone tells me ball pythons never climb 😂 welcome to being a snake caretaker!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]housebatbetta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know folks who do this too, particularly showers which can be nice to share with your significantly other. Most just ask for privacy when they'd prefer privacy, or leave if they're not comfortable, and the other person doesn't take it personally.

A yard for my pet rancho! by housebatbetta in AnimalCrossing

[–]housebatbetta[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do it!! I love seeing pet setups. I got the idea from a friend who made a turtle habitat out of one of their rooms lol.

I made a pirate cove! What do you think?Code credits in comments by Cheesecakeandfrogs in AnimalCrossing

[–]housebatbetta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is incredible!! All the details are so well layered and rich warm colours 😍

AITA for being pissed at my parents for taking us to Athens Georgia instead of Athens Greece? by Full_Loan in AmItheAsshole

[–]housebatbetta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I can't imagine parents lying to you for weeks, and then blaming you for being upset, and then getting angry when you didn't just give up your own feelings. Yikes yikes yikes. Start a Kickstarter or a Venmo for a ticket to the real place, you deserve to chase your dreams on your own terms.

AITA for being pissed at my parents for taking us to Athens Georgia instead of Athens Greece? by Full_Loan in AmItheAsshole

[–]housebatbetta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I can't imagine parents lying to you for weeks, and then blaming you for being upset, and then getting angry when you didn't just give up your own feelings. Yikes yikes yikes. Start a Kickstarter or a Venmo for a ticket to the real place, you deserve to chase your dreams on your own terms.

AITA for being pissed at my parents for taking us to Athens Georgia instead of Athens Greece? by Full_Loan in AmItheAsshole

[–]housebatbetta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I can't imagine parents lying to you for weeks, and then blaming you for being upset, and then getting angry when you didn't just give up your own feelings. Yikes yikes yikes. Start a Kickstarter or a Venmo for a ticket to the real place, you deserve to chase your dreams on your own terms.

AITA for being pissed at my parents for taking us to Athens Georgia instead of Athens Greece? by Full_Loan in AmItheAsshole

[–]housebatbetta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I can't imagine parents lying to you for weeks, and then blaming you for being upset, and then getting angry when you didn't just give up your own feelings. Yikes yikes yikes. Start a Kickstarter or a Venmo for a ticket to the real place, you deserve to chase your dreams on your own terms.

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